Ladies you don't want kids cause you'll gain weight?

[Anonymous]

Is that why some of you don't want children. Because you don't want to damage your figure? I understand if it's for financial reasons though.

[Anonymous]

I just lost almost over half my weight, so no I don't want kids right now, I feel like it would ruin all my progess you know what I mean? But, maybe one day, if I get married. But, I do NOT agree with these young teens getting pregnant. It should be marriage and THEN kids. If you aren't married don't have sex or use protection, many forms of protection! I've always used 2 condoms and birth control! For the very few times I've had sex. But, gaining weight isn't my thing right now, I'm 22 but at this age I can't even stand a baby crying with out wanting to smack it as I get older I assume ill calm down lol, they say when its your own its different

[TinaM]

I have never wanted kids. I'm 32 years old now and those feelings haven't changed so I don't think they're for me. Yes, pregnancy does turn me off, as does childbirth, especially natural childbirth, to be completely honest, but it's more than that. I don't like babies, find them irritating, and I don't want to sacrifice my lifestyle. They're not for everyone, and it doesn't make me a bad person, or selfish, and I'm tired of hearing that. Not everyone likes the same things out of life. I think it would be a heck of a lot worse bringing an unwanted child into the world just because society expects women to procreate. No thanks.

[Asker]

true ahahah

[harveykinkle]

I don't understand why people try to make us out to be bad people for not wanting kids! Worse would be bringing unwanted children into the world...

[justbanANNAz]

If everyone thought of it that way thered b far less babies entering this world hehe. I think the birth of a child is a wonderful thing, regardless of weight gain. Old fashioned working out a d good eating should do it:) I'm not married or anything but I don't believe any reason should turn having a baby into something to worry about. THEYR SO CUTE!:D

[Asker]

AHAHAH so true :3 thanks

[Anonymous]

That's not my only reason. I've never been thin and I'm struggling with my weight,so I don't want to gain more. I know that this sounds hateful but that's truth for me. Also, there's no man in this world who would be willing to be the father of my children.

[Asker]

no I totally get you. :)

[Opinion Owner]

It's sad but that's the truth...

[Anonymous]

That and having something in there, pushing a baby out, I don't want ugly stitches in my stomach if I have to get a C section, don't want a loose vagina, can't eat certain foods and it's expensive to raise a kid. Plus I don't have the patience for a kid. I have terrible anxiety and depression. So I can't be off my meds and I have to be on blood thinners for life for my blood clot.

[Asker]

holy sh*t! aw man sorry to hear. but thanks for answering :)

[LovelySerene]

I'm unsure...If I have a child, there would be a 50% chance that they would have my disability, and I'm not sure if I could bear that. It would be a long talk with whoever I marry. But adopting is something I would consider.

[Asker]

oh :(

[Toxicproblem]

I want kids so I can gain weight lol

but also because I love kids

Most women don't want kids because of the figure reason, and they feel that they will loose their sense of freedom.

[Asker]

true so true

[misupanda]

I want kids very badly, personally.

However, I want to wait until I am married and financially stable.

[Asker]

okay :)

[harveykinkle]

No. We could exercise it off.

I don't think I could happily dedicate 20+ years to others without feeling trapped.

[Asker]

trueeeeeee

[lauramor]

The only reason why I wouldn't have kids is for the pain or a complication

[Anonymous]

i don't mind weight gain.

stiches in my vagina though .. that's another story

[Asker]

LOL OUCH thanks :)

[ketfoen]

lmao @ stitches in my vagina. The stitches mostly come between your vagina and rectum when you get a partial or full rupture when giving birth. You will most likely not feel it tearing, because the contractions takes that part of the pain away. When they do sown that part up you won't feel it, because it goes numb. Only after a day or 2 will the pain come and it will have a burning itching sensation.

[Anonymous]

yes that and financial reason also I want to travel.

[Anonymous]

Nah, lots of women don't want kids because of the financial side of them