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When you got excited when you got your first tricycle, was that excitement fake... because it wasn't a real bicycle? Our first experiences tend to be very intense, even though we have no idea how... Relationships

I understand how people use divorce to legitimize not fully exploring what they're getting into. It's like abortion. I feel it needs to be an option, but I don't believe in using abortion as birth... Break Up & Divorce

The key is to focus on the positive that exists rather than the negative or what's missing. No one will ever be perfect... including you. Let's say you go to a fancy restaurant for dinner. There... Dating

This has nothing to do with him. It's all about your own insecurities. You focus on him because it is easier than focusing on yourself. You will never have a healthy relationship as long as you... Relationships

People who feel downtrodden often overcompensate by getting in everyone's face and being aggressive. They feel entitled to be insensitive to others, believing others have been insensitive to them.... Dating

Nice people take the feelings of others into consideration, whereas there are many people who only focus on their own sense of entitlement. When selfish people push ahead, nice people generally... Relationships

When people talk about soulmates, they're generally implying the relationship is fated, and it will continue no matter what either of them do. Lack of active involvement will destroy any... Relationships

If you don't believe the two of you will be happy together long-term, then call off the wedding. Talk with people who have settled, and you'll see how they regret that decision. The person you've... Marriage & Weddings

Chances are you have abilities others would appreciate. Volunteer your time. Helping others believe in themselves or stand on their own two feet will increase your self-esteem and motivation and... Relationships

As long as people respond to inane questions, people will continue to pose the same types of questions. We can't control one side (admin) and ignore the other side (people who fuel negativity and... Holidays

Some people choose to be true to themselves, while others choose to portray an image for selfish gains. If their focus is on attracting others, that's a big red flag. These patterns are obvious,... Relationships

You have 3 options. You can stay as you are and not get into any relationships for the rest of your life. You can get in relationships as you are and experience constant doubt and conflict. You... Relationships

The key is clear, open, honest communication. The downfall of most relationships is when people withhold pertinent information or are deceptive. Prioritize making sure he always feels safe, secure... Relationships

Strong romantic feelings are usually more likely based on fantasy than reality. We see only what we want to see. Since fantasy only deals with what is developing in our own head, reality tends to... Relationships

Some people are drawn to specific colors, shapes and sizes, but those, in and of themselves, will never hold a relationship together long-term. Let's say your favorite food is apple pie. Could you... Dating

The best revenge is showing how enjoyable and successful it is to take the high road. Be a role model rather than perpetuate negativity, yet never push your choices in the face of others (implying... Relationships

People are more likely to totally disconnect when deception was the reason for the breakup. If you don't believe you can trust the person, you probably won't want to maintain contact with that... Break Up & Divorce

Obviously, certain lifestyle differences are incompatible with each other, but beliefs aren't necessarily an issue, unless they are forced onto others. If one person is religious and the other an... Relationships

The most stable systems are those based on equality. When one feels a need to be above others, then others are pushed down and minimized. Frequently, I've heard people say they need to win all the... Relationships

Maturity is determined by the age of the individual. A 22-year-old who acts like a 14-year-old is immature, whereas a 10-year-old who acts like a 12-year-old is not immature. Generally, the best... Relationships