Thank you so much for the encouragement. I've always seen no contact as a chance just to let your ex miss you but I guess I can do that as well work on a more improved version of myself! Thanks again and hope ur love life is awesome haha :) God bless
Hahaha warning bells and flashing neon lights lmaoooo yeah that's true actually. I feel like I was just comfortable around him and I didn't actually love him? Was just used to the affection and I thought I couldn't get it from any other guy :/ any advice? And most guys aren't loyal or honest and I was holding on to the comfort that he was
I wrote a myTake on how to get over a break up: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11176-a-practical-guide-for-how-to-get-over-your-breakup-how-to-get-onI hope you'll take a look at it.
Thank you so much for the post man! I'm still upset but I figured I should cut my losses and move on. To be honest you were right, I was probably just feeling lonely and thought I couldn't get anyone else. Thanks again and God bless!
Great attitudes :) for real Tbh I was infatuation with this guy man o man handsome charm he hurt me emotionally so many times one day we went on out last date and I was just so tired of his bull shit I told him get out of my car I have not spoken to him since it's been months he still calls text. I blocked. He is just a looooooserr. I never thought I was moving on from him I was in love or infatuated for 2 years...
@Iloveasianfood1 Right! Totally block him from your life and move on.
Thanks for the comment. I won't get my hopes high and continue living my life :) so if he does want me back it'll be a pleasant surprise hehehThanks and God bless :)
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So trueeee, thanks! Just constantly worried that he will find someone if I don't talk to him :/ but if that's the case probably he wasn't that into me anyways right
That is absolutely correct
yeah we broke up 2 weeks ago, haven't spoken to him since since he's like 'you can talk/call me anytime you want', took that as a sign to not call and message him ever hahaah
Yeah sometimes the dumper says that to attempt to make it better for you. But of course it doesn't really do much... it still hurts. I think you're doing good. Keep it up and see what happens in the future. Till then, live for yourself and work on personal goals. Don't be shy to try dating again or just seeing what's out there. It can actually be good for you.
That is the answer I have been looking for thank you so much!
@RomanceMan201 My pleasure :) Glad I could help :))
HI, its more about the fact that i want him back. our relationship used to be so good. When i see the things he used to say and do. we were starting to work things out by the time i found him with a girl.
That's my point. In your mind the relationship was 'good', but if he's hanging with other girls, it's clearly not for him.
even for him it was good. but the arguments i understand him wanting to run away from it. but i get your point.
i feel like crying all the time, and the gym used to be my comfort, but i hate the gym. she goes to the same gym i do, so seeing her face its just so hurtful, its a constant reminder.
I understand all that. It's part of the grieving process when a relationship fails. Take time to heal. It's a recent wound. It will get better.
Yes but it's so hard. We introduced our parents and we were planning our engament party. I just dont understand. I know he loves me, but why would he be around this other chick. it just breaks my heart.
I was buying a house with my guy when he broke up with me. Things change. Life continues to move on. Best thing to do is move forward to.
I'd also just add that sometimes being in contact doesn't solve anything either, as often we interact and don't get what we had hoped for, because we wanted something predetermined out of the conversation. It's all about being balanced and in control
haven't spoken to him since we broke up which was 2 weeks ago, even though he was like 'you can call/message me anytime you want' 'we'll catch up after exams' (exams finish this week)
Thanks for your advice :)
Thanks mate for the encouragement and advice! God bless
Thanks for the encouragement! :)
No problem 😊
Care to elaborate? thanks
If you've been texting him a lot and no reply, it's time to stop and be patient. What I meant is that often people miss what they don't have anymore and come back however a lot when they are ignored just move on. But it depends on the circumstance.
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