OK..let's mix it up...plastic surgery? Right, Wrong or Sometimes?

[taster]

Some of the people on this site think that life is "all or none" regarding plastic or cosmetic surgery...however...it is not anywhere near that simple..i am thinking of having a ? skin tag or a stye removed from my left eyelid...so..think you that males are ONLY nature lovers and would never support? link

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At the end of the day, I believe that most cosmetic surgery will not result in any real contentment...as per my link, "reconstructive", as the QA terms it, is merely to try to get back what a person once had and I really doubt that many males would oppose that. I also think that more males would go along with cosmetic surgery than is usually admitted on here if discussed on a case by case basis. Will depend on whether the male finds the change to be more attractive or less attractive..(:(:(:

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Yo Rabbit! Don't you think it is about time that you unblocked me?...O.O

[peace-love-couture]

It's not for me to determine whether it's wrong or right.

Quite frankly, I don't know anyone on here, I'm not ever gonna be in a relationship with anyone on here and I know they don't need my or anyone elses approval.

In the end, if it's something that will make YOU or the QA feel better about yourself/themselves, then do it. There is no right and wrong and it's funny how people on this site support/encourage certain cosmetic/plastic surgeries yet oppose others. I think it takes away from how "serious" I take this site because people on here are so wishy washy and bullsh*t just to appease QAs all of the time.

Also, the amount of fat lovers on here makes me automatically think "bullsh*t alert"

But uh, surgery(cosmetic or plastic) is truly a personal decision. You may have one insecurity, but you will never know how another person feels or even how the opposite gender may feel, so it's truly up to the individual.

If it's something you want, then go for it.

My friends mom had stye removal surgery and is fine. She had it when we were freshmen or sophomores in high school, so it's been a while.

[taster]

No fat lover here...I like the way the QA from my link referred to her procedures as "reconstructive" rather than "cosmetic"...fact of the matter is that some of these procedures that females want to have done make them less appealing to me...oh sure...it is their body...and...if they have the procedure done before I come along...well...que sera...we shall see...but if they want to have a procedure done which will make them less attractive while I am in a relationship? Very doubtful...):

[XRabbitHeartX]

I have nothing against plastic surgery. If someone has serious hang ups up their appearance to the point of depression and keeping them from living their lives to their full potential, then I'd say go for it. Times have changed and looks are becoming really important in everything. I mean it's been proven that having good looks will get you further in life, be it career wise or dating wise etc. Who can blame others for wanting to fit in and also get that chance of being content with themselves? We can't all have wonderful faces so who am I to say no to someone who genuinely wants surgery to improve their happiness. Of course becoming addicted to surgery is a big risk and can happen but then it's the individuals fault and I do believe the doctor's fault too. So to answer this question, I think plastic surgery is okay, whether you're male or female. Doesn't matter. Just don't overdo it.

[Lupianwolf]

I wouldn't say it's wrong, but I think most of it is insecurity which can be dealt with

without surgery,

but maybe that's biased as I wouldn't say to a transsexual that they wouldn't need surgery and it's just a mental thing they can overcome

But they're adults and have their own view of what's right/wrong so they can do what they want

[Keenway93]

Plastic surgery is both wrong and right.

Its wrong to improve things that already looks OK in my opinion. but its right to improve things that doesent look like a "normal body part" or a littler more oversized or minimized.

[taster]

I am going with you for BA...I am probably a little more liberal than you are regarding cosmetic surgery...but the classic case that burns me is when a woman has a physical feature that her husband likes (such as small breasts) and she wants to make them bigger which he will not like as well...how many times in real life would that happen?

[kdizzleforizzle91]

I'm not a fan of plastic surgery at all, but I understand that there are some cases where it makes some bit of sense. A friend of mine has an aunt who's mother and aunt both had breast cancer. Since it runs in her family, she had a boob job and had implants put in as a preventative thing... I think things like that are alright, or getting a breast reduction to lower back pain. If it's actually beneficial, then I wouldn't judge.

[taster]

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[3336PS]

skin tag is not plastic surgery. if you have it checked out, if it might grow into something, better get it remove.

if you feel that it bothers you enough, get it removed. otherwise if it is small and not all that noticeable, most people wouldn't notice.

plastic surgery, I am not fond of unless if it would hurt you in someways.

[taster]

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[fefe884]

I think plastic surgery is only right if the person needs it...like if they have 1st-3rd degree burns or if they had some kind of disease that distorted their face/body, if they have some condition that makes it hard for them to use some certain parts of their muscle/bone/body tissue, etc. Otherwise, if they have nothing wrong with them and are just simply not happy with how they look like or if they just want to look like someone else, then I count that as extreme vanity and thus is wrong. But we all have free-will, so if people decide to do it, despite the fact that they don't need it, well, it's their choice.

