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Outside of the monetary doubts, what else causes you to question if you’re willing/ready to marry someone? (Page 2)
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Will his family like me? Would he blend in with mine? Would he be a good dad? I already know he’s so cute and we can’t stay without each other. On the long run would our romance last
I was ready and willing to get married... once upon a time. Nowadays I simply don't trust a woman enough to marry her. One, she would be marrying my money, not me. And two, she would cheat on me the first chance she gets.
What makes you think she’d cheat
I've never met a faithful woman, starting with my first female love whom I was foolish enough to fall in love with. I have no evidence she did cheat on me but considering she broke up with me just a few days after having a ride in her university colleague's luxurious limousine and on the next day I see her kissing with him, she must have. She was the eye opener I needed back then to see that women marry the money, not the man.
I just wrote under another question how I find sex partners - by asking women "Do you wanna skip the bullshit and fuck?". 15-20% of those asked say "yes". Nearly half of them are either married or have boyfriends. The other half are like me - seeking only sex partners, without the other complications. Once I even had one who was engaged and that night was her... I forgot the word, it's the night before getting married when you have one last party "out in the open", so to speak. Guys use that night to have strippers and hookers and so do women.
Thats why i’d have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. The strippers thing is disrespectful and I don't know why people act like its their last night being single when they haven't been single all the months leading up to the marriage. Also, how can you call all women cheaters but also cheat with some who are already taken? Its a bad look but im sure you dont care since youve already lost respect for us. I just had you let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch
We have a saying here in my country - it's better to cheat WITH you than being cheated ON.
Lmao thats fcked up
I don't think it is. If the woman doesn't wanna cheat, that wouldn't happen. That's why it's always the woman to blaim and sometimes when a woman is caught cheating, that makes great friendships between the two men who fell victim of the cunning woman.
i want to move and live to east Europe first then i will get married, from one of these countries estonia, belarus, poland, georgia, russia, slovakia, bulgaria
1. Their financial situation
2. Education/career
3. Upbringing
4. If they don't have any friends
5. No ambition
6. The way he carries himself
Yea ambition is more important than some realize
Their ability to deal with adversity, both in life and in the relationship
Yea you really gotta see them in a state of disappointment or heartbreak to see how they’d react to misfortune
Political climate
Age
Personal backgrounds
Trust
Life goals
Etc
What kind of friends they have, how they interact with people and if I could see myself having a child with them
Those are good things
Personally I don't know what is unique in dating my girlfriend. What is different in my relationship with her that makes it special?
No im just asking if you have any doubts about being in a marriage, not specifically with her
Marriage in general, a bit, but not for any specific reason.
i just don't belive in marriage
the woman would have to be something very special
before my dad died in 2016 he was married to a bad women for way too many years
that put me off of marriage
Oh, I can think of about a million things. It doesn't take much to spook me.
Also, what do you mean by extra pressure? How hard is it to stay faithful to someone? Really.
Its not hard to stay faithful. I’m saying if the marriage ever started to struggle in terms of communication and someone outside the marriage decided to be a shoulder for me to lean on, I’d fear the idea of ever falling for them emotionally. Im not worried about physically cheating because i know i’d never do that. But emotionally cheating is a sneaky one thats unintentionally done
@DizzyDesii So don't fall for that sh*t. You're a smart girl. You recognize the problem and the potential pitfalls now. So just continue to stay on your toes and always keep your head on a swivel (for danger, that is).
Also, rule of thumb, only confide in another man if they're a) related to you, or b) a licensed professional counselor.
Yea you’re right
Thanks
prostitutes
https://www.youtube.com/embed/mICWFTmE440prostitutes
prostitutes lol
women are such a waste of time to date
I stay focused on Christ
until my time comes
Too many legal implications. And I dissociate from one lifestyle to the next without caring about what i lose. I don't want to do that to someone.
My concern is having kids than 10 years go by and she decides she does not want the marriage anymore and refuse to make things work for the sake of our kids as divorce can really fuck kids up and set them back.
I think all kids should be prepared early on and understand that two people not loving eschother doesn't mean those two people can't love them
Prenups don't work. Judges invalidate them all the time in favor of women.
The answer of : how do i feel when she isn’t around? 🥺
How would you feel
When she ain’t around me i feel helpless, desperate cornered with all negative thoughts & above all life not worth living. This is how i feel when she ain’t around me
Aww thats kinda sweet
Communication skills and chemistry in bed.
In what way dk you question communication
Because we didn't communicate our needs enough. We did a great job communicating in certain areas. But not all of the ones that matter the most to us.
Yea and needs are waaay more important than wants so im sure that was a struggle
One situation was, I "need" you to do this for me so I can get more used to it and fix and problem. She did once and expected everything to be better. But to me, once wasn't enough but I didn't say that to her so it went unresolved and creating resentment.
Oh nooo love you gotta tell someone you still dont understand. Even with work and school you can ask the teacher to give another example
In was the bedroom stuff actually. Like I want you to do more teasing stuff to turn me on.
So she would do it once and then won't do it again.
If she will turn on md and become a scorpion.
? MD?
Turn on Me.
Oh yea a good way to practice is to see how she reacts in situations where you expect her to have your back
Been there. The stab wounds have healed.
What kind of upbringing they have.
You dont think they’d show their true colors long before marriage?
I think they might but it really depends like say we’re engaged and he wants to have a joint bank account and would want me to handover my check to him so he can control the finances. This happened to my friend… she got married at 19 though.
Oh yea i already said i refuse to do the joint bank account. My ex got mad about that. Fck him lmao. Im keepin my secret stash and gonna suggest we keep our finances separate but pay bills together
Me too ! Never get a joint account.
Great question
And your answer? Lol
I didn’t say anything funny @the_shadow_dweller anyways I never been in a relationship where I questioned myself if I’m ready/willing to marry someone so I can’t say
No i mean in general without being with anyone rn, is there anything about marrying that scares you
@trillxhippy It was @DizzyDesii's response that made me laugh a bit.
Nope nothing about marrying scares me
is she normal
Like secretly crazy?
yup. will she do what my ex did to me
But she's not your ex. Even if she did the same thing, she's a different person and should be given a fresh start until you learn the results of taking this risk
maybe...