Girls, what if instead of just the Boyfriend, His whole family proposed you? Read Details.. And rate the proposal.. ?

[Nik1hil]

. Now usually a guy proposes the Girl to Marry him

The proposal

But what if it's not just the Boyfriend proposing you..

What if right behind your boyfriend it's your
- Boyfriend's Parents Proposing you to become their Daughter-in-law and make their Son happy.
- Boyfriend's Siblings proposing you to be their New Sister-In-Law and make their brother happy..
- Boyfriend's friends who he consider his Bro's proposing you to become their Sister-in-law and a friend..

So it's like 1 boyfriend + 2 parents + 2 siblings + 3 friends = 8 people proposing you..

If you understand the proposal give it a rating..

It's Legendary proposal +90/100

It's Epic proposal +80/100

It's very heroic proposal +70/100

It's confusing but comfy proposal +50/100

Ehh!.. It's scary and shitty idea +20/100

Fk you! If my boyfriend's proposal ended up like this I will dump him and his family

😭😭😭 NIK YOU MAKING Me Cry! Imma gonna die single..

Updates

+1 y

When a guy proposes you to be his wife..
He is a also asking you to be part of his family..

And yes you can accept the boys proposal and single out his sister if she is a bitch and reject her proposal..
This way you won't have to put up with selective individuals of his family who's proposal you reject...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

A marriage proposal should only involve the two that are entering into the marriage... In an ideal situation you are accepting their family as well.. But in real life, or doesn't always work that way... And as much as you want them to become a part of your family, a marriage is a beginning of a new family created by the married couple.. To me, if a guy proposed to me with his whole family and friends, it'd make me think or wonder if he would involve his whole family in every decision or aspect of the marriage as well..

[UnknownGagsUser]

Rate? I'm coming confusing?

[Nik1hil]

Just rate it how good do you think this proposal..
Is would you want to be proposed like this

[OlderAndWiser]

I think that a proposal should happen in an intimate and private place and time, shared just by the two lovers. It's okay to have a surprise engagement party scheduled for later that day, when he news can be announced and shared with family and friends, but. . . having family and friends at the proposal will potentially make a girl feel pressured into saying "yes" even if she wants to say "no."

[Sangita93]

I know from your profile that you are an INDIAN. Arranged marriage is a tradition in almost all cultures and societies, and continue to account for an overwhelming majority of marriages in the Indian subcontinent. Despite the fact that romantic love is "wholly celebrated" in both Indian cultures and folklore, and the arranged marriage tradition lacks any official legal recognition or support, the institution has proved to be "surprisingly robust" and at the same time ready in adapting to changed social circumstances. Some unique traditions were, Swayamvara, where the girl's parents broadcast the intent of the girl to marry and invited all interested men to be present in a wedding hall on a specific date and time, and the girl indicate her choice by garlanding the man she wanted to marry. Another variant was the Gandharva marriage, which involved simple mutual consent between a man and a woman based on mutual attraction and no rituals or witnesses. Parental control of marriage may have emerged as a mechanism to prevent the intermixing of ethnic groups and castes. With similarity of groups being viewed a primary unit to which social loyalty was owed by individuals; marriage became an affair deeply impacting the entire family for Indian Hindus and key to "the formation or maintenance of family alliances. For instance, marriages between cousins are not permissible in most Hindu communities. With the expanding social reform and female emancipation that accompanied economic and literacy growth raised "love marriages" - where the initial contact with potential spouses does not involve the parents or family members. Normally parents now agree with boy’s and girl’s choice, or arrange for marriage-ready sons and daughters to meet with multiple potential spouses with an accepted right of refusal. These arranged marriages are effectively the result of a wide search by both the girl's family and the boy's family. Once potential spouses for sons and daughters were once identified through family and social relationships, they are increasingly being solicited. Self-arranged marriages or love-arranged marriages are increasingly common now for a couple that has met by themselves and are involved romantically to go through the process of an arranged marriage with that specific partner in mind. You are in this class, and you, your parents, your siblings, and friends – all are happy with this proposal, so it is legendary proposal and definitely bring happiness in your and your spouse’s family. Go ahead and invite all of us in engagement ceremony as soon as possible.

