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18

What did you never expect to enjoy but ended up loving a lot?

We had a day trip from work for Team Building and I love those so went along happily… At the end of the day we tried archery and off-roading. I...

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29 d
14
28

How many times have you truly loved someone and been loved back?

Not considering the puppy loves, I loved twice and it felt incredible to be loved by them. It’s a rainy day in Shanghai. I am looking back with...

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1 mo
7
24

Why do men act so into me at first and then just vanish without explanation?

Okay, so I used to be afraid and avoidant of relationships, but kind of got tired of being alone and after a long distance relationship failed, I...

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2 mo
7
15

Why is my ex suddenly liking my posts again after months of no contact?

4 months after break up, I live my best life… I made a trip for my brother to come here with me and organized a very fun trip for his birthday,...

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2 mo
5
15

Do you have songs that instantly transport you back in time?

I have a few… One for home… One for family… One for my wild teenage days with my best friends… One for Finding myself… One for my first love…...

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2 mo
4
16

Have you ever rejected someone you actually liked and then regretted it?

So there is a tennis academy next to my workplace and I already dated one tennis coach from there, very hot one haha. We are neighbors Then,...

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2 mo
7
16

Is it fair to end things if he’s flaky and won’t commit to real plans?

So we’ve got 4th date on Monday or Wednesday, he asked me out but he still hasn’t confirmed it exactly when. And today he seems to be at home and...

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2 mo
3
4

Is women’s sexual attraction really more negotiable than men’s?

The other day I posted something and some opinions expressed that women’s sexuality is more negotiable as she can grow sexual of a man overtime,...

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2 mo
7
11

Is it a red flag if he’s never free on Saturday nights, or am I overthinking?

So, as my date didn’t confirm our 4th date last Sunday, because he forgot that he told me he would confirm it and assumed we already had it...

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2 mo
8
25

Why would a partner delete opposite-sex contacts from your phone?

I used to know this guy who always contacted me to hang out and go out with his friend’s circle and join his French expats community here, one day...

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2 mo
0
13

Why did I feel so heartbroken when this trip now makes me so happy?

My trip has just started, ai haven’t checked in my hotel yet, check in starts in 5 minutes. Have been sitting here by this lake for over an hour...

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2 mo
5
11

When do you feel most like your true self, and what brings that out?

For me , It’s when I am sad. It takes off all my protective mechanisms, all the lies I tell myself, all the delusions or positive reframing of...

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2 mo
8
45

When a first date asks if you’re “all natural,” is that a compliment or a red flag?

I am not exclusively dating anyone as of now, so still exploring my options. Yesterday after a dinner and hours of intellectual conversation, I...

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3 mo
2
19

What was your contribution to your last break up?

I admired him and was insecure knowing that a lot of women were into him. And when we decided to start a relationship, I was constantly looking...

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3 mo
12
26

Who has had the most positive influence on your life and why?

For me - It’s my dad. I don’t talk much of him, but he’s the foundation of all the good that exists in me. All I can say is that I feel like I am...

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3 mo
3
22

Can you be very forgiving yet still have a hard emotional limit?

I have a strangely big tolerance for forgiving things… But I am not ultimately a forgiving person. I give people a benefit of doubt, I also play...

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3 mo
9
20

What mistakes were made in your upbringing?

Our parents aren’t all-knowing angels — they’re human, with their own struggles. We forgive them, but some things shape us deeply and take years...

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3 mo
2
19

What should I do and talk about on a third date when I actually want something serious?

I usually lost interest after two. In the past, I dated for the wrong reasons, never went there for a relationship, I just proved something to...

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3 mo
6
17

Why does my ex dating someone so different make me feel replaceable?

Just saw a photo of him by the Caribbean Beach with his beautiful Mexican-Haitian girlfriend. She’s pretty. But I feel bad, because all these men...

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3 mo
4
17

What was the exact moment you realized your partner was ‘the one’?

Just answered a question about my first kiss and it took me back in time to… …Summer of 2019 and I am 22, It was a super typhoon that day but me...

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