Should cheating in a marriage be punished by law?

[MementoMori777]

and i dont just mean take half your shit in a divorce cause women dont get punished at all and i think if people are married by law they should have a lawful push at staying committed because the marriage is legal, its an oath and its on paper, so some jailtime maybe?, i know it sounds strict but cheating is a fucked up act on its own, just divorce and move on, why flake someone, speaking in marriages only, this will also prevent people from stupid marriages, people would have to be fully committed when making the decison and thats how it should be, so thoughts? 🤔

[razelove]

It already is as at fault divorces impose some serious penalties depending on where you live. Very very rarely do those slide over to women though. I've heard of a few cases though, like getting a judgement in a divorce where she can't be with the guy that she cheated on the husband with in front of the kids, and getting a video of her violating that means she loses custody, the child support, alimony, everything.

Besides that I've never heard of it going punitively towards women. Most states simply have no fault divorce, and don't practice at fault divorce unless someone went to jail for abuse or something during the relationship, abandoned the marriage or something like that.

Personally I think marriage has become a joke, and if no fault divorce got abolished, with abuse, and abandonment being the only divorce options left that people would only get married if they were serious about it. It's not like modern marriages are arranged, shotgun marriages, or even women being pushed into them when they're pregnant now.

It's a choice for conservative people, and is still treated like trash rather than the covenant it should be.

[richardcory]

I do not want the courts tied up trying to figure out who cheated, who cheated first and why. IMHO anyone should be able to end a marriage for any reason, and unless there is a prenuptual, things get split evenly

[MementoMori777]

thats the thing, its not always split evenly is it? 🤔

[richardcory]

IMHO it *should* be evenly split. I think that is where the problem lies, not with penalties for cheating

[MementoMori777]

im good either ways lol

[Vesuvius87]

Honestly I think it should. I had enough of how marriages are declining not just in the USA but in my country too. There are cheaters here too. There was a news about a wife caught coming out of the hotel with her lover and the husband is a known celebrity.

Since marriage is a lot more than just dating where you can break up easily without any legal bond (just girlfriend and boyfriend stage), I think if the cheated on wants to file for divorce, the disloyal wife or husband should receive no monetary incentive at all and instead be fined for emotional damage and destroying the value of commitment, destroying a family if kids are involved.

[Vesuvius87]

Stupid radical westernization is spreading in Peru too and replacing them with those forever ''boyfriend and girlfriend'' infatuation stage without commitment.

[MementoMori777]

im glad you agree and you see my point, this would help society in a way, especially when it comes to children, divorces ruin a lot of things and mosy divorces are from cheating which is understandable but the children sometimes end up paying for it as well

[Vesuvius87]

Thank you. Yes I'm seeing the damage it has caused and it's sad. Then some of us that are still childless and unmarried have to pay the price of others. Your post is actually inspiring me to post a question about how some latina women are cheating too and it's no different than the white men in the USA that got cheated on. Same thing, same lack of commitment, same westernization too, same everything. It's like a cancer that has spread.

[MementoMori777]

i felt those words lol, cause its now weird to not be this way, this stuff has been so normalized that not being a horny bastard thats going around being wreckless is not normal, I've been insulted for waiting for marriage, thats how its suppose to be and they are acting like im the wack one 😂

[MementoMori777]

send me a link i want to comment on it if i have any info on it 😆

[Vesuvius87]

I've just posted it:
Some latina women are cheating in their marriages too and westernization has spread in my country too... are you shocked? ↗

[DizzyDesii]

Cheaters should have to wear a chasity belt for a whole year and only be unlocked for a few minutes for bathroom purposes. Lock away their genitals to where they can't even touch themselves down there

[MementoMori777]

i like the way you think, take away their sexual pleasure rights completely 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Should i ask a question asking if people would agree with this or do you think it would be drama filled lol

[MementoMori777]

oh its definitely gonna be drama filled, mostly with the gag whores on anonymous but it not only would be entertaining but i know what they are gonna say, you are the second person with our mentality, if they didn't like the idea of legal consequences then they surely won't agree with your locked underpants idea, which i do like better tho by the way 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Lol okay here goes nothing 😂

