How do I keep my boyfriend interested

[autumn555]

how do I keep him interested in ME? I'm currently trying to lose weight because he likes thin women and it makes me feel like a fat flop of sh*t, what are other things I can do to keep him to where he can't get enough of me?

[Simonitro]

For the body weight, losing is good for you but to keep him interested, you gotta do something a little bit special is that share with him the things he like and be interested on the stuff he likes and talk about it.

There's nothing more enjoyable having a discussion about the things in common and how you enjoy his company. If he is nice to you, you should find ways to open up for him and never shut him down.

Sometime, you need some space for one another every once in awhile but you still need to satisfy yourself along with him.

[gonyr]

I personallywouldnt advise anyone to be with someone who made them feel like that.

definitely do it for yourself

but its only natural in a relationship to go through lulls, where it seems like the other is less interested. just spice things up a bit, do something fun, whatever you need to do

[SuperCurious]

If your losing weight do it for yourself before anybody else. Losing 8 lbs in 3 days is very unhealthy. Doing it gradually is healthier and will actually be easier to keep up in the long run. If you continue doing the things that he fell in love with he will stay interested :)

[Dionysos]

DING DING DING! Best Answer alert. Especially the first sentence.

If being with him makes you feel bad about yourself, you want to take care of that right away too.

[ExperiencedYetLost]

This girl said it best, you shouldn't have to change yourself for a man. If I fall for someone, I fall for them for the person they are, not the person I want them to become. If you have to change for someone it will never work, trust me I have had people change for me when I was younger and all I did was end up breaking hearts. You need to make changes for yourself, for your own self confidence. As for how to keep a guy interested, be the best form of yourself. That's all you should do.

[SuperCurious]

Thank you :) you said it very well yourself

[3boys4me]

He's not the right guy if you feel like you have to change yourself to be w him:)

[GauravBhatia]

when he is with you,try to be some cosy with him. And try to seduce her in better way,you also have what thin girls have ,i think you got my point,so seduce in better way and don't be stubborn.

[TheManHimself]

Losig the weight will be enough.

[autumn555]

i sure hope so cause this diet is starving me and working out until I puke is frustrating but I've lost 8lbs in 3days.

[TheManHimself]

You don't need to starve, just cut the sugar and the white/yellow/brown carbs.

[Yriuqni]

This is dangerous .. and it's not cool. Just eat healthy food that makes you feel good, because if you get frustrated from your diet , you ll pretty much tend to treat your boyfriend in a bad way .. and in addition to what you're saying , you ll come off as needy and insecure. Just eat healthy, and give him space.. let him know you have a life, and that other men want you.. that works in most cases, if not all of them :)

[TheManHimself]

Not eating sugar and processed sugar is not dangerous at all, is quite the opposite, it is the only way to be healthy. So again, keys to look hot and be extra healthy:

No refined sugar

No brown sugar

No candy

No HFCS

No products made of flour, it doesn't matter what kind of flour, it could be wheat and is still bad, so no flour at all, that's processed sugar and includes things like cakes, donuts, bread, sweet bread, wraps, tortillas, chips, pasta.

Also no food cooked with oils other than olive