I don't care if i'll be hated or not, because we must speak what's in our minds anywhere and everywhere and if they don't like it, they can plug their ears 🙂
When i have time, i'll make another take on how a man shall treat his wife in a happilly eternal marriage, many girls loved this take and they will love it more when they see the role of the husband towards such a wife 🙂
Good take. Agree on most apart from the leadership point since not all men are leaders and not all women are followers so every couple should adapt for its situation.
I agree, mytake is made only for real men who are true leaders... some men are just males or shall i say the majority are males and is better for a female to take the lead, but there still some real men where a wife will happilly follows and trust their men blindly 😏
@WitchsLove miss witch why are you losing your temper, no matter what you say or try to explain, nothing will change, i'm someone who knows what i'm saying and think before i speak...
It's your problem if you cannot accept me that i'm totally different from you...
Don't waste your time trying to convince others because believe me no matter how much you talk the women who loves my mindset will never give you their ear and the poeple who are like you will nevet agree with me... so why not respect each other and agree to disagree 😊
Leadership should be based on personality, not genitals^. That’s the logical way. Don’t try and force things that don’t come naturally to certain people. Some men are more submissive while some women are more dominant
Ask that to mothers and people that many times have to pick up the slack. I have seen both be leaders and u know what? Works better that way because man and woman complement each other.
@WitchsLove nope not a male nazis or feminazis, i hated men more than women because of what they did in the past to make women become like this...
So don't worry, i'm just speaking my mind and your acting like this redhead feminist, there is a part in which i wrote how some people will think that it's degratory for some women because they will see it as a negative traits and your one of these women's sadly 😏
@WitchsLove well there is nothing i can do if you feel like this, i am what i am and that's how i will always remain... maybe you csn close your eyes and not read because nothing will change 😏
I'd have to completely disagree with everything you said... I think marriage should be a team work and the husband and wife should be equal... but that's just my opinion, guess I'm never getting married if guys expect this hahaha.
Your problem is the common problem. That people read all this and immediately start concluding that somehow they are not equal. If you cannot change that mindset, you will never have a healthy marriage.
@aes321, i respect your opinion even though i completely disagree with you but can't blame you for writing such an answer. Your still a teenager exploring life... good luck 🙂
I would say that through communication and consent etc some couples may be happy to take this path but I would be interested to see the numbers (%) that would - TBH it seems a little Stepford Wives to me
You will love ot when i have time to make a mytake for how shall a husband treats his wife in an eternal happy marriage, maybe it will calm you down a little 😄
And about the leadership, it won't change men have been leading women from thousands of years 😄
Real men will always lead and the wife will be more than happy believe me but some men are just MALES which means only habe male genitals but are do not have any men traits or personality and that's where a woman shall lead because she have too 😏
If u are not able to do be this kind of woman with ur boyfriend/husband dont even tryto find someone dont waste sombody's time and first of all change urself
Like it or not most straight women, not all but very few exceptions, thrive in a submissive role to a good husband and end up depressed, stressed out and unhappy when they don't have a relationship like this.
oh yes god. That evil delusion that has justified genocide, slavery, rape, torture, war, censorship and oppression. Exactly what you want in your marriage.
Because it’s fair to shit on someone’s beliefs. Nice. While you’re attacking the Christian Faith for parts of a holy book taken out of context or no longer considered proper and acceptable, why don’t you take the same argument up with Muslims? It’s the same sort of argument—you can’t judge Islam by parts of the Quran misread, misinterpreted, or no longer in practice, just as you can’t judge Christianity forbid the same. Very similar religions.
I mean that she has no right to demean Christianity because it is someone else’s belief system. Frequently on this site (and in real life) I see people condemn Christianity as sexist, homophobic, racist etc. for things either taken horribly out of context or no longer in practice (like, we no longer condone stoning adulterers). But often those same people won’t condemn Islam, when if you look at the Quran there are very similar parts as in the Bible. My point is, religions need to be respected if not always agreed upon, and usually the shit people condemn about religions is outdated or out of context (also that Christianity isn’t the only religion with such things).
@ImagineInsanity mate, I fucking hate religion. I’m irreligious and never saw the point. Other than those that consider themselves religious but don’t follow pretty much everything in the holy book I have no time for it. Christianity, Islam, Hinduism alike. But, keep in mind those many who are christians should really know better, they grew up in a secular society, many who live in Muslim countries never really had the same exposure. I only mentioned Christianity because in this situation it was relevant.