[MementoMori777]

send me the link 😂

[DizzyDesii]

#Scenario Would you be for or against this as a law? ↗

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll reply here to not blow her notifs up. I unfortunately now wear glasses 24/7 unless sleeping. But yea i’m all professional like “Oh no no no sir. I can definitely fix that for you because I want you to have an awesome day and an even more amazing week.” After that i’m like “man i just helped this annoying ass hoe. He had an ugly ass attitude. Lucky i didn't cuss his mf ass out. Thats why i hope his shit break again. Stupidass dude.” 😂🤣

[MementoMori777]

well its funny cause from the first impression they get from you, they will never guess you speak all slangy when you aren't working, damn professionalism got people speaking like robots 😂

[DizzyDesii]

I used to work with some of the rudest people and omgeee their professional mode would fool anyone. Its a scary world out there lmao. My facial expressions will give me away but they stayed smiling like they werent littl gremlins

[MementoMori777]

lmao i know I've seen so many its funny to me tho, the finesse is real, they can only outsmart the fools tho because you can smell these gremlins 😂

[DizzyDesii]

If i wasn't behind the scenes, I honestly wouldve fallen for it. My radar, fakedar, fckboydar, gaydar sucks lmao

[MementoMori777]

why is that, your dars should be on point, maybe its all that "hello how are you doing🤓" that youve been doing lol

[DizzyDesii]

Waaait what do you mean 🤣

[MementoMori777]

its taking your radar mojo, all that professionalism 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Oh no I’ve kinda always been oblivious lol. You can wave a red flag in my face and I’d become colorblnd

[MementoMori777]

that is not good, it means everyone can walk around with a red flag and you'll be seeing rainbows, that will work against you so bad ha

[DizzyDesii]

I mean i snap out of it easily. I’m a quick learner. I just dont always catch on from the get go. May take 2 days minimum 😂

[MementoMori777]

what about maximum? 😓

cause thats the important question 😂

[DizzyDesii]

2 weeks max

[MementoMori777]

thats not that bad

[DizzyDesii]

Yea but a lot of emotional things can happen in such a short time

[MementoMori777]

yea that's for sure but it couldve been worse, way worse, you couldve been the type of women that notice it years into a relationship

[DizzyDesii]

Thankfully thats only happened once. Deep down its still a fear to waste that much time again and ig thats part of why no one else has made it to a year plus. I mean one did, but i already knew how he was. He didn't pretend for years like the one im referring to

[MementoMori777]

then bruh I don't know why you said you can't see red flags, you seem to see them pretty well, its just not right off the start, which normally red flags aren't seen in the beginning because they are more in their deceitful phase when they are just meeting you

[DizzyDesii]

Maybe i see them but dye them green

[MementoMori777]

i really dont see why if you know its gonna backfire, are you one of those women that think they can change a man? 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Oh no i was just joking that maybe i see red but dye them green and dont realize. I gave up on trying to change people years ago because i know i sure as hell ain't changing so i can't expect them to

[MementoMori777]

yep and even if you did want to change them, people only change if they wanna change so most of the time, youd be wasting your time

[DizzyDesii]

And from what i’ve seen people on change temporarily then bounce right back to who they always were

[MementoMori777]

yea those are the ones want to put effort to change but deep down dont want too, so they change for a bit but fall back in their crap

[DizzyDesii]

Thats why i drop people like crazy fast these days. Got no time to waste

[MementoMori777]

can't blame you, people nowadays ain't worth it smh

[DizzyDesii]

Its def worth taking a risk though. I like to gamble lol

[MementoMori777]

dont you ever get tired of losing money? 😂

[DizzyDesii]

I mostly win so no lmao

[MementoMori777]

that sounds so hard to believe if ima be foreal 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Its real. I wouldn't be near obsessed with it if it wasn't. My fam have been gambling since before i was born. Its like a every so monthly tradition age 21+ 🤣 Plus there's like 15 of em in my state

