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Settling will always be a mistake, as you'll resent your partner, and your self-esteem will drop. There's a big difference between settling and being realistic. Ask yourself what you seek from a... Relationships

Make him something. That is something you can personalize specifically for him. You can bake something or knit something or draw something or anything else where you can show your talents. Relationships

Expiration dates on food are there to inform you of ideal taste through that time. It has nothing to do with what's unhealthy. If there's something wrong with the food, it will taste or smell bad,... Dating

It's easy to judge others when we don't get our way, but what have we accomplished? You are turning "I love you" into an obligation, not a declaration of what is being felt right now. This only... Relationships

It is true there are many contributing factors to people's decisions, but that doesn't minimize the fact their decisions are theirs alone. Blaming others for our decisions is just showing our... Relationships

How can we expect others to be respectful of our choices if we're not respectful of their choices? There's a big difference between enjoying an activity and insisting your partner join in. I would... Relationships

This is something that would be unique to you. Everyone has his or her own personal deal breakers. Beyond your own deal breakers, see if he shows consideration for others or focuses only on his... Relationships

No one has anything to gain by lying, but that doesn't mean you need to reveal information that isn't pertinent to the relationship. Do you really feel it is important to describe the results to... Relationships

I understand you have two Maids of Honor, and the two of you are planning the bachelorette party/parties. You are planning this for the brides, so it's important they're part of the decision... Marriage & Weddings

Will you be competent to do brain surgery on your first day in medical school? No one really knows what love and relationships are before having experience in that area. No matter how much others... Relationships

The problem is people feel entitled to focus on negatives. Whatever direction you choose to focus is the direction you'll go. If you're critical of negative, you'll get more negative. If you're... Relationships

Chances are he hasn't added your contact information to his address book. Generally, when you are listed as a contact, the potential scammer notification disappears. Is this an issue for him or... Dating

Don't put a label on it. Just enjoy your time together. How the two of you interact together will determine if both of you want to take it further. If he had no interest, he wouldn't have reached... Dating

This is the reason it's important to do our research before committing to a relationship. Will we appreciate all aspects of the relationship long-term, or will we end up frustrated when the... Relationships

Just because there is a fresh pile of dog poop on the sidewalk, that doesn't mean you have to step in it. Be observant, and don't take paths that won't take you where you want to go. Never expect... Relationships

Before you say or do anything, ask yourself whether you'd truly appreciate being on the receiving end of what you plan to dish out. If you'd only tolerate it, at best, come up with an alternative.... Dating

For any species to thrive, the gene pool needs to be diversified, and the offspring needs to be protected. I'm not saying this is ideal in our present day society or we can't overcome our nature,... Relationships

The problem here is you're talking at your friend, not with your friend. When we talk at people, we come across as the critical parent telling the other what should or shouldn't be done. This only... Relationships

I know it sounds strange, but people often use opposite labels as terms of endearment. They'll call a 7' tall person Shorty. It's a joke that shows lack of creativity. Observe the person beyond... Relationships

If boundaries are important to you, it's important to address them early on in the relationship. Waiting till after the other person becomes invested will generally lead to a sense you've... Relationships