What is your advice to someone that says "I am never getting married again" ?

Paradiseequeen

y'all my invite settings were unchecked so that other question don't count lol

I told him I will be okay but I can tell what his wife did to me and his mom completely hurted him. She was telling people he ain’t shit and that she regrets him being her child father. Of course his mama read it and the text messages. they were already having marital problems beforehand but his mama was just getting tired. I was nothing but nice to her, tried to be there every avenue when nobody else was. I was very positive in whatever she may thought. I always gave good advice even when she didn’t have to ask. I always talked and checked on her. I was that friend that made you feel that life was worth living. I was only trying to be a positive person to her because other people left her alone. I never understood why nobody in the family talked with her, or even had anything to do with her. His mama kept telling him that he’s breaking her heart seeing him the way he is. she made me look so horrible to her friends and family. I let my wall down with her and she hurted me to the core. I was the laughing topic in her group chats and Facebook messenger. Whatever lie that could bring drama and keep it going she did. His mama still trying to process what she even did wrong to her. She told his mama that she regrets him as her kids father. We all trying to process what happened. This morning he received screenshots that she was passing information to the people families that he worked hard to put away. His phone been off but his mama is driving to check on him. I told him that I would be okay. He got his phone off but I can text him. she gave sensitive information to his own enemies trying to use it against him. they also ended up leaving her alone. We are trying to tell my brother that it’s not his fault. He feels like he gave everything up for the wrong person. Her friends sent him the messages about what she said in those text messages and group chats got people leaving her alone.

What is your advice to someone that says "I am never getting married again" ?
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