Nice. However, no human wheather husband or not should be revered. Reverence is a strong word of deep see and respect and should strictly be for God alone.
I think you’re just trying to trigger people. If you find someone to marry you.. let her me the one to follow your rules. Don’t shove it down everyone else’s throat.
I can tell what i want. and your just no one to tell me what i can or can't do, of you hate what i write so much, just block menor don't read what i'm writing... simple!
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You would be hated in the place I live, but you aren’t wrong. It’s funny how the world works.
I don't care if i'll be hated or not, because we must speak what's in our minds anywhere and everywhere and if they don't like it, they can plug their ears 🙂
Good on you for the courage I don’t have.
When i have time, i'll make another take on how a man shall treat his wife in a happilly eternal marriage, many girls loved this take and they will love it more when they see the role of the husband towards such a wife 🙂
I’ll read it when you do
Thanks 🙂
Good take. Agree on most apart from the leadership point since not all men are leaders and not all women are followers so every couple should adapt for its situation.
I agree, mytake is made only for real men who are true leaders... some men are just males or shall i say the majority are males and is better for a female to take the lead, but there still some real men where a wife will happilly follows and trust their men blindly 😏
Blindly. Suuure... anyone with 2 neurons keeps their eyes and mind open to give sugestions as well or to lead from time to time
I see marriage as more of a partner thing and less of a leader follower thing
Even because sometimes the woman will know whats best and others the man will...
Marriage is about that dialogue...
@WitchsLove miss witch why are you losing your temper, no matter what you say or try to explain, nothing will change, i'm someone who knows what i'm saying and think before i speak...
It's your problem if you cannot accept me that i'm totally different from you...
Don't waste your time trying to convince others because believe me no matter how much you talk the women who loves my mindset will never give you their ear and the poeple who are like you will nevet agree with me... so why not respect each other and agree to disagree 😊
Because this is going no where...
The husband should do everything you said for the wife as well.
Agreed 🙂
Except the leadership because a man lead and woman follows, that's my opinion...
Leadership should be based on personality, not genitals^. That’s the logical way.
Don’t try and force things that don’t come naturally to certain people. Some men are more submissive while some women are more dominant
It should be equal
@ktdec i'm not talking about genitals here, i'm talking about a real man, cause a real man will always lead his woman...
Lol ok
Ask that to mothers and people that many times have to pick up the slack. I have seen both be leaders and u know what? Works better that way because man and woman complement each other.
You have a very reduced view of women
You guys complain of femi nazis
But you are being some male nazis here...
@WitchsLove nope not a male nazis or feminazis, i hated men more than women because of what they did in the past to make women become like this...
So don't worry, i'm just speaking my mind and your acting like this redhead feminist, there is a part in which i wrote how some people will think that it's degratory for some women because they will see it as a negative traits and your one of these women's sadly 😏
Many women think like I do.
And yes it is derogatorry to women.
@WitchsLove well there is nothing i can do if you feel like this, i am what i am and that's how i will always remain... maybe you csn close your eyes and not read because nothing will change 😏
Interesting, you have a very strict Christian-influenced view on marriage, and while I don't entirely agree, it's a curious read.
Thanks, maybe it's a christian view but if i don't accept it or feel comfortable with it then i wouldn't had wrote it 🙂
When i have time, i'll make a mytake about how shall a man treat his wife in a happy eternal marriage, i guess you will like it 😊
Congratulations on having one of your post featured ☺️
Thanks miss leonie, i appreciate it 🙂
Good take and as long as they are both helpful and supportive of each other the relationship will prosper.
Agreed sweet confused girl and if she knows how to cook NOODLES TOO 🤣
Lmao stop 😂
I'd have to completely disagree with everything you said... I think marriage should be a team work and the husband and wife should be equal... but that's just my opinion, guess I'm never getting married if guys expect this hahaha.
Your problem is the common problem. That people read all this and immediately start concluding that somehow they are not equal. If you cannot change that mindset, you will never have a healthy marriage.
