You dont need contract to marry in my opinion. If you live with your girlfriend at the same house forever, then it is marriage in my opinion.
However non married women over 30s without kids are seen as leftovers according my experience with many guys on gag and mgtow guys. Your worth as a woman decrease the older you get and especially if you are a single mum according many guys on gag and mgtow in my experience. I have seen guys that say single mums are only sex toys to them on gag. I dont know what the majority of men think. So i can't generalize but i did not see the same hostility towards men over 30s or single dads. I did not see anyone seeing men over 30s as leftovers. Men's worth are measured by their stability, money etc and not age which you can't control according to many guys on gag, mgtow on youtube etc. So men did not get affected when they are still single in their 30,40 or 50s and so they have it flexible according to this logic and so can get a young hot girl in his 30-40s for example.
So if this all true, then it is very very very drastic for a woman whose husband left her when she is not young anymore. Furthermore, if she has kids too, and so become single mum, she fucked up her life up according to this logic. So if your life is fucked up due to this, and your worth is zero due to age and your kids, do you have really a reason to live? I would not be suprised if she murders her ex husband after her kids are financial independent. She is seen as disgusting middle age single mum who is undesireable and a sextoy and has no worth and is not worthy for love according to this logic i mentioned. She will never find love again and any man who dates her is beta cuck according to mgtow and guys on gag. This all does not justify murder or any abuse but if this all true and so your worth is zero due to your age and kids, you will become a fucking femcel that is hated by the whole society and this may turn you into crazy depressive person.
In some middleeastern countries divorced women are seen as leftovers and it is very unlikely that she will find another man who marries her. She is seen as leftovers and no worthy for love anymore. So it is not uncommon that such women murder their ex husbands. The sexist antiman laws can prevent this since men can't just easily divorce her so easily. This does not justify these sexist antiman laws, of course.
This whole post is just a theory and is anecdotal and i can't generalize men. I am just summarizing many opinions of guys on gag. I hope it is not true that women are worthless for guys if they are single mum and no young anymore
Sorry for this long post. I watched many mgtow videos which make me scared of getting older and a little suicidal.
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I'm not going to try & change your mind, but raise the stakes here:
Marriage is only for people who need validation in their relationship to stay together. REAL love doesn't require a piece of paper & a ceremony. Married people can still cheat, married people still look at other people, married people get bored of their lives, and so much more. Marriage doesn't stop any primal instincts that we still have. Marriage just makes it expensive to leave the other person years down the line if you get tired of the other person.
My boyfriend wants to get married one day, i don't believe in marriage, but I'm willing to compromise for him, if that's what he wants.
Depends where you live in the world.
Personal do I know no one really needs to get married in many countries to have family.
I also know that there are to many female's that are pregnant with other's child within a marriage and she lies about it until it goes to shit for her. there the husband doesn't know.
Also know children are not gonna get damaged because of not being married.
More likely to become damaged due to one or both having attitude problems. that is more likely in marriage and by the female since a lot of female's tends to become " she is always right even if she is wrong she is right " " happy wife happy life " " happy wife happy husband " entitlement, trying to control/change/improve, making the provider work at home too with shores that she shall do if she is home wife. revenge because he didn't do or did something she didn't like. nagging, attacking him. disrespectful. contempt. being the curse of bad communication. and so on...
Force feeding religious beliefs to their children...
It is not my obligation to change your mind. If you don't want to get married, don't do it. It's that simple. You shouldn't get married because some old guy online talked you into it.
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If you truly feel that way I don't think there's a lot I could say that would 'change your mind'. However, I will say there are many men who are very happily married. There are a lot of benefits of marriage for men
1. A loving stable companion
2. A stable loving household to have and raise children
3. Men who are married are significantly more likely to have more sex then men who are single
4. Men who are married are significantly more likely to make more money then single men
I'm sure there's more, but that's what I could think of off the top of my head.
Maybe you don't like the idea of marriage, but that doesn't mean that most men feel the same way you do. Again, there are many men who are married and very much like being married.If you have high standards then it's just the top level of commitment you can have in a relationship and it's natural to go there with the right person. The confusion today is that many people with low standards and an inability to really commit have gotten married in name only.
In today's legal/political climate men need prenups of some sort plus be very careful about who they marry. The number of women who would make good wives is shrinking fast tho.Marriage is only relevant for religious people of either gender in my view if you are worried about a wife taking you to the cleaners in a divorce may I suggest 1) Don't marry her if that's your outlook
2) Pre-nuptial agreements aren't only for the rich and famousSorry it's that one sided today. Technically it's for the one with weakest economy but we all know that women rarely marry down. So ignoring that small minority that do it's only women left.
Why do I need to change your mind exactly? If you don't want to get married, or you think it's not for men, then the answer is simple: don't get married. No one can force you to walk down the aisle buddy, it's your life!
Why do women speak about marriage as if the only way to have a long-term relationship is to have a wedding? Literally everything they list is possible without a wedding.
Even funnier is the anon girl who spoke about the benefits of marriage, one of them being stability, then spoke about how she divorced and her new husband gets more sex than her last husband. Why thatβs a stupid argument for marriage being about stability or being a good deal will go completely over their heads.Marriage is for kids and families, not men or women.
If we imagine that our nating strategies are like animals, you have men trying to fuck as many women as possible, and many many women sharing one man.
Without marriage, we return to our animal nature and leave the majority of men with no purpose, and the majority of children with no fathers.Simple. All you have to do is speak to a happily married man to prove your theory wrong.
You like pussy? Wanna have kids? Mature enough to want to GIVE, not what you can GET?
If you answered no to any of them then marriage is not for you. Some people just never get there, and that's fine. Just don't date either - you'll fail every time."Is this the line to lose half my shit" - Bill Burr
No need to marry, many reasons not to.
Can stay together happily too.
Women want that extra "stability" that comes with in case of a break up or that fear will keep the man longer. Not their main reason.
Also want it for social validation and for tradition.
Sorry ladies, no marriage from me, love is all you getOf course not. My dad has always told me that marriage is a promise to commit and to try your best. You become a family unit, two heads are better than one, and more efficient. If you're talking marriage vs co habiting then it's up to your preference. But if you want something comfortable, loving, children etc, marriage is better than co habiting.
If you don't want to get married then you probably wouldn't be a good husband and therefore it's better that you don't. It's not something that an outsider can change your mind on with arguments. Just be upfront about it with the girls you date.
Yeah it's true. This is the reason why all men are being forced and harassed to propose to a woman with a ring he brought
Obviously men are so weak that they don't have their own minds to speak and say I DON'T while getting marriedWomen have all the advantages of marriage and men have none. That is why smart men never get married.
No. Of course it's for men too. You can get married, have kids who will be your blood and expand your genes, get a raise at work. Are those not good things?
Men evolved to spread seed and they sure act like it
I don't care enough to change your mind.
Do what you want with your lifeI don't have to change your mind. It's true. Men get nothing out of it. It's all about serving the interests fo women.
Why? Women do most of the household work give birth to kids emotional support and subsidies guys life example if he want to buy a home than she can help him
sex for life without working hard for it? you're losing out...
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