Majority of people really do, i did when i was still in the matrix, now i care for my health, but not pure aesthetics, for me it is all in the essence.
I still think appearance is a quality that needs to be focused on. Nobody will appreciate looking like they messed themselves up purposely, and knowing their appearance is already knowing a trait of them.
Nice take! I'm friends with this gorgeous guy, but not everyone seems to see him as good looking. I have no clue why! He's a bit intimidating to be honest :P
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Yesterday I accepted a date man who is very overweight, bald, has weird looking teeth, and is the wrong religion...
because he was also pleasant, intelligent, respectful, kind...
I'm constantly worried about my looks because people have always called me ugly. Mostly guys.
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Does that worry make you feel any better? Has it managed to positively change anything in your life? Do you want to date someone who says you're ugly? It's natural to worry a little about our looks, but too much is the problem. When you become so focused on what a few people say rather than building up within you a self-esteem that says I like what I have going on.
@cclulu Thank you :) You're right about saying a guy is cute, but they could at least have the courage to make eye contact and maybe come and talk to guys. We enjoy attention to it's just that we never get it, or at least I don't.
You actually are quite handsome judging from your profile pic, and by the way it's a fact that most girls aren't going to approach a guy or give them eye contact especially if they're attracted to them. Sounds crazy but I'm the same.
I used to think looks were everything when I was younger, I'm so glad that I've become aware of the many other elements of yourself that are more important. Great MyTake!
You're right man, looks are important tbh, when you're ugly its harder to get away with things in life, like myself. Look at good looking people who are living the life, an example Jeremy Meeks, he was good looking and all girls died over him, and look at him now.
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Majority of people really do, i did when i was still in the matrix, now i care for my health, but not pure aesthetics, for me it is all in the essence.
I still think appearance is a quality that needs to be focused on. Nobody will appreciate looking like they messed themselves up purposely, and knowing their appearance is already knowing a trait of them.
Nice take!
I'm friends with this gorgeous guy, but not everyone seems to see him as good looking. I have no clue why! He's a bit intimidating to be honest :P
Yesterday I accepted a date man who is very overweight, bald, has weird looking teeth, and is the wrong religion...
because he was also pleasant, intelligent, respectful, kind...
and HE ASKED!
no one else has asked me!
"a date request from a man"
I worry about my looks because nobody has ever complimented them (besides my mom and aunt) and I've been rejected a good few times.
I don't worry too much about my 71 yr old looks. :D
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Its real looks always important hard to confident in my teenage too, especially in girls.
Looks will fade as you age. If you place high priority on your appearance, then you will lose important parts of your personality.
except with Guys, we get better looking until 80
Well looks are very imortant and some of us are ugly (like me) I'm very skinny and short and meh faced so I feel looks are of great importance
I'm constantly worried about my looks because people have always called me ugly. Mostly guys.
Does that worry make you feel any better? Has it managed to positively change anything in your life? Do you want to date someone who says you're ugly? It's natural to worry a little about our looks, but too much is the problem. When you become so focused on what a few people say rather than building up within you a self-esteem that says I like what I have going on.
I wish some girl would say I'm attractive but no one has ever said that to me (in real life that is and not counting relatives and much older women)
Then maybe you aren't attractive
@JamestheKorean Yes man you don't need to say that. I go through enough misery already
@tasos96 beauty is in the eye of the beholder, ignore him.
You're cute :) Nws. Most girls will not look at the guy in the eyes nor have the courage to tell him he is cute first hand anyways lolz.
@cclulu Thank you :) You're right about saying a guy is cute, but they could at least have the courage to make eye contact and maybe come and talk to guys. We enjoy attention to it's just that we never get it, or at least I don't.
You look cute in your profile pic. :D
@Nate1941 Thank you :)
You actually are quite handsome judging from your profile pic, and by the way it's a fact that most girls aren't going to approach a guy or give them eye contact especially if they're attracted to them. Sounds crazy but I'm the same.
@WhereIsMyMind Thank you for your kind words. I guess I have a lot to work on within. You're very pretty too, but not as pretty as Trump 😂
stop it
@JamestheKorean thats not fair
donald trump needs a good thump candy floss on his head from the fayre lol
Thank you! I needed this so much! I worry about things like this way too much and that is a big problem, which I haven't fixed. I haven't made it
The truth you looking for :
Go on youtube and type FACEandLMS
I am conscious about looking my best, but OBSESSED? Don't think so. :-P
you are obsessed go on admit it lol
@BOUNTYGUY9 not QUITE obsessed, just highly self-aware! :-D
so true thank you
I have to admit I'm obsessed with beauty I wish I could be perfect so I try to be as neat as I can but it's not easy 😩
I used to think looks were everything when I was younger, I'm so glad that I've become aware of the many other elements of yourself that are more important. Great MyTake!
I do worry too much :/ It has been struggle to accept myself. I think i am closer now.
I still need to lose 20 more lbs or I'll never be pretty.
I sometimes worry about my looks because when I see a cute girl and she isn't really looking at me, this might be because of my own looks.
girl could be shy and she can still see you with out looking at you straight on
You're right man, looks are important tbh, when you're ugly its harder to get away with things in life, like myself. Look at good looking people who are living the life, an example Jeremy Meeks, he was good looking and all girls died over him, and look at him now.