Marriage isn't about YOU. Why do people not understand this? Especially when you have kids? There will be plenty of hard times and unhappy times in marriage. If you bail at the first sign of difficulty or unhappiness, then you're just a fair weather spouse. Marriage takes WORK.
Work at it. Your definition and perspective of happiness and love will evolve with time.
I have 10 years. Im definitely not the same person i was when i got married.
Well I've never been married so I can't speak through experience. But I'd say that after getting married, someone has the obligation to try to work it out. See what you can do to bring the spark back maybe? See what things you can do together to become a tighter couple. Professional counseling should probably be sought. If there is abuse, that is a different level altogether and needs to be addressed head on right away.
Try working on your marriage first before ending it, remember why you fell in love and hot married. Marriage is suppose to be an life bond, and oath to one another, not just something you toss when things get hard. Work on it together as a team.
You tend to know when something is over. Staying is prolonging the inevitable. Then it just becomes wasting each others time.
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I can't make that call until I'm in that position. Which I most likely will never be. But I can tell you this. I'd give it everything I had before giving up.
I guess you could try talking to a psychologist. That helps sometimes to make the best decision
Just end the marriage. You're going to do it anyways.
Get a divorce.
Try to make it work ir get it annulled
you get a divorce...
Separate & divorce
Divorce
Compromise or divorce
Try to work it out at first.
Get divorced
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