Am I Ugly, Inside or out?

[anonymous0418]

I'm not fat, but I am thick. I have a huge butt, love handles, thick thighs. I'm 5'3". I'm a B38, so I'm not top heavy. I have med length, blond hair. I have long, black eyelashes, my eyes are big and they change color, they are always bright. I have full lips and straight, white teeth. I'm pale with a pink and peach touch.

I smile a lot, laugh a lot and I am very random but at the same time, I'm shy and quiet until you get to know me. I love animals, art, and music. I'm constantly looking to learn knew things; I'm smart. I genuinely care for people. I volunteer at a local animal shelter. I'm always trying to make people smile and laugh. I'm really nice to people, even when they aren't nice to me. But there are times where I can have an ugly attitude and I can be selfish sometimes, I really try not to be.

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I sent a photo message to Jeston.

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[MrOracle]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. By your description, you are pear-shaped and heavier-than-average for your height. In some places, that's a desirable thing, and in other places, not so much. If you feel your weight/shape is a problem where you live, then perhaps you need to work on that. I *will* say that a lot of guys prefer not to date girls who are on the heavy side, especially if they are already heavy at your age, because the tendency is to keep gaining weight as you get older. That doesn't mean you are ugly, it just means your body type doesn't match the local ideal.

As far as the "inside", the fact that you are quiet and shy can also be a problem. People who are shy (guys or girls) are very often mistaken for being uninterested or even condescending because they act uncomfortable around new people and don't talk much or get involved in the conversations, and tend to sit off in a corner by themselves. Rarely do people assume that that means the person is shy; they always assume the worst and thing "this person doesn't like me/doesn't want to be here/doesn't like my friends/isn't interested in me." I bet you've done that to someone else before, and lots of people think that of you, whether you realize it or not.

You sound like a great person, but you've got a barrier or two up that prevent people from getting to know you, and they can't like you until they get to know you. Work on being more outgoing; sit with the group/in the center of the room and get involved in the conversations. Smile, laugh, and let people see you having fun, and you'll be FAR more attractive to them, and they'll be much more likely to approach you.

[GabeyBaby]

Like anyone, you need to figure out what your assets are and highlight them. From what I can see, you have nice eyes and the potential for good eyebrows (shape them though). A little bit of makeup, but not too much, would probably go a long way for you. As far as your attitude, the good thing is that you notice your own behavior - I know some people who are in their 70's and still lack the ability to be introspective!

[anonymous0418]

Thanks lol.

[bijinbijinbijin]

insecure people who rely on others for self approval instead of believing in themselves and being happy with oneself are indeed ugly.

[adamfk1]

die

[anonymous0418]

I don't need self approval from other people; I'm content with myself. I want opinions from others and a perspective that isn't my own.

People that speak like you do, negatively, instead of holding their tongue, or in this case, their fingers, are indeed ugly.

[dwelz314]

you are not ugly at all inside nor outside you are a beautiful person and you need to start complimenting your self and stop putting your self down, you seem like you have a great personality and if some people don't like you it's not that you are stupid or ugly they are just narrow minded and immature, you need to be happy with your self and love your self you are beautiful.

[PhilaPenn]

I don't know what you look like, you've described some random features, it's hard to give an answer with out a picture. As for your personality...you can't make a full judgement off of a paragraph. However, the fact that you 've posted this question at all makes me think that you do need some affirmation. So there is some vulnerability. Some guys find that attractive.

[madhatters4]

I rarely ever have called someone "ugly" unattractive to me but ugly no.

Based on a description of your personality you sound awesome. I'm not going to say much about your physical appearance (especially without a picutre) aside from that you don't sound "ugly"

[madhatters4]

if the link is a pic of you then you are DEF not ugly on the outside

[helloyes]

whats your opinion on your face? how good is your make up skills? how much do you weigh? your body can be fixed with good exercise(email me if interested) 20 minutes a day. face can't. you sound like a great person though

[helloyes]

you have a good cute face you're fine message me and be honest about how much weight you need to lose I can make you hot really quickly

[anonymous0418]

I weigh 138, I want to lose 20lbs.

[Konnour]

You sound really really gorgeous according to that description.. but it wouldn't hurt to actually show a picture to ensure

[Konnour]

@ the update: I can see that you lied a bit about some things of your appearance, but nevertheless you look good, get rid of your insecurity

[anonymous0418]

Uh, thanks, but I didn't lie. You could actually tell if I were standing in front of you in person.

[jeston]

i don't judge but to me your beautiful.

[PoeticNinja]

How can you say that without seeing a picture and IRL.

[jeston]

lfrom what you said about your self. I dontsee nothing rong about you.. people are nnot ugly on the in side nor out.. we are made our own way.. that like me saying I'm ugly on the outside but nice on the endside.. .. people can't judge you by how you look I mean I know its rong and I get judges all the time but I dontworry about it .. I mean if you like how you look than you have nothing to worry about its all about you that matters . .send me a pic than

[jeston]

and ill be honest with you

[jeston]

your beautiful trust and believe

[anonymous0418]

Thanks

[jeston]

yw

[worzt]

sounds perfect to me inside and out :)

[Anonymous]

A picture is worth a thousand words.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow you are hot! :D could you answer mine link

[shahab00x]

too much description. Need a photo.

[shahab00x]

You look pretty cute. If you say you are a little over weight then you should try and lose some weight, and you'll be totally hot.

[rocksongwriter]

Need a photo.

[Anelker]

Agreed. The description was white noise.

[rocksongwriter]

"White noise" ... I like that.

[Anonymous]

im ugly out side and no girl wants to be with me

[Opinion Owner]

are you messing with us , you are stunning. The only way you can be single is that you are turning guys down . here look at me link

[anonymous0418]

No, lol that's not why I'm single. But thank you.