Girls, what if instead of just the Boyfriend, His whole family proposed you? Read Details.. And rate the proposal.. ?

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.  Now usually a guy proposes the Girl to Marry him But what if it's not just the Boyfriend proposing you..  What if right behind your boyfriend it's your  -  Boyfriend's Parents Proposing you to become their Daughter-in-law  and make their Son happy.  -  Boyfriend's Siblings proposing you to be their New Sister-In-Law  and make their brother happy..  -  Boyfriend's friends who he consider his Bro's proposing you to become their Sister-in-law  and a friend..  So it's like 1 boyfriend + 2 parents + 2 siblings + 3 friends = 8 people proposing you..  If you understand the proposal give it a rating..

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

A marriage proposal should only involve the two that are entering into the marriage... In an ideal situation you are accepting their family as well.. But in real life, or doesn't always work that way... And as much as you want them to become a part of your family, a marriage is a beginning of a new family created by the married couple.. To me, if a guy proposed to me with his whole family and friends, it'd make me think or wonder if he would involve his whole family in every decision or aspect of the marriage as well..

UnknownGagsUser · Accepted Answer

Rate? I'm coming confusing?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I think that a proposal should happen in an intimate and private place and time, shared just by the two lovers. It's okay to have a surprise engagement party scheduled for later that day, when he news can be announced and shared with family and friends, but. . . having family and friends at the proposal will potentially make a girl feel pressured into saying "yes" even if she wants to say "no."

Sangita93 · Answer

I know from your profile that you are an INDIAN. Arranged marriage is a tradition in almost all cultures and societies, and continue to account for an overwhelming majority of marriages in the Indian subcontinent. Despite the fact that romantic love is "wholly celebrated" in both Indian cultures and folklore, and the arranged marriage tradition lacks any official legal recognition or support, the institution has proved to be "surprisingly robust" and at the same time ready in adapting to changed social circumstances. Some unique traditions were, Swayamvara, where the girl's parents broadcast the intent of the girl to marry and invited all interested men to be present in a wedding hall on a specific date and time, and the girl indicate her choice by garlanding the man she wanted to marry. Another variant was the Gandharva marriage, which involved simple mutual consent between a man and a woman based on mutual attraction and no rituals or witnesses. Parental control of marriage may have emerged as a mechanism to prevent the intermixing of ethnic groups and castes. With similarity of groups being viewed a primary unit to which social loyalty was owed by individuals; marriage became an affair deeply impacting the entire family for Indian Hindus and key to "the formation or maintenance of family alliances. For instance, marriages between cousins are not permissible in most Hindu communities. With the expanding social reform and female emancipation that accompanied economic and literacy growth raised "love marriages" - where the initial contact with potential spouses does not involve the parents or family members. Normally parents now agree with boy’s and girl’s choice, or arrange for marriage-ready sons and daughters to meet with multiple potential spouses with an accepted right of refusal. These arranged marriages are effectively the result of a wide search by both the girl's family and the boy's family. Once potential spouses for sons and daughters were once identified through family and social relationships, they are increasingly being solicited. Self-arranged marriages or love-arranged marriages are increasingly common now for a couple that has met by themselves and are involved romantically to go through the process of an arranged marriage with that specific partner in mind. You are in this class, and you, your parents, your siblings, and friends – all are happy with this proposal, so it is legendary proposal and definitely bring happiness in your and your spouse’s family. Go ahead and invite all of us in engagement ceremony as soon as possible.

Alejandro3000 · Answer

That would send a really strange message like they are begging to end their misery 😂 "take him/her!! Please, you are the only one who hasn't run a mile, we thought this day would never come, it's been so long so much time and effort our own lives at a stand still"
he/she says "oh!" Stares at the person hesitates with the engagement ring and suddenly they gasp.. lmao

TwoowT · Answer

I think it’s a dreamy choice and scary at the same time. I choose C because it’s close to what I think.

Andres77 · Answer

Sweet and clever... but wouldn't that put too much pressure on the girl?
What if she felt pressured to accept and then grew resentful?
What if she didn't feel the pressure and had to deny his proposal in front of everyone?

Sounds sweet but I think proposals should be private affairs between the two and no circumstance with any perceived pressure.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

His proposal is enough for me as I'm marrying him and not his family.

Blackcupcake · Answer

Nope that’s a lot less intimate and more intimidating in my opinion. If you’re gonna say no you’re gonna have to say no to an entire family instead of only one person...

karaspara · Answer

Option A because you will know you have everyones support

bratgirlfriend · Answer

That's sounds scary, that a lot of people rather have him ask alone

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

That's called Arranged Marraige 😂

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