Try to keep it short. One of my best friends and his girlfriend/Baby Momma got into a huge fight about 4 months or so ago. He has had some issues with addiction and things like that and it all blew up into a big shit show.
The problem is. She would always text/call me whenever they were having issues, to try and get me to "talk to him". But really it was mostly her just bitching about one of my best friends, and telling me personal details that I never asked for. I have told her before it makes me uncomfortable. I'm not their relationship counselor. I would just prefer to just be left out of their fights.
So after this big fight of theirs. She texted me during the day while I was working. I work from home. Without asking if I wanted to know, she sent me a barrage of text messages telling me everything that happened, including a lot of stuff that I felt like she shouldn't be telling me.
I asked her to leave out all the details and just ask me to talk to him. She got upset with me and started insulting me, I told her not to text or call me anymore. She hasn't talked to me since, and has unfriended me on all social platforms.
The thing is... I don't give a shit. I have never really liked her, only tolerated her.
He went to rehab, she wants to take custody of his child, until he proves himself, and be a family again. But now she gets mad when we play video games together because of this.
He wants me to apologize to her, to initiate it, since she won't. Since it's causing them issues. But I don't feel like I did anything wrong. Even if he was in the wrong with his actions, I didn't ask to be part of it. I'm more than willing to let things go, I don't even care, but she is the one who should apologize first in my opinion.
If I did it, it would not be genuine and only for my friend, who I think would be better without her honestly. I would have a lot of trouble actually doing this. Should I swallow my pride? Or tell this woman to lick my asshole?
The problem is. She would always text/call me whenever they were having issues, to try and get me to "talk to him". But really it was mostly her just bitching about one of my best friends, and telling me personal details that I never asked for. I have told her before it makes me uncomfortable. I'm not their relationship counselor. I would just prefer to just be left out of their fights.
So after this big fight of theirs. She texted me during the day while I was working. I work from home. Without asking if I wanted to know, she sent me a barrage of text messages telling me everything that happened, including a lot of stuff that I felt like she shouldn't be telling me.
I asked her to leave out all the details and just ask me to talk to him. She got upset with me and started insulting me, I told her not to text or call me anymore. She hasn't talked to me since, and has unfriended me on all social platforms.
The thing is... I don't give a shit. I have never really liked her, only tolerated her.
He went to rehab, she wants to take custody of his child, until he proves himself, and be a family again. But now she gets mad when we play video games together because of this.
He wants me to apologize to her, to initiate it, since she won't. Since it's causing them issues. But I don't feel like I did anything wrong. Even if he was in the wrong with his actions, I didn't ask to be part of it. I'm more than willing to let things go, I don't even care, but she is the one who should apologize first in my opinion.
If I did it, it would not be genuine and only for my friend, who I think would be better without her honestly. I would have a lot of trouble actually doing this. Should I swallow my pride? Or tell this woman to lick my asshole?
