Am I girlfriend material?

[Anonymous]

I love sports. I watch ESPN everyday and I watch games any chance I get. I'm always playing basketball because that is my favorite sport. I love to watch the WWE. I love talking about cars. I think the worst movie ever created is The Notebook. My favorite movies are sports movies, Rush Hour, and Friday. I don't like girl singers. I like rock music. I usually wear shorts, t-shirts, jeans, and tennis shoes. I do dress up some times. Everyone always tells me that I will never get a boyfriend if I keep acting like this. I mean I have manners and I'm a complete tomboy. Is this true? Do guys not like girls like me?

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I meant I'm not a complete tomboy.

[TheDigitalSaint]

I am not attracted to complete tomboys. I'll be 100% honest and say that your personality would not be something I would find appealing. I'm not casting judgment on you as a person, you're just not what I'm looking for. That's not to say that there aren't guys out there that would love you. Guys are like girls, each of us likes different flavors of the opposite sex. There's no universal rule of guys liking tomboys over girlie girls or vice versa.

Each person is different, but I'm sure that your style is attractive to some men. Don't worry, you'll be just fine. Just make sure to develop a slighly softer side once in awhile. A little bit of affection and frills around the edges help make tomboys more rounded. Likewise, girlie girls should learn to appreciate getting a little dirt under their nails once in awhile. Balance is key.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Being attracted to a girl also has to do with her emotional stability and other attributes like kindness, intelligence and so forth. Your interests are not your sole factor in determining if guys will like you or not. You have to be a whole package, just as you are looking for certain qualities in a man.

[290505735]

The real question is, what is girlfriend material?

What your saying now is pretty much saying you think that a girl would have to be girly to be girlfriend material. Really depends on who the guy is. Some wouldn't mind at all and would love the fact that you have the same interests as him. I know a girl who is everything you just explain yourself to be, and she has a boyfriend.

[adorkabletmtm]

I agree "worst movie ever created is The Notebook." I love "watching" sports, I love WWE, in fact, I'm watching RAW right now, shorts.. blahblahblah.. okay.. are you girlfriend material? Of course...

Answering your question "Do guys not like girls like me?"

Perhaps they are intimidated.

[Asker]

That's funny. I'm watching RAW right now too.

[adorkabletmtm]

Draft! Draft! Draft! THREE HOURS!

[Anonymous]

Some will, some won't. That's how it is for most cases.

Just because you are a tomboy doesn't mean you aren't a girl. I consider myself a tomboy on most days...but when I dress up and make an effort, I remind them that I'm just as beautiful as any "girly girl" out there.

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't the guys like you? You sound like a really cool dude !