I'm also waiting for marriage, I have to many friends who've done it and regretted it, especially when the guy leaves them because they never wanted commitment but just sex.
I never had a choice but if I did i would have stayed a virgin... I spent the last 10 years with one person and can't imagine ever having sex with anyone else, but he never would have married me.
I can bet $5 that the girl in the profile picture isn't really you. No way someone that has a body of the girl in your profile picture wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
Highly debatable that it's more healthy for a relationship to wait until marriage. Sexual issues and incompatibility absolutely can be the reason a couple splits up, and you're rolling the dice on whether you're sexually compatible if you wait until marriage.
@ScottieO Sexual incompatibility is a huge thing. Waiting for marriage is a choice that everyone has the right to make, but if people are making that choice they do need to be going in with their eyes wide open. Sex isn't magical, it's natural. Dogs have sex, cows have sex, moose have sex, even pigs have sex (with thirty minute orgasms to boot). By all means wait for marriage if that's your prerogative but don't turn it into this big mystical event. Your going to be disappointed.
@coralee Just because something is natural, doesn't mean it's always a good idea. Most of the worst evils are things our pig brains tell us to do. Don't lower yourself to "cows, pigs, dogs." You are also wrong that sexual compatibility is a huge thing. It's only a huge thing for couples who initially base too much of their relationship on sex. It's THOSE couples who have problems later on when their boobs shrivel up and they struggle to figure out why besides sex they are together. And sex is actually way better when there is a relationship attached.
@BrianMerritt Your 22 you haven't had good sex yet. And no kiddo I have been in relationships where the sex was lousy. Relationships do not equal good sex. Stop demonizing something you clearly know nothing about. If you can't see how someone with a high sex drive being paired with a sex repulsed asexual wouldn't cause a wrench in a marriage your delusional. If you want to wait that's fine but don't make wide sweeping generalizations about something you have either never had or have limited experience with.
@BrianMerritt And what's wrong with dog, pigs and cows? Dogs don't go to war, their incredibly loyal, and are nicer then many people. Human evil comes from the human part of our brain not the animal. It comes with so called higher cognitive learning which is also why chimps despite their cuteness are far nastier then gorillas. Their too much like us.
@BrianMerritt If you really are contending that sexual compatability isn't a huge thing for the vast majority of people, you're just being ignorant. Maybe it's not for you, or more likely maybe you just don't realize it yet, , but it is for a significant percentage of people.
@coralee Let me get this straight... this is a girl who I love more than any other girl on Earth. I'd take 1,000 bullets for her without thinking, the thought of her makes me happier than anything else, and I KNOW for a fact that I want her by my side for the rest of my life... You guys are saying I should throw that away over a bad blowjob? Sex is something people can COMPROMISE on. Just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I don't understand how sex works. I'm a human male, I'm born horny. Sex includes the mechanics of genital stimulation, but it also includes the other intimacies the couple is sharing. Playing videogames with your friend who's bad at them is more fun than playing videogames with some creepy stranger who's an expert at them. You get what I'm saying? If the sex is THAT bad to start with, what better excuse for more practice? ;) If she's REALLY into goats or gangbangs or something out-there, she should disclose that to me, since sex is a conversation have.
@coralee Let me get this straight... this is a girl who I love more than any other girl on Earth. I'd take 1,000 bullets for her without thinking, the thought of her makes me happier than anything else, and I KNOW for a fact that I want her by my side for the rest of my life... You guys are saying I should throw that away over a bad blowjob? Sex is something people can COMPROMISE on. Just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I don't understand how sex works. I'm a human male, I'm born horny. Sex includes the mechanics of genital stimulation, but it also includes the other intimacies the couple is sharing. Playing videogames with your friend who's bad at them is more fun than playing videogames with some creepy stranger who's an expert at them. You get what I'm saying? If the sex is THAT bad to start with, what better excuse for more practice? ;) If she's REALLY into goats or gangbangs or something out-there, she should disclose that to me, since sex is a conversation have.
@ScottieO Sexual compatibility is only a big problem for couples who place a disproportionate amount of their relationship ON sex. If there's something major, like a whacky fetish that you absolutely CAN'T live without, tell your partner. Otherwise, there's really no roll of the dice. What "roll of the" fucking "dice" do you mean? A penis that's too small? Too much pussy hair? Jeez, not huge deals to couples who have more going for them.
