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Restraining orders aren't placed on victims. They are in place to protect the victims from harassment or potential danger. If you don't want a restraining order placed on you, make sure you don't... Break Up & Divorce

Since you haven't even met him, don't let your heart get ahead of yourself. Just let him know you want to learn all you can about the college and college experience. Ask him how his experience... Dating

It's more about choosing healthy compatible partners than holding onto dysfunctional relationships. If you wouldn't want your daughter to be in a relationship with him, leave the relationship. You... Relationships

Your thought process is taking you in a healthy direction. What you were feeling you recognize as selfish, for you didn't want him to be happy if it didn't include you. Now, you realize how much... Break Up & Divorce

You seem to be drawn more to illusion than reality. That is common when people are raised with fantasy and romance. You acknowledge the fact that love and romance are two different things, yet I... Relationships

Reframing the story can be helpful, but lying to yourself and others will only keep reminding you of him and your lie. Instead, view him as a stepping stone toward your long-term objective.... Break Up & Divorce

Focus on yourself rather than others. Your insecurity is based on feeling you don't measure up, so that feeling will never go away by focusing on others. Determine what your expectations are of... Relationships

A prenup keeps previously owned separate property separate. It does not impact any earnings (unrelated to that separate property) or other acquired property during the marriage. Do you feel you... Marriage & Weddings

The more we give, the more we receive. The more we take, the quicker the well runs dry. The ideal relationship is between two givers. At first, they may be confused as to who is giving and who is... Relationships

It's time for introverts and shy people to stop buying into the belief they can't make quality partners. Though opposites tend to attract, similarities are more likely to result in compatibility.... Dating

People find it easier to focus on others rather than themselves, yet the only one they'll have any control over is themselves. When we look at others, everything appears 2-dimensional, whereas... Relationships

People who believe in love at first sight don't really know what love is. Love is something that builds as two people choose to create and nurture a relationship. It's the depth that develops, not... Relationships

Guys don't generally appreciate material goods like women do. They'd prefer receiving things they can't provide for themselves. Be a sounding board to show him you believe in his ability to think... Relationships

You say she's the daughter of an acquaintance, not a friend of yours, so she may be reluctant to believe you don't have an agenda of your own. Bringing food to a stranger may appear to be coming... Relationships

We're often conditioned to follow a particular path, and we rarely question our conditioning. You were taught the value of a career, so that's where you put the majority of your energy. In time,... Relationships

I have never been drawn to society's version of beauty. To me it looks phony and plastic, and it appears they prioritize making themselves look different than they are rather than make the most of... Dating

There is intensity with passion, but some people experience it like driving a hotrod with no brakes. When it becomes a blind extreme, without maintaining consideration for how it may be impacting... Relationships

Ask yourself whether you want to be in a relationship with someone who desires and appreciates you as you are or someone who, at best, tolerates you because you like him. One-way relationships... Relationships

Jealousy has nothing to do with how a person feels about you. It has nothing to do with you at all. Jealousy is all about the person feeling jealous. It is merely a statement of feeling... Relationships

Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't feel about you the way you feel about him? How would you feel if your partner had to fantasize about other women in order to be intimate with you?... Relationships