I live in a country that actually have the same problem. Families won't agree marriages between 2 different religions. (And actually i met a girl i like & notice after 2 weeks that she's muslim & not from the same religion, i've told her that i don't really care which religion she is from, & that i'm still interested in getting to know her. But after between a week & 2 later, she just didn't care, even though everything was going great. And i have to admit that i did think if everything worked out fine between us, then what will our parents & family say, cause they won't agree)
I can't say tell your family the truth, cause it depends on how every family reacts to these kind of situations.
But if you truly love this guy, i think you should tell them. Cause it's not their life to control it. Religion shouldn't make us choose who we can be with. We're all humans after all trying to be happy & able to have the life we want, with the person we want. We shouldn't put religion or anything else above our love for someone.
Hope everything works out.
Well I don't know where are you from but no way in hell it's a good news and don't forget your still getting married I think you should talk to your bother or mother and don't tell her about you boyfriend just tell mom I am not having good feeling about this guy I am scared please mom help me and make up some dream and all ( guessing that if you are getting forced marriage that means your family believes in that short of things ) and every day talk to your mom like mom if I die do this with my room and if die please tell my friends this and that and after all that she is your mom she will fricking kill that son of gun then take you time and then tell her about you love
You know your family best. Can you sit down and talk to them about it? Will you regret it if you escape? Do you have a good plan for this escape, where you will go, how to get there and how you two will support yourselves? This requires a lot of thought and planning.
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Then run away with him, fuck religion. This is why the world is better without islam, buddhism, christianity, etc. Its a basic human right to be with the person you love for the rest of your life.
Look at this way, if you get married through an arrangement you're not going to love this guy. You'll never love this guy maybe if he is a good man then yeah give him a chance. But what if he's a abusive misogynistic asshole?
Well, for starters - what country are you from?
And how long is the relationship with your boyfriend going so far?
And why did you agree on the marriage despite having a boyfriend?
Always try reasoning first, if that fails do what you think is right, dont let other people sway what you feel is best for you.
And you wonder why I hate religion.. run as fast and as far as you can.
Collect your documents and run, just fucking run...
You have the option of eloping with your boyfriend. Think about the consequences before you do it.
What? NO! RUN!
If you're married to a Muslim you're reduced to property. Think 1950's housewife times a thousand.
You know what if you love him then you shouls ask your parents about it talk to them.
Dont run away and break their hearts. They loved you from your childhood. dont ever elope.
Be honest. Sort this out before plans are made again. You dodged a bullet this time.
congratulations... go have fun with your guy meanwhile
Become an apostate, god isn't real anyways. Might as well escape that backwards shit
Get married. Would hate for you to be stoned or some shit
Tell your mother you can't marry him if you love someone else she"ll understand mothers can be very forgiving
Fam the best part about being a human being as you have free will.
Good news his mother's having surgery? I'm out !!
He's no muslim ? Prepare you anus then...
The stars are giving you a second chance. Take it
Noni that's silly. Just face it. Tell them
Damn! You're in a big prob
That's the trouble with arranged marriages
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