@BrianMerritt Again your showing your ignorance sexual compatibility isn't just about the mechanics. It's about far more then just who likes what. There are differing drives to consider. A sex repulsed asexual is going to have a very hard time compromising with someone who has a high sex drive. It's easy to say you would make it work when you haven't been in that situation before. Not to mention that there are a billion other variables. And I'll give you a little bit of advice women that don't enjoy sex tend to want it less. If you and your partner don't match up, she might not be as excited as you are to practice. There are tons of people I love enough to take a bullet for it doesn't mean I want to sleep with them.
That's instant respect right now, no one seems to think like this anymore nowadays.
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Thought I was going to wait. Ended up having sex with my boyfriend, but he will still be the only one I'm ever with in a physical manner. We are going to get married, we are just waiting until we are more stable financially and I finish undergrad
I was about to say this is rare until you stated that you're a Christian. That explains it. Although it still is rare if you really live in the UK. Do you mind telling us where in the UK you live?
So it's cos your Christian. That one statement is your only reason. The other stuff you made up just to justify it. I was a Christian too and claimed the exact same thing. Now I have sex weekly.
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I am because all the guys i met in my life were clear only attracted to me physically which made me hate to be a toy 😢that is all,
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I'm also waiting for marriage, I have to many friends who've done it and regretted it, especially when the guy leaves them because they never wanted commitment but just sex.
I never had a choice but if I did i would have stayed a virgin... I spent the last 10 years with one person and can't imagine ever having sex with anyone else, but he never would have married me.
i agree with you completely and i wish i would have waited but at the same time i'm glad i didn't keep going man i believe in you
I can bet $5 that the girl in the profile picture isn't really you. No way someone that has a body of the girl in your profile picture wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
A $5 bet? Not so sure, are you?
@BrianMerritt I am pretty sure.
Then make a gentleman's bet.
@BrianMerritt Ok
As a male I just want the same. its so more romantic and healthy for your relationship.. Thanks for sharing sis ;p
Highly debatable that it's more healthy for a relationship to wait until marriage. Sexual issues and incompatibility absolutely can be the reason a couple splits up, and you're rolling the dice on whether you're sexually compatible if you wait until marriage.
@ScottieO Sexual incompatibility is a huge thing. Waiting for marriage is a choice that everyone has the right to make, but if people are making that choice they do need to be going in with their eyes wide open. Sex isn't magical, it's natural. Dogs have sex, cows have sex, moose have sex, even pigs have sex (with thirty minute orgasms to boot). By all means wait for marriage if that's your prerogative but don't turn it into this big mystical event. Your going to be disappointed.
@coralee Just because something is natural, doesn't mean it's always a good idea. Most of the worst evils are things our pig brains tell us to do. Don't lower yourself to "cows, pigs, dogs."
You are also wrong that sexual compatibility is a huge thing. It's only a huge thing for couples who initially base too much of their relationship on sex. It's THOSE couples who have problems later on when their boobs shrivel up and they struggle to figure out why besides sex they are together.
And sex is actually way better when there is a relationship attached.
@BrianMerritt Your 22 you haven't had good sex yet. And no kiddo I have been in relationships where the sex was lousy. Relationships do not equal good sex. Stop demonizing something you clearly know nothing about. If you can't see how someone with a high sex drive being paired with a sex repulsed asexual wouldn't cause a wrench in a marriage your delusional. If you want to wait that's fine but don't make wide sweeping generalizations about something you have either never had or have limited experience with.
@BrianMerritt And what's wrong with dog, pigs and cows? Dogs don't go to war, their incredibly loyal, and are nicer then many people. Human evil comes from the human part of our brain not the animal. It comes with so called higher cognitive learning which is also why chimps despite their cuteness are far nastier then gorillas. Their too much like us.
@BrianMerritt If you really are contending that sexual compatability isn't a huge thing for the vast majority of people, you're just being ignorant. Maybe it's not for you, or more likely maybe you just don't realize it yet, , but it is for a significant percentage of people.
