Order or not..: it’s the core value that brings us that love towards our future partner, our future children. Our society has fallen out of that... hints many confused people looking for love but never able to give.
What I listed are the core values... many can live, survive... but doesn’t mean it’s true love.
To answer your question, the right reason is when you are ready to scrafices to love the other more than yourself. 1. When knowing that it takes two to make a family 2. It takes two to make a relationship work 3. It takes two to be ready 4. It takes two to share love, passion, goals. 5. When both understand that it’s not about that trip, that nice outfit, not that beautiful wedding... But the two hearts ready to take on life’s challenges.. to not give up on each other, that he is willing to put up with my crap and I to his baggage’s, we have each other’s back... that is love and commitment... then marriage can be in place. So no it’s not that piece of paper or that ring, that wedding dress, how much the wedding cost. It’s the heart from both to understand each other...
That's interesting. I've always believed in no sex before marriage, but that was never the reason to get married. I was going to get married regardless. It was just a question of having sex before the wedding or after; and I decided to wait 'til after.
I always wanted to get married just for the companionship. And the romance. And having a life partner.
Its not that i dont want them to have a father. My point is that i won't let being single stop me from having kids. Having a husband would be an awesome bonus. But if i dont have a husband, im not gonna let that stop me from having kids
No because i could marry some single man or single father who would become the father to the kid i had through a donor... people do it all the time. I’m not denying the kid a dad. I’m just not letting that slow me down
@Jamie05rhs how many single women goes to fertility clinics? I am planning on doing that as I don't want a partner, my mom done that with my oldest brother, on my dads side his mom had all 6 kids through a clinic! You don't need a guy, ALL my grandmothers kids have college degrees in the medical field.
How I was raised without a dad, I have a college degree, as long as you are financially stable who the hell cares!!! Keep YOUR personal opinions to your damned self already!
as in you want someone soo bad you feel like if they walk out of the room... your lungs might crush. they make you feel things you always listened to in music. And with that person, you know everything is right in the world although the news says there was a bombing somewhere.
Only if u truly love the person and want to spend the rest of your life with that person n he or she makes u happy n u no for sure he or she is the one your soul matte your one n only n then I say yes get married
Any reason is right. Two must be marrying for sake of love and marriage. Go all in. Expectations creates all the problems. Take structured premarital counseling.
I married ole skanky because I got her pregnant and wanted to raise my children with both parents around something I didn’t have growing up but she had other plans couldn’t be honest or keep her legs closed
I actually know someone who stayed married for all 11 kids, he is older than me but when his youngest turned 18 he and his wife divorced. He said he was gay and had a boyfriend, and wanted to be with him. I thought, dang man... your gay and you managed to have 11 kids, geez.
You could live with someone a thousand years, but the nano second. you are granted a marriage license ( TAX) from smothering mother government it’s over, that little piece of paper ruins everything. Average marriage lasts 3 years as of 1990
Get a pagan marriage, with a priest, no license. However, health insurance, hospitals etc will not recognize a marriage not ordained ( taxed) by the state.
There are no "right reasons." People can do whatever the hell they want. In the past people married simply for convenience (the man worked and the woman provided). Go even farther, girls married to protect against being raped.
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Love, relationship, marriage, family, children... is not how you described.
Take your time to figure out what you want, who you are before anyone else get hurt.
learn what true love means. What family requires...
without the love, commitment, scarifies... it’s only the child/children will continue being lost in this society.
I can explain a lot more... but it’s up to you if you wish to learn and grow.
How is it not what i described? I didn't describe in a specific order. But i said my reason aside from (read parentheses). I never stated an order
Order or not..: it’s the core value that brings us that love towards our future partner, our future children.
Our society has fallen out of that... hints many confused people looking for love but never able to give.
What I listed are the core values... many can live, survive... but doesn’t mean it’s true love.
To answer your question, the right reason is when you are ready to scrafices to love the other more than yourself.
1. When knowing that it takes two to make a family
2. It takes two to make a relationship work
3. It takes two to be ready
4. It takes two to share love, passion, goals.
5. When both understand that it’s not about that trip, that nice outfit, not that beautiful wedding...
But the two hearts ready to take on life’s challenges.. to not give up on each other, that he is willing to put up with my crap and I to his baggage’s, we have each other’s back...
that is love and commitment... then marriage can be in place.
So no it’s not that piece of paper or that ring, that wedding dress, how much the wedding cost. It’s the heart from both to understand each other...
