Is this true or not about no contact with an ex?

[Anonymous]

Who here believes that having no contact with an ex can make them miss you and regret breaking up with you ?

or even can bring you closer ?

[missymarkath]

I think the whole point of no contact is to help yourself move on from that person. I haven't had contact with my ex in about 4 months now and I couldn't be happier. The first almost 2 months we were broken up we would go a few days without talking, then talk again, repeat. it was an emotional roller coaster.

Honestly all of my exes...after some time... end up apologizing to me with things they did during the break up. it didn't bring us back together, but that time away gave each of us time to think about the relationship.

[Asker]

ya time is good, he hurt me a lot and ignored me for months and now he's likin my picture hurts me even more cause I feel if he is gonna ignore me than just leave me alone ..dont tease

[missymarkath]

if it still hurts you, then you aren't ready to communicate with him.

im assuming you are talking about Facebook? or some sort of social media?

no contact means no contact . you need to delete that person from all communication - phone, email, Facebook, twitter, everything.

[Asker]

i have him on fcb ye but I thought if I delete him he will notice how bitter I am about it all..how he got in a rel etc and I want to show I don't give a sh*t..we werent in a rel only dated for a looong time..

[Asker]

He has done something before..not dated others but ignored me and came back after 5 months..but we went a year and half with no fighting and all..i felt like I lost my best friend and he didn't give a sh*t..and now he comes liking my pic..i get mad

[missymarkath]

he would have to understand that if you deleted him from fb or anything that you are doing it for your own good. don't let him keep giving you that roller coaster I talked about above. don't let him keep coming back to you. it doesn't matter what he thinks or feels, what matters is what you think and feel. take care of YOU.

[Asker]

you are right :(

[aMuse]

Not I... No communication and no presence in one's life leads to an unrecoverable end. It's like the grim reaper of relationships. The only time no contact will make someone miss you, is if things ended badly, you hurt them, and they had no closure. That won't bring you together closer though, it will just build resentment and hate towards you for not resolving the problem and leaving them in pain.

[Asker]

my ex did that to me..suddently ignored me than dated another girl..they broke up after one month but he hasn't talked to me..recently on Monday he liked my fcb pic after 5 months of ignoring me

[aMuse]

Sounds like things didn't work out between you two. He broke up because certain things were bothering him. That doesn't mean he still doesn't like part of you. He had to, in order to want to be with you to start with. So, those lingering feelings were present, he went and screwed with another girl for a rebound to try and clear up those old thoughts. That didn't work, and he's not dating anyone right now so thoughts of old girls entered his head. He checked out your FaceBook looked at

[aMuse]

a few pics and then went on with life. I'm not a fan of rebound relationships, and I know feelings can linger after a real relationship, even when you were the one that breaks it off. I had mixed feelings about my last ex for about a year after I broke up with her. I was heart broken because of the relationship degraded and how messy things were in the end. During that year I thought a lot about everything that had happened. I had no desire to be back with her again, but I did think about her.