[Nik1hil]

🤐🤐🤐🤐

[Alejandro3000]

@Nik1hil lmao

[Alejandro3000]

That would send a really strange message like they are begging to end their misery 😂 "take him/her!! Please, you are the only one who hasn't run a mile, we thought this day would never come, it's been so long so much time and effort our own lives at a stand still"
he/she says "oh!" Stares at the person hesitates with the engagement ring and suddenly they gasp.. lmao

[Nik1hil]

😂🤣🤣 Bruh you are funny

[Alejandro3000]

There's a movie that is similar to this situation, it's called Shallow Hal

[TwoowT]

I think it’s a dreamy choice and scary at the same time. I choose C because it’s close to what I think.

[Nik1hil]

It's much easier for you..
Because like you can say Yes to him...

But skip his mom or sister if they were a bitch to you..
That way you don't have to take crap from them... Because you never accepted to be their sister in law or daughter in law...

[TwoowT]

True.

[Andres77]

Sweet and clever... but wouldn't that put too much pressure on the girl?
What if she felt pressured to accept and then grew resentful?
What if she didn't feel the pressure and had to deny his proposal in front of everyone?

Sounds sweet but I think proposals should be private affairs between the two and no circumstance with any perceived pressure.

[TacosRAwesome]

His proposal is enough for me as I'm marrying him and not his family.

[Nik1hil]

OK , then accept his proposal, and deny his family and siblings and friends

[Blackcupcake]

Nope that’s a lot less intimate and more intimidating in my opinion. If you’re gonna say no you’re gonna have to say no to an entire family instead of only one person...

[Nik1hil]

Either way you are saying NO to an entire family...
A boy's family and friends know if he is going to attempt to propose you..

[Blackcupcake]

yeah but I won’t be feeling the pressure of them all sitting there looking at me anticipating a yes

[Nik1hil]

Well.. You are allowed to say NO!..
Also its for scenario where you are already in committed relationship with him and know his family very well..
You already treat his dad like your dad...
His mom like your mom..
And his siblings like your siblings..

Also you have the choice to reject and accept individual proposal..

Like you can accept his proposal and reject everyone else.
Or reject him and accept his parents proposal to be their daughter in law..

[karaspara]

Option A because you will know you have everyones support

[bratgirlfriend]

That's sounds scary, that a lot of people rather have him ask alone

[Nik1hil]

Why?
It shouldn't be..
If he asks and you say No... You say no to his parents and his siblings too..
You do know that..
It's a same question being asked in a different way

[Aakash_Hangargi]

That's called Arranged Marraige 😂

[Nik1hil]

🤔 NO.. I don't think so.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

What's there to think same concept right what happens in arranged marriage you and your family members select a girl you goto there house with proposal you not only propose the girl but you also propose there family as well 🤣

[Nik1hil]

Read my scenario..

Imagine its my son..
He Starts dating goes in committed relationship and bring the girl to meet the family... I like her and approve..
Now he wants to propose to her..
Not bringing her family in scenario..

He hosts the proposal and as a family we join him in popping the question..

I just want to know if it will be more intense for the girl..

[Aakash_Hangargi]

See it's just a variant of it , everything is same in as arranged marraige except for the boy already chose the girl and also you have to keep in mind even in your scenario if you fix it with your side of family you still need to convince there parents or it will create tension among families.

And coming to the intensity

Even if you propose alone to her it will be intense and even if you propose with whole family it will be awkward if she rejects then it will be intense for the guy

[Nik1hil]

Bruh...
I am not going to propose a girl.. 😂🤣 Jeez just talking about a hypothetical situation..

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Sure , I am just speaking in terms of storyline