[MementoMori777]

so what exactly are you playing thats earning you so much pan, cause seems like im missing out, seems simple from the way you are speaking and its triggering my curiosity 👀👂

[DizzyDesii]

Slots believe it or not. You gotta know how to caress em 😂 Thats how i know i wouldve done well majoring in casino management

[MementoMori777]

bruh what is your damn finesse and i know it ain't no damn caress, just spill the beans, do you rig that shit somehow? 😂

[DizzyDesii]

No its legit a mental caress. I don't know how to explain it

[MementoMori777]

better find a way too cause now you got me wondering lol

[DizzyDesii]

You know how you feel a vibe with a person. I can feel a vibe with a machine. Its like a spidey sense is tingling lmao. Its like there can be 2,000 machines ina room but 5 will be calling my name. My eyesight immediately points them out. I touch the side of the machine and feel this spark. I sit down and it becomes a mental caress. I feed the machine and it feeds me back 10 times more. But you have to know when to leave the machine because afterwhile it’ll be like “okay hoe you gettin greedy, now im just gonna take your money. No more feeding you for today”

[MementoMori777]

you sound like a casino crackhead, you are like a slot machine hugger aren't you, you give it a hug to make sure it does you right when you spin that shit lol

you are like a casinos large nemesis, they see you walk in "damn its the slot hugger, shit shut down all the slot machines"

[DizzyDesii]

Casino crackhead 😭 lmao nooo. Its not like i go THAT much (anymore). And no i dont hug it. I caress it 🤣 And tbh you might be right about the shut down stuff. Whenever im winning, the machine glitches and dont wanna print my ticket sometimes. They be talking bout the machine is down for the rest of the day. Nah you hoes gone come print my ticket first. I once had to sit for over wn hour waiting for the little tech person to come give me my stub 😂🤣

[MementoMori777]

you think i was joking, i know they rig them shits, each thing there is rigged to a certain point, enough to keep people there but stupid greedy people lose, you are just finessing it so they are careful with your ass 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Lol you’re right

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a guy who cheated and he lost over 95% of his assets in the divorce even though he was the only one in the marriage who had a full time job so it is punishable by law. They can't jail you but they can take all your money and custody rights in divorce court.

[MementoMori777]

but how common is it? 🤔

[sureitis]

extremely common

[sureitis]

men are treated like shit in divorces/custody cases unbiased my ass on the note of custody I don't know why its not a thing that if both parents want to be in the childs life why it isn't 50/50 cause 50/50 would mean no one gets child support that is beneficial for both parties and the child gets equal amounts of time with both parents which is in its best interest i really think its idiotic that this isn't what is pushed to the front in custody cases

[nastyb]

@sureitis

Men aren't treated like shit. Men lose money in divorce cus its usually men who are breadwinners. Women aren't supposed to work jobs after marriage. You can't lose money in a divorce if you never worked

[sureitis]

your right you can't lose money in a divorce if you never work you'll only gain money its called spousal support which depending on how long you're married can be until you retire or remarry and with an average payment of 40% of your wages better hope you dont have kids or that theyre over 18 when the divorce happens because 1 child is taking another 17% 2 will be 25% we will go to the median and say 60% of your wages now are being taken now the average income is around 58,000 60% of that is just under 35,000 that leaves you with 23,000 to now provide for yourself well thats not going to cut it when the average living costs are 38,000 a year and 98% of cases that are awarded alimony are female recipients i understand in some situations where alimony is completely reasoned i wouldn't expect my grandma who has never worked and always took care of her family to just get up and get a job in her 70's but i am saying that there is a lot of unjust and stupid ways that the courts use in these cases and the courts should be a justice system correct all they are doing is causing a lot of unjust problems for almost always the children and some of the other parties i would feel better about my fellow humans if this shifted towards a more equal means for everyones well being and mental health but im afraid no matter how equal we all may be someday in the future there will always be a few of you karens out there nastyb

[nastyb]

@sureitis

wives get half rather than spousal support because husbands have someone washing their underwear, cooking their meals, doing all their housework so they can dedicate more time to developing their career to make more money. its been proven that married men make more money than single men. don't you think your wife should get credit for helping you make more money throughout the marriage? she does deserve half regardless if you dont like it.

