So I’m on the fence on whether I should get him a gift or not. Backstory: I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a year. He’s weird he calls me babe, his queen, my love, bebe etc. We act like we are together but he make sure to remind me we are “friends” every once in a while. I work for him and we purchased a car together. He helps me pay my bills etc. It’s complicated. However I’m not sure if I should get him a gift or not. My friends say I should. Would you give him a gift or not. A part of me doesn’t want to. But I’m not sure if he will feel some type of way. Should I get him something?
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He got me some Christmas gifts. So I guess it’s only right to get him something.
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If I was you I would just ask him are we dating or friends I good either way but I'm not enjoying mix signals. You can get him a gift if as friend or partner. I wouldn't let anyone play games with your head like that.
Actually this is really good advice. So I can not get him a gift. If he getd upset I can say well your not my boyfriend.
Not very much complicated about giving him girlfriend benefits without demanding a title after all this time. Get him a gift if you want but it’s only fueling a dead end situation, digging you deeper in a hole. I hope you get yourself out one day when you stop hoping for the fantasy.
So no gift. I don’t really want to give him a gift.
Definitely not
Seeing him for a year and there’s no title?
No, you’re just a sex doll to him honestly
We aren’t having sex.
I wish that would be nice 😊
You sound like a very horny woman
By choice but yea something like that.
Women like getting their pussies filled, I don’t judge them. So long as they are classy about it.
Women have needs just like us men do
Definitely, I have options but it’s just not fulfilling so I’ve chose to go without which is new, but I feel empowered if that makes sense.
Lol no pun intended with that use of word.
Yeah I hear you, women want commitment just as badly as they want sex