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Anonymous
2 mo

Is taking too long to reply to texts a legit reason to dump someone?

Is he a student on a break, or taking 3 credits a semester? Is he unemployed? If so, then you might have a case. But if he has a real job or a real school schedule, then, yes, he's busy. And if he... Dating

Anonymous
2 mo

Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn’t want to dress up with me?

Some guys are just really practical and being "fun" at the expensive of practicality just isn't their style. Others, of course, put a higher priority on fun, and sometimes not enough priority on... Dating

Anonymous
2 mo

Can guys pick up on the hints that girls are making the first move?

Guys do not pick up on "hints." We don't communicate in "hints" and that's not how our minds work at all. We communicate directly, and say what we mean. When we're talking to other men, we don't... Dating

Pearl222
2 mo

How do you deal with the paradox of choice on dating apps?

The abundance of choice is largely an illusion. A relationship with someone who isn't local to you isn't very likely to work out. You might get past the initial steps in the process, but rarely... Dating

Anonymous
2 mo

If a girl says, "I don't want to lead you on," is that permanent rejection?

Yes. Accept the truth and move on. One of the hardest lessons to learn as an adult is that you can't control or change how someone feels about you. No matter how strong your own feelings are,... Dating

Anonymous
2 mo

Is it a good idea to date a woman who's crazy?

Hotness doesn't last. Crazy only grows. Crazy women will key your car or slash your tires. They'll stalk your ex's or even some girl you don't remember but held a door open for. They will... Dating

Pearl222
2 mo

As a woman trying dating apps for the first time, what precautions should be kept in mind before meeting guys?

Dating apps are a bad idea unless all you are looking for is casual sex Most men who are looking for a serious relationship are not on the apps at all. They have been driven away by ever... Dating

thegreenyogi
2 mo

Are you a player? Do you think players are capable of feeling remorse? And if you are a player, why do you do it?

I've known many players over the years, and one thing that was consistent among all of them is that they had no respect at all for women. They knew how to charm women, for sure, but they gave zero... Dating

Anonymous
2 mo

I’m afraid of getting into a relationship but at the same time I want one. What should I do?

A lot of what you fear is the result of making poor choices and rushing into a relationship based purely on feelings. That's usually a path towards disaster, but it's also what most people do.... Dating

MzAsh
2 mo

What actually shifts in a relationship when a woman has her own money?

Men don't really care how much money a woman makes. Instead, they care whether the woman is operating in a grounded reality and a consistent set of expectations. For example, most women, no... Dating

alice55
2 mo

Would you be interested in dating a woman that wears revealing clothes or would you be turned off by it?

Most of those clothes in the links I don't consider OVERLY revealing, but some of them also need to be appropriate for the area/occasion. For example, summertime in California or Miami or Texas is... Dating

lexipoolex
3 mo

Women, would you travel to see a man? Men, do you think you should offer to pay for the flight ticket?

I don't do long distance relationships. They make no sense and nearly all of them fail due to the distance. Date LOCALLY! Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

If I can’t keep a man’s attention or if they choose someone else does that mean I’m not attractive enough?

It's possible, but not likely, that your looks are the reason. I know nothing at all about you or him, so I have to generalize here, and not everything may apply to you or your situation, so... Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

Is a woman past a certain age (25-29) who’s still a virgin incomplete? Would you judge her?

Incomplete? No. That's the opposite of how men think - that's how WOMEN think of virgin men. Now, would there be questions? Yes, probably, but the questions would be: - is she asexual? - Is she... Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

Do men want to be taken care of by a woman they are dating?

I'm traditional, so I am going to drive and Pay, but I only date women with traditional values. Such women are very much the exception rather than the rule today. My girlfriend is from a much more... Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

Why is it so hard to find love in Gen Z?

Feminism. Systemic, industrialized Feminism. Feminism didn't simply seek equal opportunities for women - that wasn't nearly enough. They demanded quotas for women - merit be damned - and even... Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

Do you think that confidence is the most important thing when it comes to dating?

It's quite important for men, and not nearly as much for women, though it's often a bit of a factor. Dating

Extraterrestrial1999
3 mo

Did you ever think that you might have had too high of standards for a partner?

I've been able to find women who met my standards - which are primarily based on morals and values, not looks, money, or status - though it wasn't easy. Still, clearly they do exist and an old,... Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

Caucasian men, have you ever been with a black girl?

I'm half Caucasian. Does that count? Dating

Anonymous
3 mo

“Okay guys, spill the truth what’s that little thing your girlfriend does (maybe without realizing) that gets you burning with jealousy" Be honest?

I don't get jealous, I get single. I can't control what other people do, I can only control who I choose to invest myself in. My girlfriend does not seek male validation from anyone but me,... Dating

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