Girls, how do you feel when you made a man angry?

[Jakoesu]

Hi girls, I just like to know what you have to say and what advice you would give me because I've been ignored by someone special in my life for a week and is because she wasn't there for my emotional support and got me angry because she wasn't there for me when I needed her

She has reacted to my pictures I post up but hasn't talked to me.

Let me know what you have to say and how much more space should I give her. I tried to message and call her today because I got so anxious but nothing

I could use your help girls!! Thanks

Updates

9 mo

Anyone? I know there's more people looking through mine post

[crystaaal]

The important thing is when you speak with her do it with reason and rationality as possible and think about what you want to say to her. Are you ask her if she could be more available when you need her? She maybe doesn't like being feeling like she did something wrong or attacked for it. If you are coming at her with calmness and looking to talk and she still doesn't want to then she just doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Not sure what something special means, but if its a girlfriend a talk is needed normally. even if its a means to an end. Tell her you just want to work things out, if she still ghosts you that is your answer. Dont wait. It is not right for people to just ignore someone without mentioning how long they need and call it “space”. she's ignoring you and giving you the silent treatment.

[Jakoesu]

Do you think she will open up if I be more patient with her?

She has not say anything when I argued with her since that day

[Jakoesu]

I been trying to message her every 2 days and I dont know if that's a bad idea for me

[crystaaal]

If she is not replying to you even to let you know if it is space she needs, she's just ignoring you. It is best if you stop messaging her. She may or may not open up to you because it looks like she does not care about you or how you feel. She may reach out if she's surprised you actually left her alone but its not good to be with someone who ignores you. She will do it again if you continue to let it happen. Its not good to let people treat you without respect just because you value them.

[Jakoesu]

Thank you so much for saying that. I really do value her a lot. Her not treating me right while I treat her really well is not right so it Definitely makes a lot sense where your coming

[Jakoesu]

Like I've been doing a lot for this girl and sometimes I do feel like she doesn't treat me how I wanted to be treated

[Jakoesu]

And also, how does it make you feel if you made a man angry or upset?

[crystaaal]

If i care about the guy or any person, i will make the effort talk about it with them whether or not i feel like im in the wrong or right, since i would care about us to be on good terms. If the person is unimportant, i ignore them or try avoid addressing the problem, talk coldly if the problem is brought up or seem uninterested to talk about it.

[Jakoesu]

Sorry for late respond. Is been tough living without her for awhile.

And thanks for helping me. Lately she hasn't said anything about space or time to herself but I still don't get why she interacted with my post but not talk to me. I've been to message her every 2 days and nothing

[Jakoesu]

Like all I can do is cry about it and wait until she opens up

[Jakoesu]

Do you think in someway, she actually feels more bad that she wasn't there for my emotional support?

[crystaaal]

Depends, did you feel like she cared for you? It sounds like you liked her a lot but it seems like she neither cares nor dislikes you but you are not important enough to work through a problem. It could be an ego thing, she does not want to reach out to you to fix anything since it sounds like you are the simp for her. She might not respect you as a person. As for the posts, it could be mind games, for you to see it and so it bothers you and makes you want to reach out to her as either a test or entertainment of how far you will go to talk to her even though she treats you bad. as long as you are weak enough to go back to her, she know that she can treat you bad, ignore you, ignore your feelings, and you will still come back. It is very unlikely she will be genuinely be nice to you even if you guys talk again. Its either you being treated poorly, played, disrespected or you leaving her. both options hurt. you should choose yourself

[Jakoesu]

What's simp mean? Sorry I'm not good with those type of words

[Jakoesu]

I mean she probably is in her ego world at the moment if this is been going on for almost 2 weeks

[crystaaal]

rip yeah. simp is kind of like someone who is in love with someone and willing to do anything for them, sometimes to the extent if they are mistreated ignored etc

[Jakoesu]

Yeah, found out she was, she felt bad for everything that she did to me and apologized.

And thanks, appreciate you helping me!!