Am I wrong for wanting a baby stuff now?

[Anonymous]

So I will be getting married in August of 2024 and I keep having really bad baby fever... and yes ik how much work it is to take care of one I helped raise my nieces but I just can't stop wanting to have a baby and I don't know how to tell my fiance I wanna try right after we get married... i wnat to wait til we are married but would it be bad or wrong for me to buy gender neutral baby stuff now?

[Guy13]

You have one ☝️ and half years to simmer in the Baby Momma pot. You may change your mind by then. Some other life direction may arrive at your doorstep.

I would be very excited and walking on air if you told me what you have written here. Given your future together now is the time to be honest in who you are and how you feel. It would probably behoove you to let this weigh on his mind. Guys need time to process and talk and by 9 months he ought to be settled with it.

I am pleading with you not to tell friends. This information and the shared emotional connection is for him alone. Absolutely no social media please as finding out secondhand would create a chasm of distrust and second guessing your judgment.

[WaterIsland]

Not wrong for wanting it. Honestly tho, if I were your boyfriend/husband in that situation. It’s something I’d want to do and experience together. And I’d want her to tell me too.


I’d probably be slightly disappointed if she went off and did that on her own. I think it’s special to share together.

[Justneedtokno]

It’s fine to want a baby. But are you also in the process of finding all the other requirements it takes to raise that child. Are you prepared? Mentally to have a child that was really things that you have to think of when it comes to that are you done Growing

[Justneedtokno]

Thank you and trust me I understand sometimes I feel the same way. That’s why it’s called baby fever it comes and it goes.

[Anonymous]

‘o you’re not wrong for wanting baby stuff. But is he ok w it? I mean is he on the same page as you as far as wanting a baby right after you get married? He may feel under pressure if you’re already planning this w out the two of you agreeing to what the plan is. He may not want it if you’re constantly getting baby things, or talking about having a baby.

[OddBeMe]

Uh yeah. Carr before the horse. Maybe wait til there’s a bump.

[Jdjfjcjj]

That would have be feeling rushed AF