Should a housewife obey her husband and why?

[TonyMetal_1986]

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Sure, fresh and homemade, yum yum 😋
Like i said, if the meal wasen'r enough i'll bite her little kidney and eat it 🤣

When a wife see her man happy she gets very happy too and when a man see his wife happy, itnwill also make hik happy cause after marriage they become one.

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The update answer is for @thrillseeker19 , i wrote it by fault on the update section 😂😂😂

[Harmseygrace]

They should. The bible says:
'Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands'

'Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word'

'To be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled'.

[Harmseygrace]

Thank you!

[TonyMetal_1986]

All i can say is that your an amazing little girl, you deserve the best and your priceless, i hope that you remain happy forever sweet girl 😊

[Harmseygrace]

Aw thank you. That's really nice of you. I hope the same for you.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Thanks sweet girl, i'm very happy that there still wise girls who knows what real love is in this age.

I hope that you remain like this when you get older.

[Harmseygrace]

I'm very happy there's still boys who know what real love is too.

I'm sure I will. Being a housewife is all I could ever want.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I wish that your future husband grant you this wish and that he will be a good hard working man who is willing to provide for his wife and family, love them and protect them and gives you so much kisses because you will be his delicious cake for sure 😊

There is nothing like a loving wife and a family, family is everything, at least for me and my future wife will always be my 1st priority...

[Harmseygrace]

Sadly, my boyfriend wants us to be equals. I don't know if I should break up with him and let my Daddy find me someone who will want what I want or stay with him.

That's awesome! Family is everything for me too.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Miss grace, it's your choice to decide if you should stay with him or not, your still very young...

All i can tell you is never be with someone whom you are not compatible with cause this will lead to failure and better solve the problem from the early stages so it doesn't become hard and painful in the late stages...

It doesn't mean that your boyfriend ain't a good person, he might be someone good but he just have a different mindset..

Marriage ia sacred and when someone gets married, the spouses will die trying to make their marriage lasts forever cause that's what love is all about, never marry someone if you aren't very sure that he is the one...

Your a very precious girl, and only the one who deserves you must be with you.

[Harmseygrace]

Thank you for the advice. I'll still have to think about it a bit and talk to him. Hopefully we can agree on something. A traditional relationship is everything I want. I don't see a point to it without it, so it sadly might have to end unless he can be willing to do that for me.

Thank you.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your welcome sweet girl and i'm always here to help you, never feel alone, if you needed anything or wanted anything, just PM me...

If he's willing to do this for you miss grace, be sure that he's willing to do it because he changed and loves doing it because if he's doing it just for you, one day might come and problem occurs and he changes or tells you that he ain't happy doing it because he's not finding a fullfillement in it for him...

So be sure that he wants it too and not just doing it only for you.

[Harmseygrace]

Okie dokie thank you. If you need anything, you can message me too.

And okie dokie, I will. I don't want him to do anything that he won't be happy with. I just don't want to lose him because I love him so much. I wish he were a Christian, or at least a bit more traditional. He gave off the impression that he was willing to wear the pants, but apparently, he doesn't. If it doesn't work out, I'm definitely getting my daddy to find me someone instead.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Isen't he a christian? Or you mean he's a christisn but do not follow the word of god, which means just a christian by name?

You love him so much and you deserve to be loved so much too, if he knows how much your precious and lovely, he will never leave you, especially in this generation were corruption is everywhere.

[Harmseygrace]

He isn't a Christian. He's a bit of a nerd and prefers science over the bible.

He was my best friend before we became boyfriend and girlfriend. He always told me that I was a great girl and he still believes that.

Yeah, it is. Sadly, he agrees with some of the corrupt things like homosexuality and feminism. We had a bit of a fight over how we were going to raise our children and he said he was would be perfectly okay with our daughters becoming tomboy lesbians. That's where we clash.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Oh wow! That's too much and i respect everyone's opinion but would never marry a girl who believes in feminism which destroyed everything in our today's world and homosexuality is something wrong but we accept it just because there is no cure but that doesn't mean that they are right...

The right thing is only a man and a woman, that's how god created us and nature made us...

A girl is a girl and a boy is a boy and they will be raised according to their gender... that's the healthy way that we should follow.

[Harmseygrace]

I agree. I don't think children should be raised to be whatever they want like he thinks. They should be raised to know that they're their gender, they only date the opposite gender, and to act like it. Girls should be feminine and boys should be masculine, just like God wants.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Totally agree with you and that's the right thing to do and the logical thing to do to be able to survive.

