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Well first off, you put #5 twice. Second, men get little female attention? Lol maybe you. But if you are good looking and have an aesthetic physique, you get a lot of female attention. And if you are married and the woman doesn't want sex anymore, that is because she does not find you attractive and you cannot satisfy her in bed. If you have a six pack and you make her cum very often, simply getting married will not change that (unless you really let go of yourself).
Yup, I agree. There are certain benefits for couples with children, to help with inheritance and parental rights, but not much reason for childless couples to get married.
A more accurate title would be, "Why Not to Get Married After Just a Couple of Dates."
I think you mean reasons why noone should marry.
Men can trap women just as much as women can trap men.
Sure it happens to men more
But it can be a bitch for women too
While I don't necessarily agree with all of the reasons, since I began studying law I have grown somewhat leery of marriage. No-fault divorce has created a bad deal for whichever partner has and/or earns more. And if you saw how frequently premarital agreements get set aside in whole or in part you would be shocked.
Marriage = men lose everything women gain everything.
You pissed off a lot of girls with this take, which is in itself a sign that you hit some kind of mark. Bitterness can be a powerful opiate, but it can also be our greatest teacher. So just because someone is bitter doesn't mean they aren't right. Are Jews bitter about the Holocaust? Sure, but for good reason, and, ultimately, this bitterness has taught them a great deal.
Uh at first your comment made sense and then it went way off the rails. No idea what you're talking about.
@Anon-ymous1 I'm sure you don't understand it.
There's nothing to understand; it's a stupid comment.
@Anon-ymous1 I've read the pieces you've written on this site, and you're no great intellect yourself, son.
And that pertains to ^ what you said... how? Are you an idiot? Do you know what an ad hominem is?
@Anon-ymous1 You're a clown. You accuse me of personally attacking you... right after you personally attacked me. Classic. Thanks for that, I needed a laugh. Maybe you can write some more earth-shattering commentary later, something as brilliant as your take arguing that men don't find obese women's asses attractive.
No one is "attacking" anyone. I asked you if you're an idiot because you unwittingly used an ad hominem, and ad hominems are pathetic. What are you confused about.
just the article I would expect from someone named bubbleboy69. speak for yourself, you do not decide what is better for other men. say that to happy men who have been married for years, they know what is best for them, not you
He didn't decide whats best, he gave reasons why marriage is a shitty deal for men. if simps still want to get married then thats theyre problem
only fools and simps would marry a woman
@DeshawnMGTOW lol a bunch of bitter lonely men. yes he decided what's best, he decided it's best not to get married. it's only a shitty deal for men who think the same way he does. if you read articles in magazines, newspapers or online and take them for facts you will never be happy. those men who make their own rules of how they want their life to be, their marriage to be, they have amazing marriages and usually excel in other areas of life as well. they don't listen to what they should or shouldn't do from men like you, like this post writer and the rest of the world also. they have their own opinions.
there's no reason for a man to get married, women dont deserve it
@DeshawnMGTOW good men deserve good women and vice versa. if they marry and stay happily married for decades who are you to say they shouldn't do it.
marriage is a woman's game
@DeshawnMGTOW lool look at history records, men are the ones who came up with it. it's not a game it's a commitment to love one person for the rest of your life. I'm a woman and its not a game for me.
@DeshawnMGTOW Don't bother arguing with women. Use that time to do something productive.
Amen brother. In the past marriage benefited men, women and children pretty equally. Today it is only for the benefit of women and children. Over the last 5 decades or so the benefits of marriage to men have steadily disappeared while the risks and costs have increased at the same rate, to the point where today marriage is a very bad choice for most men.
This is funny and interesting. Well I guess it boils down to many women not rewarding guys who give them what they say they want - good guy who is caring and polite and sweet.
Great take
Pls check this take out and opine! www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27854-woman-hears-the-exact-same-thing-from-two-guys-but-she-reacts
I mean, apparently the only thing bad in divorce is the split of assets between the divorcees, right? Doesn't the right marriage contract solve that?
And I already thought of point 6, a huge party just seems like a waste of money, that much I agree, hopefully my future wife doesn't care about fancy parties.
So... it's eight things. You have two number fives. So...
Anyway, there is some truth in this. It's what makes me struggle with the concept of marriage. I don't want to feel tied down forever. But there's also a lot you're not saying or are leaving out; a few girls out there are worth it, maybe.
Well you really can't win either way on one hand nobody wants to be alone you should get married but then you will probably end up stuck with kids who will destroy your hopes and dreams and put a huge dent in your bank account and for me I would rather just try and enjoy the time I have left on earth than put 18 years into raising a kid.
I would love to get stuck with kids, my greatest fear has been not having kids. The problem with that is the next greatest fear, losing them.
One of my mates is getting divorced rn. It's beyond-words heart wrenching... It's just so ugly. Like I am pretty sure I want to get married, but some days it's like well shit lol
innit an don't forget 80% of divorce is initiated by women. How can you trust female hypergamy? lol
@Indigo91 to quote sir Isaac newton
"Sloots gon Sloot"
Amen
@Indigo91 when both parties are highly educated, women initiate 90% of divorces
@SamSmithe damn..
@SamSmithe You see this is the problem that men face in this world. Is that men are slaves to sex and women, feminism use sex as a tool to manipulate men with by getting us to commit so they can get access to our resources. The truth is that men dont need women... women need us though for tons of things, a man just needs sex. The rest of it is just a want like love, bonding and shit which i don't care about anyways.
I agree with this take. And those people specially girls (because they get the benefits) saying "You're just gay" "You're selfish" "You're a player" "You don't respect women etc. are sociopaths and it's pretty manipulative but if we call them gold diggers and misanthropists for that, we're crossing the line? Geez how entitled. I wonder if they're actually aware they can easily manipulate men who got married.
You sound like you’re gonna be single for the rest of your life...
That's bullshit. It's not like you can't divroces if it doesn't workout. I agree marriage is more a contract which gives the woman financial benefits. It's notlike married men don't cheat... So marriage doesn't assure any woman you're hers.
Divorce favours the woman at a too high of percentage and the woman can claim any sort of abuse and claim more favour to her side. There goes the kids, house and his hard earned money.
I can think of more reasons why Women shouldn't get married, but ultimately it's their decision. Some people want to marry and there's no. reason anyone else not involved should care..
Well good luck with that. Lol not all marriages are bad but believe what you want.
This take refers to a VERY bad way of choosing a life partner.
FYI: women could say the same about men.
all this is stupid if you only knew what was really going on
you would want marriage, but in this world right now I understand why people don't get married