Girls, how would you feel or react if your man proposed to you through a text message?

[Toad-1]

[Nxtawm]

I'd be really disappointed, cause like having a relationship that long and that serious, they couldn't even propose to me in person? Proposing through text is just lazy, I mean it doesn't even have to be big like a fancy dinner and being all romantic. No you just have to meet me in person, find a good time and ask. It makes me think I don't matter that much to them especially because a proposal is special

[MermaidMotel]

I would automatically assume it was a joke. It is just a completely impersonal and dispassionate way of expressing your devotion to someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. It makes me really question the seriousness and dynamic of their whole relationship..

[hellacray]

Haha if a guy proposes over text I think the girl should dump him.

Cause think about after marriage. Pretty soon he will be wishing you happy bday through text. Then maybe your anniversary will be through text too.

Is this really what you want?

[ItzYaboi]

To me that's like a Google translate voice doing the proposal for me. It's just lame. If people want to do it then sure but there are much more cooler ways. Maybe texting is the most budget friendly way to go. Who knows!

[Genie23]

I'd think he's lazy. I wouldn't like it at all. If he truly loves me, he should propose me in person rather than propose to me via text message. I want him to make it a very beautiful grand gesture. Make an effort to show me how much he planned to make that special and propose to me. I want him to take our pictures and videos when he ask me to marry him. I want it to become a lovely story, lovely memory.. That I could tell to our children and grandchildren.

[weasley8]

I wouldn't like that. But I don't think I would be with someone who would do that in the first place. That's something that should be done in person. I'm not going to demand a big public presentation. I would just prefer that he be physically present.

[Drener]

I wouldn't mind.. but at the same time I would think it is a prank..
But at the same time.. I wouldn't mind where he does it.. it. Can be at the house , horseback, flash mob and so much more.

If u truly want to marry her u need to see her face to face and know that u actually mean it becaus if u don't it would just end up like what it did

[mollyc]

depends on the person. I never really got a grand gesture, we had a conversation on text message and we got married a year later. lol We've been happily married for 3 years.

[EmmaMary]

To be quite truthful if my fiancé had done such a thing when he proposed to me, I would be thoroughly pissed off with him and would probably start completely re-evaluating the relationship.

[anmari2001]

Yeah, we are engaged I guess
Let's also marry online and make children through chat

[Toad-1]

hump that pc monitor good!

[Jaye234]

I wouldn't take him seriously and if he was serious I'd be kinda pissed.
That should be done in person after taking to my dad and asking my dad if he has our blessing to get married.

[nofunkgiven]

I would be very pissed honestly. Dunno if I would even wanna talk for a while.. if ever. I mean it's an important moment, not a cringy immature text message

[DizzyDesii]

Been through that before. he's always talkin outta his ass. He proposed first date, once in text, a few times by phone call. Smh... and he calls ne delusional

[AmesRocks1]

I’d probably dump them lol. Not really but are you serious? If you’re going to propose make it damn special. I don’t want to start the next chapter of my life with a text engagement

[LonelySoul4]

I'd be so annoyed! Even if I was happy that he proposed and even if he did propose properly after it I'd still hate it as it's such a ruining of a great moment of sharing feelings that will never be forgotten!

[PrincessPie]

Assume it was a joke and if it wasn't a be put of? no one wants to be asked something like that through text.

[Женнй]

Like it’s not serious and unromantic and truly awful IF actually serious. Lamest of the lames..

If it’s just fun talk well like hehe or whatever

[QueenofCups]

I would rather be proposed to in person.

[Toad-1]

but what if he did this instead?

[Wowgirl10q]

I wouldn't reply except maybe saying
Stop it

[EmmaMary]

@Wowgirl10q I think I would probably be saying Goodbye.

[Wowgirl10q]

@EmmaMary yes ma'am

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Tell him the postman asked me the same question five minutes earlier and since he was present physically I already said yes to him.

[9teen]

I don't see why many make a big deal out of it. It's about the gesture, why should it matter how or when? I would feel flattered.

[ChronicThinker]

Say no and tell him to ask me when he feels like being a man.

[LauraNG]

I think you mean to type your boy*. No man does such thing.

