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Family issues what is this?

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My brother and his wife moved into my mothers house.

I returned home to find their clothes everywhere mess they dont buy groceries and expect my mum to cook for them which she does cuz she loves my brother who is the youngest.

I have only ever known it to be pristine.

My brother followed me round like a security guard.

I told him they are disrespectful to my mom.

My mom she says not to fuss and to concentrate on my own house n that she is fine not senile.

Brother said im banned from going to my mothers house.

Sent message said HE will sell my mums property cuz we ALL dont get along.

My sister and her husband have also had issues with my brother avoid him.

My sister n i used to go over to our mom get advice we both stopped no longer private feel unwelcome.

6 months after my brother sending me that message mom advertised ENTIRE property up for sale.

I asked where am i to go - my sister cried

Cannot trust my mother.

Christmas ALWAYS at my mothers - except last year where with all the stress of my brother banning me from her home - my mum said she was not doing Christmas.

My sister did bfast mom came - my brother and his wife did not even though my sister invited.

Told mom i did not think she loved me because she "let" my brother ban me from the home i grew up in and now she will be selling my home from under me.

I dont trust anyone.

Mum says she wants her family together and will be doing Christmas this year.

I want to be there for "her" happiness she is old and won't be around forever - but - i cannot forget that i was banned from same home - which was confirmed to me by my mum when i asked her how could she let that occur - i see that as betrayal

Do i go and risk nasty attitudes.

Do i go away for a Christmas holiday just to avoid it.

Or do i say no you banned me remember?

Family issues what is this?
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