That's interesting. I've always believed in no sex before marriage, but that was never the reason to get married. I was going to get married regardless. It was just a question of having sex before the wedding or after; and I decided to wait 'til after.
I always wanted to get married just for the companionship. And the romance. And having a life partner.
As for your situation, I think you're being selfish. You want to have kids, and yet you don't want them to have a father. That's f*cked up.
Its not that i dont want them to have a father. My point is that i won't let being single stop me from having kids. Having a husband would be an awesome bonus. But if i dont have a husband, im not gonna let that stop me from having kids
It's the same damn thing, Desi. Open your eyes.
No because i could marry some single man or single father who would become the father to the kid i had through a donor... people do it all the time. I’m not denying the kid a dad. I’m just not letting that slow me down
@Jamie05rhs how many single women goes to fertility clinics? I am planning on doing that as I don't want a partner, my mom done that with my oldest brother, on my dads side his mom had all 6 kids through a clinic! You don't need a guy, ALL my grandmothers kids have college degrees in the medical field.
@DizzyDesii and there's a good chance he'll beat your kids or sexually abuse them.
@Laciandmaci You're making a horrible mistake.
How I was raised without a dad, I have a college degree, as long as you are financially stable who the hell cares!!! Keep YOUR personal opinions to your damned self already!
@Laciandmaci This is my comment and you chose to comment on it. You are going to hear my opinion. Sorry, hon.
You love them and they love you back and you get along and tend to be inseparable.
I agree
1. You love someone.
2. You enjoy the company of the person and you want that person around you for life.
3. A best friend who shares your values.
Yea those are my first and foremost reasons. But the reasons i have after that scare me
there’s one reason to marry...
LOVE...
as in you want someone soo bad you feel like if they walk out of the room... your lungs might crush. they make you feel things you always listened to in music. And with that person, you know everything is right in the world although the news says there was a bombing somewhere.
AND YOU DONT WANA LOSE THAT
trust, and honor the other things are 2andary because you need those t have anything else.
Very true
Only if u truly love the person and want to spend the rest of your life with that person n he or she makes u happy n u no for sure he or she is the one your soul matte your one n only n then I say yes get married
Sounds good
It is the wildest and craziest thing two people can ever do... and that they want to do this together is the right reason.
Very true
Any reason is right. Two must be marrying for sake of love and marriage. Go all in. Expectations creates all the problems. Take structured premarital counseling.
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Oh i see
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Any reason is valid so long as you're both in agreement and understand eachothers reasons and what it implies.
I like this
I want to get down and dirty with my babe in nice white dress.
Haha
For love and only if you compatible anything else is a waste of time
Yea those are my main reasons of course. But my other reasons scare me
What are those
Paragraph at the top
Yeah your right those are some pretty scary reasons to get married
Lol but i see others have similar reasons
Yes that true but I wouldn't follow them 😂
Having a common ground, understanding, trust, acceptance, and love
Sounds good
If both can understand that care well then its right time to marry
Oh i see
I married ole skanky because I got her pregnant and wanted to raise my children with both parents around something I didn’t have growing up but she had other plans couldn’t be honest or keep her legs closed
Damn. Yea i would never marry just for the kids. I may STAY married for the kids but not marry for the kids
Believe me it was a lesson learned the hard way but I’m thankful I’m alive and DONE WITH her bullshit
I actually know someone who stayed married for all 11 kids, he is older than me but when his youngest turned 18 he and his wife divorced. He said he was gay and had a boyfriend, and wanted to be with him. I thought, dang man... your gay and you managed to have 11 kids, geez.
You could live with someone a thousand years, but the nano second. you are granted a marriage license ( TAX) from smothering mother government it’s over, that little piece of paper ruins everything. Average marriage lasts 3 years as of 1990
Yea but i domt wanna shack up with someone. I’d just not live with them
Get a pagan marriage, with a priest, no license. However, health insurance, hospitals etc will not recognize a marriage not ordained ( taxed) by the state.
Oh i see
leagley you are alowed sex all from that 1 act ladeys leev there husbands love is the base wich all things are...
Oh i see
So far as I can tell the main reason is that you're planning on having kids very soon.
Well even when i was 18 and not about tonhave kids, i still wanted to marry
You wanted to marry eventually or you wanted to marry at 18?
I've always believed in marriage. This is the first year im questioning it
Sure, but you can believe in marriage and still think there's a time and a place for it, no?
Oh yea
Love that’s it you love someone or you don’t
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There are no "right reasons." People can do whatever the hell they want. In the past people married simply for convenience (the man worked and the woman provided). Go even farther, girls married to protect against being raped.