When to use the no contact rule?

[Anonymous]

I broke it off with a guy I was dating for 3-4 months because he wouldn't help me take the trash out. Was that silly? I miss the great sex we used to have though. But he is completely ignoring me. what's the deal with the 'no contact' thing. Is it because he never cared?

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+1 y

found this quote today and found the closure I needed. "A real woman can do it by herself… But a real man won’t let her"

[queenmab]

I think tasks like that are very important to women. It's a sign that a man truly cares and will do the little things in our life to ease our day and make us feel loved. If it was important to you then it wasn't silly. I wouldn't worry about him not contacting you. It sounds like he wasn't the guy for you.

[PixieDust]

He's self centered. I've been with a guy like this and did everything you did. I say good riddance. Move on and be happy.

[PixieDust]

Thanks for BA ;-) Be happy.

[Daniel89]

because he wouldn't take out the trash , way to make a guy feel appreciated, now he probably thinks you have to many guys on your hand and you selfish so you don't repsect guys ither that or he thinks you won't have the maturity to forgive

[martyfellow]

He's afraid you'll start in on the trash again lol.

[Asker]

LOL.. I live alone and we spent a lot of time at my place because he still lives at home. He crashed his car after we met, so I was doing all the driving. He wasn't working either, so I was doing all the spending. I just realized maybe he was the trash... glad I got rid of that. I'm over it. Thanks for listening.

[martyfellow]

Yes, it's good you stopped a one sided relationship!

[JustWantToTalk]

He thinks you're crazy..

[Asker]

mwhahaha.. because I am. Duh! lol