That's how it was millions of years ago and that's the reasom why we are still here today...

A girl should be proud of her feminine and the guy should be proud of his masculanity...

[Harmseygrace]

Exactly. Mine and my boyfriend's views may be a bit too different. I don't particularly want my kids raised to believe that.

Yup, it is. This is one of my favourite quotes.
'It seems to be the fashion nowadays for a girl to behave as much like a man as possible. Well, I won't! I'll make the best of being a girl and be as nice a specimen as I can: sweet and modest, a dear, dainty thing with clothes smelling all sweet and violety, a soft voice, and pretty, womanly ways. Since I'm a girl, I prefer to be a real one!
― Mrs. George de Horne Vaizey'.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Hehehe, your already a sweet cute girl, your a beautiful flower who should be warm, happy, comfortable and safe at home, a man builds a humble house where he put his housewife so she makes it a beautiful castle filled in love and happiness and a housewife knows that she doesn't need anyone to raise her her except her husband who loves her so much forever 😊

Don't smell sooo sweet or he will eat you alive little strawberry cake 😄

[Harmseygrace]

Aw thank you. I love the stuff you say about the traditional stuff, it's super duper sweet.
Haha, I'll try!

[TonyMetal_1986]

I'm happy because i can make you smile and laugh from your heart, also to give you hope that your dreams can come true and that nothing is impossible 😊

[Harmseygrace]

You're a really kind person. I hope you find the right girl, you deserve it.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Thanks dear and i also wish the best for you 😊

[Harmseygrace]

Thank you.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your welcome

[Anonymous]

Depends on their relationship dynamic. Did she go into this marriage knowing this kind of dynamic of 'husband in charge, woman obeys' was going to happen? Or did he spring this on her? I think if this dynamic works for them and they're both happy, sure. But if it was sprung on her, no.

I personally wouldn't 'obey'. That sounds like I'm a dog obeying my owner, I believe in equal partnership and expect that in a relationship.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your not a dog, you obey your man because he is the head of the house and of course he respecr your opinion too but he have the final decision...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't believe in 'head of the house' for my personal relationship, we'll be equals and neither gets the final say, we come to a decision together.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Sometimes there is no decision together, anyways your free to live the way you want to live, we are just different.

[Justacatlady]

This would depend on how going into the marriage happened. If the woman knew she was marrying a man who expected her to do things in this capacity, then okay.
If on the other hand she was unaware and only after marriage did the man tell her he excepts to be obeyed. Then no that’s a shitty way to go about it

[TonyMetal_1986]

Agreed but when a housewife obeys her husband. It's because she loves him and because he's her life and no loving husband would treat his sweet wife as a slave, obeying means when he asks her to do something and she have the right to refuse but will explain to him why, in the a wife does everything to makes her hisbans happy but a husband k ows what to ask from his wife and will never ask her to do somthing that will humiliate her cause what happens to the wife happens to the husband since they are one.

[Justacatlady]

I don’t disagree with what you said, I still feel it should be discussed before marriage.
For me, I would not want this type of relationship but I know woman that would

[TonyMetal_1986]

I agree that it should be discussed before marriage and i will discuss with my future girl not only this but i will tell her everything, she needs to knows everything about me and i need to know everything about her because we aren't goi g to tell everyone about our stories, it's just between a woman and her man.

Just be truthfull cause this will leads to a successfull marriage... also keeping the promises.

[Justacatlady]

I agree. I think once you find your lady, this will work well 😊

[TonyMetal_1986]

I really hope so and that's if there's still some real love left in this world 😊

[R_Cakes91]

If they both respect each other then they will deeply consider what the other wants. She doesn’t have to obey him, he’s not her father

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your right, he ain't just the father, he is your father, mother, brother, sister, lover, supporter, husband, father of your kids ans everything in your life.

[R_Cakes91]

Well it depends on what kind of dynamic you want. I would personally never marry a guy who expected me to obey him blindly. I’m an independent educated woman so why would I want marry a guy who treats me like a child?

[TonyMetal_1986]

You won't obey blindly for sure and don't forget that a loving husband will never hurt you or tell you to do something that humiliates you.

