He called me out on not looking him in the eye?

[Anonymous]

So, there's this guy...we used to be super sexual over text then we just kinda stopped...and so we happened to go to the same event...We talk a bit and he notices I struggle with keeping eye contact with him. He calls me out on it. Is it just me or is keeping eye contact with people who you were sexual with hard? or a person you like...idk I felt really bad. Should I ?

[talloak]

You certainly shouldn't feel bad about it! It's not like you are doing it to be rude. I'm not surprised that he notices this but calling you out on it seems a bit too much to me. An awful lot of people struggle to make eye contact in the best of circumstances. Most have the problem in certain situations. The situation you described seems reasonable. If this happens again, you could ask him, "Why does it bother you?"