@ScottieO Exactly! He's saving sex for marriage how can he make comments about sexual compatibility when he doesn't even know his own preference yet.
@coralee Let me get this straight... this is a girl who I love more than any other girl on Earth. I'd take 1,000 bullets for her without thinking, the thought of her makes me happier than anything else, and I KNOW for a fact that I want her by my side for the rest of my life... You guys are saying I should throw that away over a bad blowjob?
Sex is something people can COMPROMISE on. Just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I don't understand how sex works. I'm a human male, I'm born horny.
Sex includes the mechanics of genital stimulation, but it also includes the other intimacies the couple is sharing. Playing videogames with your friend who's bad at them is more fun than playing videogames with some creepy stranger who's an expert at them. You get what I'm saying?
If the sex is THAT bad to start with, what better excuse for more practice? ;)
If she's REALLY into goats or gangbangs or something out-there, she should disclose that to me, since sex is a conversation have.
@coralee Let me get this straight... this is a girl who I love more than any other girl on Earth. I'd take 1,000 bullets for her without thinking, the thought of her makes me happier than anything else, and I KNOW for a fact that I want her by my side for the rest of my life... You guys are saying I should throw that away over a bad blowjob?
Sex is something people can COMPROMISE on. Just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I don't understand how sex works. I'm a human male, I'm born horny.
Sex includes the mechanics of genital stimulation, but it also includes the other intimacies the couple is sharing. Playing videogames with your friend who's bad at them is more fun than playing videogames with some creepy stranger who's an expert at them. You get what I'm saying?
If the sex is THAT bad to start with, what better excuse for more practice? ;)
If she's REALLY into goats or gangbangs or something out-there, she should disclose that to me, since sex is a conversation have.
@ScottieO Sexual compatibility is only a big problem for couples who place a disproportionate amount of their relationship ON sex.
If there's something major, like a whacky fetish that you absolutely CAN'T live without, tell your partner. Otherwise, there's really no roll of the dice. What "roll of the" fucking "dice" do you mean? A penis that's too small? Too much pussy hair? Jeez, not huge deals to couples who have more going for them.
@BrianMerritt Again your showing your ignorance sexual compatibility isn't just about the mechanics. It's about far more then just who likes what. There are differing drives to consider. A sex repulsed asexual is going to have a very hard time compromising with someone who has a high sex drive. It's easy to say you would make it work when you haven't been in that situation before. Not to mention that there are a billion other variables. And I'll give you a little bit of advice women that don't enjoy sex tend to want it less. If you and your partner don't match up, she might not be as excited as you are to practice. There are tons of people I love enough to take a bullet for it doesn't mean I want to sleep with them.
I don't think I'd marry someone unless I knew them pretty well, and that includes sharing sexual intimacy.
And most Christian girls I know don't wait til marriage...
That's instant respect right now, no one seems to think like this anymore nowadays.
Thought I was going to wait. Ended up having sex with my boyfriend, but he will still be the only one I'm ever with in a physical manner. We are going to get married, we are just waiting until we are more stable financially and I finish undergrad
Same! Marriage is intimate and something that i feel shouldn't be done just for the fun of doing it.
I was about to say this is rare until you stated that you're a Christian. That explains it. Although it still is rare if you really live in the UK. Do you mind telling us where in the UK you live?
Okay, no problem. The only thing I have a problem with are the self-righteous bitches who then trash-talk women who aren't virgins before marriage.
good for you... i would rather be in the same boat... oh well, screwed that up at fourteen...
So it's cos your Christian. That one statement is your only reason. The other stuff you made up just to justify it. I was a Christian too and claimed the exact same thing. Now I have sex weekly.
I am because all the guys i met in my life were clear only attracted to me physically which made me hate to be a toy 😢that is all,
Good for you! :)
same! I thought I was the only one lol 😂
You are wasting the best years of your life. But I'm OK with it if it makes you happy.
Same here, the only woman that I will have sex with is my future wife
you are a lesbian? :)
@purple1 Yep I am
Don't let things turn tragic for you... Virgin Tragedy 😰 ↗
I am too it so hard to find a nice Mormon man who believes the earth is flat to marry too.
what is the female equivalent of male 30 year old virgin mage? female sorceress?