[jthillman]

That's a good question. A wife shouldn't ever have to obey her husband because the husband should demand of her to do anything. A marriage is a union based on love and respect. I never demand my wife to do anything, nor does she demand of me. If I need help with something I will ask her for help and visa versa. We are not in the slavery age anymore so when it went out the window so did the word obey. Unless your a dog. If you wish to treat your spouse like a dog. If that's the case, she/he is a fool.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I guess i'm still living in the dark ages POPS...
But thanks for your point of view

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Obey is a ugly word and denotes abuse, especially when it's not reciprocal.
I follow my girlfriend's wishes and advice and she follows mine, it's a constant exchange even if she's more the leader due to her personality and age. It's good that way.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Good for you but i'm a dominant type but that doesn't mean that i won't take my future's wife opinions into consideration

[jennifer_bloom]

It should be more of a question of does she want to obey him

[TonyMetal_1986]

The least she can do is to obey him since he is her life, providing for her and taking good care of her and she doesn't need to work to be able to live...

Also where is the problem if a wife obeys the head of the house?

[Texaskid1]

Always.

A good wife does the following:

1. makes sandwiches upon demand
2. Brings ice cold beer upon demand
3. Irons all shirts ( and other clothing items)
4. Has excellent boobies.
5. Will satisfy a man in 1,001 ways and then some.

[TonyMetal_1986]

😂😂😂

[Phoenix98]

Not just a housewife any wife should obey her husband and likewise a husband should listen to his wife and live with them in a understanding way.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Well said, tnx for sharing...

[Phoenix98]

No problem.

[Shahax]

Depends on the conditions of the marriage they agreed apon

[TonyMetal_1986]

I agree.

[Iron_Man]

I don't want to get kicked out of here like you did so I'll just say work together as a team

[TonyMetal_1986]

Agreed bro 😉

[PondyPand]

both partners in a relationship should respect each other but neither should control each other.

[TonyMetal_1986]

What do you mean by control, when a wife obeys, there is no control and when a husband respects his wife then there is no control too.

[PondyPand]

If a woman is expected to obey her partner, there's control.
Control definition: the power to influence or direct people's behaviour or the course of events...

[TonyMetal_1986]

Well she should obey him if she loves him and she won't regret it.

[PondyPand]

Nice threatening tone there...
Depends on the woman, and surely if the man loves her he would continue to help her make her own decisions...
If she loves a guy who doesn't respect her enough to try and take her independence, more fool her.

[SlimeC0RE]

No, since being a housewife doesn’t make her a lesser person. She should support her husband, not obey to him. She’s not a servant, she’s a treasure.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Ohhhhh what a cute boy you are, but don't teach people how to treat their treasure

[SlimeC0RE]

My opinion is kinda based on my parents, and the rest is mostly things that I've read, bad and good, and kept what I think it's more logical.

I intend to die a single virgin, so surely it doesn't affect me much.

[liburnia]

Yes, just as much as he obeys her. It is called mutual respect ;)

[TonyMetal_1986]

No problem, he respects you and you obey him 😆

[liburnia]

If he respect me, that means he value my opinion, that means he obeys me too

[TonyMetal_1986]

The final decision is for the head of the house.

[liburnia]

Hahaha, you mean her 😉

[TonyMetal_1986]

Yes in her dreams 😂

[liburnia]

😂😂😂😂 ok you win, I'll obey

[TonyMetal_1986]

Good girl, you won't regret it 😉

[sheepdip]

How much control do you want someone having over your life?

[TonyMetal_1986]

To a certain extent where it doesn't bothers me

[sheepdip]

But in that circumstances you have allowed the parameter of their control over you. As soon as you become uncomfortable you can stop them. You have, for want of a better term, a kill switch on their control.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I'm not talking about this type of control, i'm talking about a control where a woman see that that her husband is destroying his family from a specific act and she stops him.

[sheepdip]

That's nowhere evidenced in the question.

[NorthwestRider]

I bet if she does not obey, you will hit her with a belt 100 times then chained her up in the basement

Is that reason why you are single lol

[TonyMetal_1986]

Who told you that i'm single 😄

[Anonymous]

Support? Yes. Pull her weight? Yes. Be his rock? Yes.

Obey? Fuck no

[TonyMetal_1986]

It means you obey him, that's what i meant 😄

[morimeme1]

Not really though, obeying means doing whatever he says even if she disagrees which basically strips her off of any character, she could just as well be a doll and not a human being if she does not have a character and an opinion of her own.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@morimeme1 well that's not what i meant, what i truly meant is something like the anonymous has said

[morimeme1]

Yeah, I believe I have told you before already that you need to use appropriate terms if you want people to understand you, this is not the first time you start a controversy 😅

[TonyMetal_1986]

@morimeme1 well it's good to waste some time 😄

[wankiam]

@asker than maybe you could 'waste some time' reading this before you post your next question

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../community-guidelines.html

[TonyMetal_1986]

@wankiam are you for real cause i know this site since nearly 10 years when it was formed, go play somewhere else pops

[wankiam]

you should know better then

[coachTanthony]

Housewife? What year is this?