@HaveNoName thanks for your reply, she's just a kid and she needs time to start understanding how life works...🙂
@aes321, i respect your opinion even though i completely disagree with you but can't blame you for writing such an answer. Your still a teenager exploring life... good luck 🙂
I would say that through communication and consent etc some couples may be happy to take this path but I would be interested to see the numbers (%) that would - TBH it seems a little Stepford Wives to me
I like the stepford wives and hillbillies 😉
Huhuh
Stepford wives didn't have a will
What is the role of the husband in the eternal marriage?
MyTake for that too...
And dont say being the leader 😒
You will love ot when i have time to make a mytake for how shall a husband treats his wife in an eternal happy marriage, maybe it will calm you down a little 😄
And about the leadership, it won't change men have been leading women from thousands of years 😄
Real men will always lead and the wife will be more than happy believe me but some men are just MALES which means only habe male genitals but are do not have any men traits or personality and that's where a woman shall lead because she have too 😏
If u are not able to do be this kind of woman with ur boyfriend/husband dont even tryto find someone dont waste sombody's time and first of all change urself
Spot on.
Like it or not most straight women, not all but very few exceptions, thrive in a submissive role to a good husband and end up depressed, stressed out and unhappy when they don't have a relationship like this.
You'd have been right at home in the USA during the 1950's.
Men don't sit at home, they work outside, women does...1950's or 3200... it's the same for me, just a date a number 😏
Rational human beings don't let their life be ruled by their genitals.
Your ideology sounds quite collectivist and limiting to people based on asinine traits.
For you it is because when a person have a small brain with limited a limited thinking will see everything shallow...
I agree with 1, 2 and 3. The rest is a little dodgy.
Okay thanks for sharing...
oh yes god. That evil delusion that has justified genocide, slavery, rape, torture, war, censorship and oppression. Exactly what you want in your marriage.
Because it’s fair to shit on someone’s beliefs. Nice. While you’re attacking the Christian Faith for parts of a holy book taken out of context or no longer considered proper and acceptable, why don’t you take the same argument up with Muslims? It’s the same sort of argument—you can’t judge Islam by parts of the Quran misread, misinterpreted, or no longer in practice, just as you can’t judge Christianity forbid the same. Very similar religions.
@ImagineInsanity what donyou mean?
I mean that she has no right to demean Christianity because it is someone else’s belief system. Frequently on this site (and in real life) I see people condemn Christianity as sexist, homophobic, racist etc. for things either taken horribly out of context or no longer in practice (like, we no longer condone stoning adulterers). But often those same people won’t condemn Islam, when if you look at the Quran there are very similar parts as in the Bible. My point is, religions need to be respected if not always agreed upon, and usually the shit people condemn about religions is outdated or out of context (also that Christianity isn’t the only religion with such things).
@ImagineInsanity totally agree with you ans well said...😊 your a smart person miss imagineInsanity
@ImagineInsanity mate, I fucking hate religion. I’m irreligious and never saw the point. Other than those that consider themselves religious but don’t follow pretty much everything in the holy book I have no time for it. Christianity, Islam, Hinduism alike. But, keep in mind those many who are christians should really know better, they grew up in a secular society, many who live in Muslim countries never really had the same exposure. I only mentioned Christianity because in this situation it was relevant.
Not all christians are true christians, the true christians are very rare...
And you’re not one of them
It's not you or anyone else who tells me if i'm from them or not
Sure. But fuck religion. There’s no point
Nice. However, no human wheather husband or not should be revered. Reverence is a strong word of deep see and respect and should strictly be for God alone.
*deep awe
Thanks for sharing
Hmmm yeah I prefer an equal partner not a sycophant servant who puts out
But to each their own
I think you’re just trying to trigger people. If you find someone to marry you.. let her me the one to follow your rules. Don’t shove it down everyone else’s throat.
I'm not shoving anything in anyone's throat, i just wrote my opinion about this case and your free to like it or not...
You’re telling women what they should do.. your opinion involves how other people should be. Focus on yourself.
I can tell what i want. and your just no one to tell me what i can or can't do, of you hate what i write so much, just block menor don't read what i'm writing... simple!
I personally wouldn't follow all of these if I ever got married, especially #4, but you do make some good points. Nice take.
Thanks and i respect your opinion... in the end people are just different!
What fucking millennium are you from?
Here's something our Neanderthal friend will agree to since much of the crap he wrote is echoed in this article from 1955.
www.littlethings.com/1950s-good-housewife-guide/4
10 000 bc 😂