I like him and he likes me but he is in forced church marriage, unhappy and wants to die? What to do?

[Deimy]

[Guy13]

Let him live his life before the God with whom he has contracted and stay out the way. "Hell to pay" is not just a cliche in this particular case.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Stay away! Find your own man! Supposedly forced or not, he’s married! And I notice you say HE’S unhappy, but what about his wife? Maybe she’s unhappy in a forced marriage as well. Let them work that out for themselves, you should stay out of it. What if that was your husband telling some other woman he was unhappy being married to you? If this got really cared about you he wouldn’t be trying to make you the “other” woman. Never get involved with someone that isn’t free to get involved with you,!

[KatherineJ]

Stay away! If his marriage is so bad, then he can end it. If he chooses not to, then it’s not as bad as he claims, and I would be suspicious of his motives in even talking to you.

[TallAnon]

If he is, and he should be given your age, an adult; He has the choice to do whatever he wants. Advice him to do what makes him happy and if he doesn't do so by a certain deadline, move on.

[Deimy]

Yes now he understands it but he is so hurted for me , that he did not tell me this before that he is burden to me

[Anonymous]

What to do? Leave him alone!

Stop trying to justify it in your mind. If you do anything with him, you are a homewrecker, by definition.

Be a good human being. It's a choice.

[loveslongnails]

Who's forcing him to marry someone else? What planet are you on? LOL

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

You need to leave him alone. I've told you numerous times

[Deimy]

Why?

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Why do you think

He is not good for you. Why you think he is, I don't know

[LazerBean]

Leave that shit alone.

[Deimy]

Why?

[LazerBean]

Because he's married and mentally ill

[Paul_in_Indy]

What is “a forced church marriage?”

[Deimy]

He was forced to marry a polish girl cause he lived with her and her and his parents said it is a sin.

[Deimy]

His and her parents are strict catholic

[Paul_in_Indy]

When you say, “forced,” you mean, “convinced by social pressure?” I can’t imagine that he was forced? If he was unwilling to go against that social pressure to not marry, then he’s not going to go against it to divorce; is he?

You can be his diversion on the side. You can listen to him complain about his wife while you satisfy him sexually. Is that what you want?

Bear in mind, that even if he did, somehow, become single, this is a guy who tells you he just wanted to have the girl in his house for a while then move on. He wasn’t committed before. So, that’s the best you can hope for.

Decide if you can be the “other woman” or not.

[Yellovv]

Is he conservative or what?

[Deimy]

His parents are strict catholics

[Yellovv]

What about you?

[Jmmmfi4]

What can you do