[TonyMetal_1986]

1819

[coachTanthony]

I wasn't going to go back that far but damn. lol

[Wolkmi]

Obey in what? I think a maintained partner should satisfy, be grateful and do the domestic work but still have a voice, is not a doormat.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I agree and that's what i meant

[lamebeain]

Only if she's into the kinky shit that happens if she doesn't!

[TonyMetal_1986]

Not only in sexual life.

[lamebeain]

there is no other life for the little lady

[MzAsh]

Only if he’s earned it and if she decides to.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Well he should earn it or he ain't a man and about if she decides to, well she's a girl and she must obey him unless he's too weak or accepts to be humiliated

[MzAsh]

Well I mean a relationship isn’t a dictatorship. A woman decides if she wants to be a submissive partner. And she decides the boundaries, terms, and conditions to which she wants to be submissive.

[TonyMetal_1986]

She's a housewife and her husband is her life so a good husband will never humiliate his wife or abuse her because she's his everything too...

[MzAsh]

Your spouse isn’t your whole life. You need to have other aspects of your life too.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Maybe for you and not for me, i wouldn't marry a girl who doesn't considers me that i'm her everything...

[MzAsh]

Why? It’s an unhealthy mentality and creates codependency.

[TonyMetal_1986]

That's what love is all about and makes a marriage lasts forever, also she's a housewife, she's already depending on her man and the husband is also depending on his wife because a housewife is a very important role for a woman.

[MzAsh]

How long have you been married?

[TonyMetal_1986]

9 year married and 5 year seperated... now about to finish the divorce...

I don't believe in divorce but it won't work if one believes and the other doesn't...

Too bad!

[MzAsh]

I see. Interesting.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Well i'm a real man who keeps his promises but a woman should keep her promises till death no matter what happens.

Anyways she lost everything and at some point tried to get back to me but i refused, cause i had enough, a real wife cannot live without her husband, how about if the husband is everything to her, was taking care of her, providing for her, taught her and did so much for her just so he got dumped for stupid reasons!

[MzAsh]

Seems like you went through a lot.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Tbh yes, now i don't actually believe in real love anymore, i believe that i love for real but will i find someone who will loves me the way i do, i really doubt it especially in this age and generation.

People really need to learn what a true marriage is before getting married.

I never hate, even in my separation i took her to the hospital 3 times and took care of her when she found no one to save her.

For example: imagine yourself always saving someone and helping someone and be nice to them but when your ill and hurt, you find no one near to you!

[MzAsh]

A common problem with getting married too young.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Maybe or maybe not, i was 21 and now about to become 34 and i'm still the same but yeah maybe who knows! Some people gets married late and also gets a divorce...

I truly believe that it's all related to how the couple thinks and in what they believe, also to keep their promises and agreements forever and to never listen to people bragging outside the house circle.

[MzAsh]

What promises did she break?

[TonyMetal_1986]

Too many, you can accept everything in life except a person who is like a chameleon changing colors everytime or so...

Also when they change they tell you either you accept or i'll leave... no thanks 😏

[MzAsh]

Could have been a personality disorder.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I think so and at 1st she was willing to go with me to see a psychologist than she refused cause i think that she have listened to her aunt who hates me and wants to ruin our marriage...

[MzAsh]

Did you obey her?

[TonyMetal_1986]

You surely didn't have to ask me this 😄
Do i look like someone who obey?
It's because she stopped obeying me and respecting me, we are at this stage now.

Since day 1 i let a girl know me very well, i have nothing to hide, but you cannot say yes i adore you and after years of marriage you start to change everything and your other half have to cope or else!

The obey word means respect her man who is the head of the house but that doesn't means that she doesn't have an opinion or she ain't respected or treated like a slave, also when a wife obeys her loving husband, he surely will treat her the way he treat himself and maybe better, so i guess this explains everything!

It's enough that he never cheats and don't get drunk and love to spend all his time with his wife and he is the one who's taking care of her, providing for her and always be there for her!

[MzAsh]

Truth is, no grown ass decent woman wants to obey someone who isn’t her parents. Sorry but you’re out of line in your thinking here.

