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Do you act nicer or more abrupt and indifferent towards a colleague who has a crush on you?

Say that you can tell that someone at work has a crush on you. Do you act nicer and gentler towards them, or do you try to help them stop liking...

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Is a guy that mentions alcohol too much on a first date an alarm bell?

He likes to drink socially and have hang overs on the weekends, frequently has a glass of alcohol with his lunch, and suggests to me future events...

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Is it rude not to ask colleagues how their holidays went before you jump right in to work related questions the moment you see them after holidays?

Like, can I just do the usual "hi, how are you, is there anything pressing that I should do right now?", or should I also ask them how their...

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Colleague didn't say goodbye before leaving for the holiday?

A colleague came in to my office to pass on some work-related information five minutes before she was going to leave for her Christmas vacation,...

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If a woman told you she was a lesbian, would you find yourself wishing you were a lesbian so that you could potentially be with her?

I find myself doing that sometimes. For some reason, even though I don't start having kissing/sex fantasies about her after this revelation, I...

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Why am I always drawn to people with type-A personality thinking we have many things in common when it's evident to everyone else we don't?

And of course it never ends well. I always wind up driving them nuts with my slower personality. So why do I always think we have so much in...

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Are you nicer to your partner than you are to friends/acquaintances, or are the advantages to being in a relationship (ex to be taken care of) a myth?

The other day someone basically implied that a good reason to be in a relationship with someone is that they will respond to your needs more...

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Do you do Google searches on people you're about to go on dates with?

And if you do, do you pretend that you haven't researched them, and ask them questions during the date that you already know the answers to due to...

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Why don't women having affairs speed up the process of the man leaving his wife by telling his wife herself that he's having an affair?

Women having affairs with married men often nag at the guy to leave his wife, only for him to find all kinds of excuses that the timing is wrong....

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Are you drawn to codependent relationships?

Do you get all excited about someone (potential friend or partner) who you think needs rescuing, especially when it looks like you're the only one...

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Do you feel good when someone compliments you on your name?

Do you react as though they are complimenting you as a person as well, or do you feel awkward because you didn't do anything to get your name?

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Why is it not a good idea to say "I feel like I've known you my whole life", and why do many people say it to people?

Dating experts suggest not to say that to your date. Why do they suggest against it? Why do people often want to say that to their date in the...

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How do you avoid men thinking they can just wait to be asked to do things for you once you're married together, and being slow to take action on them?

And on top of all that, they expect you to clap and praise them for stuff they should be doing without being asked, let alone without praise. How...

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Does your crush do things that you wish would help you get over them but instead just makes you angry at them, while still crushing on them?

Things ranging from them not making eye contact with you when you pass each other in the hall, to them not remembering interactions you had...

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How can I be safe when giving men my phone number that they ask for?

I know that girls all the time give out their phone numbers after only talking/knowing the guy for 5 minutes. But is that actually safe? How can...

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What questions did you ask your date on the first date and what did you conclude about your date based on their answers?

Were the questions you asked just ones that you thought off the top of your head nervously, or did you come to the date with specific questions to...

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What tv shows do you recommend with characters with strong emotional intelligence?

Emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to understand and manage your own emotions, as well as recognize and influence the emotions of...

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Why do parents fight for full custody of their kids in divorce, instead of celebrating the idea of having days off from having kids around the house?

I mean really, why don't they just assume 50/50, whereby the child spends half the week with one parent, and the other half with the other parent?...

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Would you go out with this girl?

How would you rate this girl's attractiveness? Would you go out with her? If not, what do you think she should devote her life to if she can't be...

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Do you have violent fantasies about women in your life?

Do you ever get so angry at how much emotional power the women in your life have over you, that you have violent thoughts about getting even with...

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