[Anonymous]

I'm only for it when it's reconstructive, to help a maimed soldier or burn victim Get their face back...there might be a few other exceptional cases when life really handed someone a rough hand, like a hare lip or a birth Mark the size of a postage stamp on their forehead, which I could sympathise with, but otherwise I'm totally against,

I hate the way society is going, we're becoming so intolerant and disgusted with imperfection, age and things that are just natural. People act like it's a valid reason to leave someone because their boobs aren't as perky as they were...like it never occured to them that their life partner would age.

The more people who get work done, the more acceptable it becomes and the less tolerant people become about people who choose to just live with their imperfections putting more pressure on us all to persue unrealistic standards of beauty.

[taster]

Interesting viewpoint and I do not totally disagree with you...do I know you? Reason I ask is that I would enjoy philosophising about this with you...?

[caligirl3]

i think plastic surgery is a great way for people to fix a complex or two, we are all imperfect so men have complexes just like women. A lot of men gets plastic surgery but I think a lot of them doesn't talk about it cause they think others will judge them.

[taster]

well ok...but where I go to war is when a woman wants to enhance her breasts when I prefer smaller...if this happens before we meet is eh..but if she would do that after we meet ..and in spite of what I like...well...so be it..o.O

[caligirl3]

you can't control whay others wants to do, that's selfish. cause she might hate her boobs and might have done so since she was a teenager and at the end of the day she has to do what's best for her its after all her body.

[taster]

yeah..ok..so compare that with males..should we ? do all number of things to ourselves...and if we did..would you respect us?

[caligirl3]

you mean if I had a boyfriend that wanted to get surgeries eventhough I didn't think he needs it? I would respect him yes, we can't always understand peoples complexes and issues with themselves so who are we to judge?

[taster]

OK

[jpinka]

as long as it not plastic surgery for superficial reasons like fake body parts then by all means get under that knife!

and I am no where near nature lover lol

i only like plastic surgery for those who have been in accidents. for me I think its OK to get old. yea we would be less appealing but wer suppose to get old and I think pple are taking beauty treatments too far

[taster]

Yup you so cool...<3<3<3=D

[jpinka]

hehe

[3336PS]

agree

[jpinka]

blush

[SuperPerve]

Sometimes.

If it's 'done right' and improves the persons SELF IMAGE then absolutely.

Why? Because if it makes them more confident about themselves, then what other people think doesn't matter, It's when it comes from the influence of others that its a problem

[taster]

I do not disagree..where it gets weird is a situation where a guy prefers smaller breasts and his mate wants larger...how is something like that resolved?

[SuperPerve]

Thats not resolved with plastic surgery - if she's doing it for him then its for the wrong reasons - that's not self image at all

[taster]

Nay..I am saying that he prefers smaller and she says "I'm doing it for me..not you"

[SuperPerve]

Shes right to do it anyway. She has to love the skin she's in - if he doesn't like it - well what does he like more - small boobs or her?

[taster]

How am I to love and respect a mate..who does the total opposite of what they know their mate likes?

[SuperPerve]

If your love and respect is as shallow as brast size - something that makes her feel uncomfortable about herself - thenw hat kind of friend are you?

[taster]

If she is so shallow as to do what makes her haapy without regard to her mate?

[SuperPerve]

She has the right to look out fo herself, because she knows she will always be there for herself. She doesn't know for sure you will.

[RedSmartie]

I would personally never do it, but I think people should do whatever they want to feel good about their appearance. Honestly, if you can put on makeup or go to the gym to lose weight, you should be able to get plastic surgery without being criticized. A change in appearance is a change in appearance and it shouldn't matter how it's done.

[Anonymous]

I don't think its wrong if you do it for the right reasons, like to make yourself feel better, and not for dumb reasons like for fake body parts, like fake breasts or something like that.

[taster]

Yes..if you look at my link..guys were very supportive of this female...only consider how she presented it...?

[ArielScarlett]

I'd say go for it. If it makes you happy do it. Cosmetic or not, it's nobody else's busniess what you do with your body.

[taster]

PMSL ! You pretty cool hon...except ..well..we wil discuss that again some day? <3<3<3=D

[ArielScarlett]

Hahaha..ahh, we shall.

[Anonymous]

as old as you are, don't you know people in general are dum

people here think that plastic surgery is only boob/ass implants...

[taster]

lol..yuh..I am atempting to draw a line (at least in m yown mind) between real & imagined problems..nothing I say or do..will be well received by everyone?

[Opinion Owner]

absolutely get rid of a skin tag on your eyelid...its absurd that something like that would be considered 'surgery' because of how minor it is.

[Moloch]

Do whatever makes you happy.

[Anonymous]

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[Becky89]

*rolls eyes at you* lol ;)