[TonyMetal_1986]

As if your parents are more important than your husband, your husband is your life than comes your kids and parents, i guess this will explains a lot.

You means no ass grown decent woman wouldn't obey her husband.

[MzAsh]

Maybe you feel that way but no one else has to.

[bamesjond0069]

Did you spank your wife? I personally wouldn't tolerate that shit and id put her on my knee and she wouldn't sit for a week. Women dont just obey. They are easily influenced by others like auntie or tv and thats why so many of them claim they are helpless like "i had to suck his dick i couldnt say no" "tv ad made me buy something" "everyone else had a widget i need one" they are completely consumed by social pressure and this is why they need to be treated exactly like a child when they do it. If they act like an adult ok good they are one but 1st temper tantrum the need to be punished. girlfriend of mine once wanted candy and nagged me in the store about it like a 5 year old. I whooped her ass at home and i disallowed all candy for a month. She never did that shit again. Its that simple.

[MzAsh]

Lol it’s no wonder you two are single. 😂

[bamesjond0069]

Im not?

[MzAsh]

You’re not married

[bamesjond0069]

Only because i don't want to be. Its not for lack of available options. Most women want to submit to me. I just have extremely high standards and deny almost all of them even a chance.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Yes no one else have to, i never forced anyone to obey, even if i am able to force you to do things for me, i refuse because i'd like the person to do things for me from his or her own will...

I know what your thinking, for example if a husband tells his wife to make sex with someone so they pay him money, she have to obey him, or if he tell her to get down on her knees and kiss his feet...😂

Well that's totally wrong and no sane man would tell his wife to do such things, anyways a wife will kiss her husband everywhere without having him telling her to do it.

Also when a man tells his wife to not go for a specific place, he will explain to her why, always remember that he treats her the way he treats himself, so enough said.

[MzAsh]

You two should just marry each other 😂

[bamesjond0069]

Only if Tony submits to me. 😘

[TonyMetal_1986]

@bamesjond0069 @MzAsh i'm not this type of men, also i agree with some parts that you have mentioned such as "they are easily influenced and act like babies"...

I never have treated a girl like a baby or punish her because she's a grown woman, i always tend to help her and make her see where she was right and where she was wrong.

When a woman is a housewife, a man knows that she depends on him, which means if you don't bring food to the house she will remain hungry and thirsty, she is your responsibility, you have to take care of her, it's not that if she did something wrong, you get your revenge by depriving her from food or water or sleep or medication, you can tell her that this Sunday we are not going out or no shopping next weak or go alone to shop and i won't go with you...

She is a human being and she make mistakes just like you do, hurting her means your hurting yourself, always remember that not only your kids are a part of you but also the wife is a part of you and she is the BIG part...

You will feed her, keep her warm at home, hold your full repsonsibility towards her and try to talk with her to make her understand the wrong things that she did, but never let her feel less than a human, slso remember that without a housewife, your house is like a trash bin, your clothes are unwearable, no food on the table and bo happiness at home.

You are her heart but she is the energy that makes it beat, which means you both need each other!

[bamesjond0069]

@TonyMetal_1986 that all sounds great but if you really love her you will discipline her. Do you have kids? I mean would a good parent spoil their kids and not discipline them? No. A good parent is strict and not afraid to discipline when necessary. And yes sometimes you can simply ground a woman but there is a line where you must physically punish her. You mentioned tell her she's not allowed to go somewhere in your prior comments. What do you do when she wants to go to the club at 2am by herself or with some skeevy people? I don't know about you but I know the right answer is physically stop her and punish her in such a way she never wants to do that again. Do you love her more to let her go and ruin your marriage? No freaking way.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@MzAsh, no thanks for your marriage offer, because i'm 100% straight and i'm not this type of men.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@bamesjond0069 when there is respect and love between you and your wife, she knows that she cannot go at 2 am to a night club without you.

If she insists to go it means she wants to ruin her marriage and you cannot stop her, cause i won't physically harm her for going out, i'll tell her just couple of words "if you get out now, you will stay out and never return", because if you force her and harm her, she will stay this night at home but as soon as she finds her way, she will flee and ruin everything...

I prefer to solve everything by love and agreements, also no matter what happens between you and your wifr she have her boundaries, she won't do such things, but she might sleep early or won't sleep next to you or won't talk to you but she still knows that your her husband and will never do such acts unless she was crazy enough to ruin her marriage.