[LauraNG]

meant*

[vishna]

bwhahaah the last one XD

he would be left on read.

I know someone whose husband proposed over text... can't believe she said yes...

[BrittBratt2416]

I wouldn't like that at all, wouldn't feel genuine to me at all. I would prefer to be asked in person.

[CherryRoseChampange]

I'd probably laugh because there is no way he'd ask me on text seriously. Not if he wants a yes for an answer

[EvilLittleDevil]

I'd be so pissed off. We can doscuss the idea over text sure but if you are going to ask me to get married, you better take my hand and ask me

[CuChullan]

Not classy or impressive. To me it's something done face to face or not at all.

But then, i no longer believe in marriage. It has ruined many a good relationship.

[spartan55]

What a candy ass, he can't ask in person because he's chicken shit. Enjoy your wife, I mean husband.

[ZambieMouse]

Hard pass. Nope. Uh uh. Go propose to your dog, you'll have more luck.

[RSav4013]

What a terrible idea. If that isn't a joke, I feel sorry for that poor man.

[princessfromjupiter]

If it was by text I’d honestly expect it to be some stupid prank or that they’re just joking around

[ap234]

If i like him i would say yes it doesn't matter how and where he asked me

[BHooper]

I'm not a girl but I think proposing through a text is kinda low. Like you deserve much more than just a casual text.

[randomgir890]

I’d prefer in person... but proposing in general is a question you should already know the answer to. No matter the context of the situation

[Rubified94]

I'd think he's joking because there's no way I'm taking that seriously

[zorrotm]

I'm a guy but and dude who proposes in text is a lame loser. If there is ever a fire he'll text you.

[CertifieldPimp]

thats how every man should do be doing
tf should we make it romantic for women?
foh

[LuWe22]

I would say No. Because you should have asked first if marriage is a option for me

[smartguy49]

Sorry, I know this is for girls, but as a guy I'm saying that's not the way to do with the only exception being a long distance relationship

[brijay97]

I would say no, if he doesn’t care enough to make it a grand gesture then he doesn’t care about you.

[Journeyman11]

And what gesture will you make to show how much you care about him?

[brijay97]

@Journeyman11 I’d make a big show out of saying yes !

[Journeyman11]

... unless you say no. A grand gesture, indeed.

[Alexa_smitt_]

It depends, could he just not wait? If so cute, but otherwise... no

[zoeyvxtxxnx]

Sure. And then we’ll sext as a honeymoon.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Pathetic! You guys can do much better than that!

[PM_ME_PUPPERS]

I’d ask for divorce

[Toad-1]

yes, get with me instead

[PM_ME_PUPPERS]

I’m with you in spirit

[BarbieLola]

I’d honestly not care

[CarpetDenim]

Say yeah casually and take it as a joke

[bubble_tea]

I wouldn't take it seriously and joke along.

[Somerandongager]

If I lived him I think I’d be fine with it

[Jjpayne]

Nope, that's a no no. I'd say no, in person please

[Letitgoogoo]

Yeah that's just funny lolll

[Ellie-V]

Knowing myself I’d probably prefer it

[Rcjh1987]

A little tacky. To each their own

[rozequarts]

I wouldn't think it was a serious proposal.

[TrixiePooch]

I agree, if you can't ask in person then GTFO!

[rachelle_13333]

Maybe if it was a cleaver way

[beebella]

I wouldn't take him seriously.

[DakotaNorth]

Oh yes, my darling! I'm all yours!

[Wowgirl10q]

Nope

[Toad-1]

no what?

[Wowgirl10q]

No not happening

[Montana07]

That would be so lame

[iamnash]

I’d be like um where’s the ring

[LuvAsh]

Hahaha😂

[ecfresh]

He would ship the ring to you using FedEx.

[iamnash]

Lmao that’s not how it works it’s almost like he’s a catfish 😂

[ecfresh]

Ha ha, no doubt. You would know he is a catfish if your newborn 'baby' arrives 9 months after your online wedding using 'Storks Delivery Service'.

[moonpie89]

Would automatically assume it's a joke

[tbhiwannasleep]

I would think... “uhhhh- no.”

[llorando]

I'd never propose through text message.

[AgentDearestZ]

I know I'm not a girl, but I'd be pissed.