Gentlemen, would you marry a single mother?

[aquamarine321]

Yes

No

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@Sarahr123 I’m pretty sure you don’t have any balls or a dick to be telling me what a guy wants to what he doesn’t want

[The-Wise-Phoenix]

Three words.
BABY DADDY DRAMA.
I dated a few single mothers in my younger years. Most of them got pregnant by some dirtbag who is a borderline criminal. I will no longer have a relationship with a woman with that lurking in the background. And it doesn't say at lot of good things about her if she spread her legs for that guy.
So my answer is no. I would not Mary a single mother.

[Levin]

You make a good point. I'm around these kinds of mothers at work, and almost without exception the guy is some form of dickhead. Some of them, violent dickheads.

There's enough drama in life already without that.

[MCheetah]

No. It's too much extra work, for far less in return, and you are always going to be dead-last in her life, among her children, family, and work. Why would I want to put in extra work of having to please two or more people, only to get less in return?

[aquamarine321]

Well not all, thier are few single mothers who wouldn’t

[nice-girl]

It's more likely if he is a single father or already has children with another woman.

[karaspara]

I'm sure the majority will say no yet Hell of a lot of Step fathers in the world

[Jersey2]

True. But the phase “I hated my step father” is commonly heard. Not all but a lot. The step father isn’t bonded to the child and vice versa. It’s a crappy situation for all.

[karaspara]

@Jersey2

[Sarahr123]

Compared to the number of people in the world, there aren’t that many stepfathers. Plus many stepfathers marry for their own agenda such as papers to settle in a superpower country.

[aquamarine321]

@SarahR that’s a lie

[Sarahr123]

Your existence is a lie. Simp.

[aquamarine321]

@sahahr Ha ha ha you trying to be funny

[Sarahr123]

The truth is most sane people don’t want to raise next man’s kids. And they shouldn’t either. I won’t spend a single penny on next woman’s kid so why would a man want to do it? All the stepdads I know married for papers or some other agenda.

[aquamarine321]

Not because you know of men who do there deeds means every man does that , you can’t see two guys do a thing and say evey man does that, come on

[Sarahr123]

Well you can’t see two guys being a simp and say every guy does it either. A tall, young and handsome guy with many good looking young options who don’t come with the baggage of kids and being second, third hand or whatever is not going to choose that baggage over a young, pretty girl with no kids.

Most men I know don’t even want to marry a girl if she’s not a virgin and you’re on divorcee with kids... without some sort of hidden agenda there’s no way.
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[Sarahr123]

Are you a girl behind a boy’s account? I’m convinced that you are.

[karaspara]

@Sarahr123 Are you on your own? Wonder why 😂😂😂

[Sarahr123]

Actually I have a boyfriend of seven years. Having a sexy body and pretty face and tight pussy goes a long way

[Jersey2]

@Sarahr123 Yes, yes it does 😂

[Mofunfour20]

No because its a waste of time and resources providing for another mans child. You can't discipline someone else's child so anyone that becomes a stepfather has to have very low self respect. Their child can't respect a stepfather if they can't discipline the child. Becoming a stepfather is like cutting your left arm off. A big L

[MrOracle]

[TheUniqueOne96]

Probably not.

I don't want to raise kids and I'd feel like it's my duty to play a part in that.

Marriage is pointless to me, as I'm not religious either, so maybe a marriage-less relationship.

If I were older and they lived seperately from their kids maybe.

[lumberjack95]

It truly depends on situation, but their is a lot of swirling questions that arise in this area. Like will she be as committed to this relationship as she was to the previous? Am I going to be just used and hustled because of her potentially continus poor decisions? Am I myself just another poor decision that will be marked as a body count? How much of a commitment will be in the relationship with potential factors of mistrust between us?

[MTC29]

No. My mother was a single mom and as a boy I did everything in my power to keep guys away from her, to the point of ruining her only real chance of remarrying.

Because payback is a bitch, and since I believe in karma, I knew that somewhere out there was another boy who'd do the same thing to me!

[ZackBan]

My humble take on this is that single parents should look for other single parents.

When you both have kids you are both "parents" and better suited to take care of the kid that isn't yours.

Plus marrying a single mother is like continuing a game from another man's save point

[DonkeyDan]

It wouldn't be my preference but I'd never rule it out if I were to ever marry again. It's all going to depend on the person and if I am accepted as part of the family by the kids.

[exitseven]

I have recently changed my position on this. If her kid (s) were older, like high school age I would. Toddlers are too hands on and take up too much time.

[Andres77]

I did once.
The marriage was a disaster.
It was not the kid's fault.
I pity the kids for the mother they had.
Sometimes she one needs to consider why she's single to begin with.

[Andres77]

And to the stepfathers that made it work... mega kudos to you.
I know it isn't easy.

[ChrisMaster69]

As a single father it would be a bit hypocritical to say no.

[Avicenna]

No way. I want to have my own biological kids with my wife, not take care of someone else's.

[Drzen]

Single mom should Marry single dad. We all know they bring lot of drama and her time is for her kids only single dad must date them. Guys out there learn in easy way before you live bad damn drama day

[Anonymous]

It's possible, but very unlikely. It depends on why/how she became a single mother. In many cases it is due to irresponsibility on her part and I don't want to be with a woman like that.

[Dchrls78104]

While I respect single mothers that seek dates and husbands, I would not get involved with one.

[mikalgo223]

I absolutely would. If I love a woman chances are I would want a family with her and I would love that child defiently as my own flesh and blood

[Smile_empty_soul]

No, sorry i would not, Not worth the trouble or the drama, or the premature grey hair.

[carlova]

Yes if our wave length matches and the kid feels comfortable

[HighBoi]

No. Not unless I'm single a father. I will never be her top priority. Pass.

[bolverk]

Would depend on how she became a single mother,
If She is a single mother through death of spouse by accident/illnes I'd consider her.

[ManHater]

FUCK NO! Leave the women to open their legs to a useless man who can't stand up and help his kids.

[Anonymous]

Only if she's like really freaky and submissive in and out of bed. Otherwise why would a man bother raising another man's seed? Why not just marry a girl with no baggage instead?

[zagor]

Depends entirely on the specifics of the situation.

[Zygum]

Yes, if she is young, beautiful and sexy, as she is well experienced, so she can be your best wife

[imbeingmyself]

Yes if i am in love with her then why not
for me, that won't matter if she has 1 child or not.

[m33lad]

Absolutely not!! I don’t care how hot she is.

[IncognitoBandito]

If she was really cute and friendly, maybe

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think so I’m not an ATM card

[DaveToo]

I see no downside to this scenario.

[TheAfrikan]

Yes i would

[FirstBorn64]

Yes I can

[Anonymous]

I did years ago