[bamesjond0069]

Agree to disagree. I do not think she would then seek to ruin the marriage later. I've not ever seen this. Personally i believe you have been far too influenced by modern feminism. Physical punishment has been accepted for thousands of years. Even into the 1950s it was common practice. You are doing something relatively brand new and it obviously didn't work.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@bamesjond0069 everyone knows that i'm an anti feminist and the worst nightmare foe feminism but i'm not entitled to anyone, so punish a woman like that is just wrong, there are many ways that you can punish her instead of using violence towards her, she seeks safety and protection in your arms, your her man who protects her and not the one who hurts her.

[bamesjond0069]

If you are so anti feminism why dont you follow the traditional rules of male female relations? Feminists changed our culture in the 60 and 70s to stop husbands spanking their wives. Why do you have feminist views if you are so anti feminist? Your logic does not align.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@bamesjond0069 i'm anti feminist but i'm also against violence

[bamesjond0069]

So you wouldn't spank kids? What about defend yourself if someone attacked you? Surely there is a place for violence.

[TonyMetal_1986]

@bamesjond0069 yes and i do spank a kid if he or she were refusing to behave after talking to them

[bamesjond0069]

And so what do you do if your wife refuses to behave after talking to her? Why not the same thing?

[TonyMetal_1986]

@bamesjond0069 because she's a grown woman, do you accept a woman to spank you? Of course not...

A woman SHOULD respect her man and does his wishes and violence will make things worst, i'll punish her but in my own way but in a scenario where she's going in the middle of the night alone to a night club, like i said, she will never return to my house and she will stay where she is the second day, it's going to be a divorce!

[bamesjond0069]

If i act like a child i hope she would spank me. Lmao. But im a man. I never act like a child. Plus man is head of the household. There is not really an instance where woman is head of the household. Sooooo.

[thrillseeker19]

Yes totally

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your a wonderful lady, but only obey your husband if he truly loves you and takes good care of you and treats you the way he treats himself 😊

[thrillseeker19]

I'm not married but I would obey my husband

[TonyMetal_1986]

Do you adore becoming a housewife? 😊

[thrillseeker19]

Oneday yes

[thrillseeker19]

I want to be just like my mom

[TonyMetal_1986]

That's beautiful, a housewife role is a role of pride for a woman, good devoted housewives are queens at home 😊

There is nothing more beautiful for a man to return hom from work to see hisnwife and kids running to hug him and kiss him a lot and to thank him for everything...

Also delicious food on the table, the wife will put the kids to sleep early so that she and her husband can get naughty at night in the bedroom 😄

[thrillseeker19]

Very well said thanks

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your welcome sweet lady, there is nothing more beautiful then a happy loving family.

Also in these days when a girl isna housewife shenfeels safe and protected at home unlike women who must go everyday outside to work and be stressed and getting harassed or might get raped.

Also a housewife is free inside her house, she makes her own schedules, wear what she wants, be comfortable and wait for her man till he comes so she gets her kisses and hugs, the housewife is the key to the family's happiness, also the man can work outside with a comfortable mind knowing that his wife is at home warm and safe. No one will lay a hand on her or humiliate her and doesn't need anyone to live except her husband.

[thrillseeker19]

Lol are you married

[thrillseeker19]

So nicly said

[TonyMetal_1986]

Thanks dear and i'm single 😊

[thrillseeker19]

Ok you knew so much about a housewife and your right I want to be a stay at home mom , cooking, cleaning, taking care of what's needed here

[TonyMetal_1986]

Yep, but my future housewife must make a lot of desserts cause if the meal wasen't enough i'll eat her alive, cause she will be my biggest cake 😂

[thrillseeker19]

Lol you like deserts

[Kdude010]

It's actually the other way around. Should a husband obey his wife?

The phrase "Happy wife Happy life" didn't get created out of nothing.

[TonyMetal_1986]

You made me laugh 🤣

[Anonymous]

'Obey' is the wrong term. I prefer 'defer to'.

[TonyMetal_1986]

What's the difference?

[Opinion Owner]

'Obey' suggests the husband is her superior and the wife is obligated to comply.

'Defer' is more a matter of respect and relationship dynamics between two equals.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I somewhat agree with you but a man is the head of the house.

[Opinion Owner]

Why is the man necessarily the head of the household in your opinion?

[TonyMetal_1986]

Because that's the way it was from thousands of years ago and worked perfectly well till now and also cause your a man as simple as this.

[alance99]

She should have equal say

[bamesjond0069]

Of course she should obey.