[Jhunitor]

That only works one way. Women will cheat and still get the vast majority of the ex-husband's assets.

[nastyb]

@Jhunitor

she should deserve half her husbands assets. married men make more money than single men because their wives do all the housework for them so they have more time to dedicate to their careers

[razelove]

@nastyb Then why are there so many single men now, today who are thriving because they refuse to get married? How does having a wife and kids you support help you to succeed? Especially when I cannot for the life of me imagine you doing any housework with the grueling way you describe it.

There are dishwashers, washing machines, driers, roombas, vaccuum cleaners, all kinds of modern amenities where I can clean my entire house in about an hour, and most the time there is waiting for the mopping of the kitchen to dry.

[nastyb]

@razelove

Because having a wife to cook your lunchbox, cook your dinner, pick up your suit from the cleaners, take care of your kids allows you more time to dedicate to working extra hours, attending additional courses, getting that masters degree, attending networking events after work.

this is why married men make more money than single men.

[razelove]

@nastyb Color me unconvinced, for sure me and my wife are both more stable being with each other. I think both of us would be making more money though if that's the metric you want to measure by. Both of us passed up on getting a master's, and other job opportunities because it would require relocation and just wasn't sweet enough of a deal.

Those kids wouldn't be there in the first place (being a guy) if you aren't married, you just don't sign a birth certificate. I don't find any of the thing's you're talking about there. In my marriage we both cook, take care of the kids, and typically women's clothing requires dry cleaning you can't do in a dryer.

[AviatorTom]

In many states in the US, adultery is a crime and can be prosecuted. It's not often done though.

[MementoMori777]

i didn't know that until i made this post lol

[Sixgunsound]

In my state men cannot be raped under its legal definition

[HippieVeganJewslim]

@Sixgunsound anyone can get raped, even men. Are You saying that if a man got raped, no-one would get in trouble?

[razelove]

@HippieVeganJewslim That's how it goes. Try being a man and filing a suit for sexual harassment. You'll get the same reaction in both cases. "He was asking for it"

[HippieVeganJewslim]

@razelove ain’t that bloody screwed, mate. Which is Your state?

[razelove]

@HippieVeganJewslim Louisiana, I'm only familiar with both because I had a fun fun workplace experience, working for the local government no less, where I was getting harassed (groped) by a female supervisor, she wouldn't stop, even recorded it on a. body cam.

The result of reporting it was threats of legal recourse against me for recording it, until I quit with a little bit more put into my pension for the trouble, good times. My first relationship with a woman was her pushing herself on me when I was young, so at least it gave me the framework to never believe this sugar and spice BS.

Women take what they want, and we get shamed, ridiculed and ostracized if we dare to complain about it. Hell, even if you just refuse to further the entitlements like paying for a date, or paying for them to do nothing at a job.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

@razelove sounds like the Confederate States of America can be as screwed as the Union. Similar seems to be the case in IsraHELL. I looked up the law, and found this misandristic law about rape: it’s defined as a man doing it to a woman, or similar; not vice versa.

[Miristheiss]

As far as divorce goes, yes. I believe in AT FAULT divorce and I think if it is proven one spouse cheated that the divorce should greatly favor the party that did not cheat.

This "NO FAULT" stuff where spouse A can cheat on spouse B and then divorce them and get 50% of everything, alimony, the 401K of their spouse... etc. BS on that.

[MementoMori777]

seems legit

[razelove]

I just live in a state with no alimony. I seriously think if a divorce was upcoming, knowing how royally screwed I'd be, I'd just sell my house and leave the country.

[hahahmm]

No because what ends up happening is that powerful people would always be above the law. In the Roman Empire it was legal for the family of the person who got cheated on to kill the outsider who had sex with the cheater. But that didn't stop powerful people from basically banging any married woman they wanted to & not having to worry about consequences.

A man should have the right to do whatever he wants to a dude who bangs his wife tho. And the other guy should have the right to defend himself. Guess they used to call it mutual combat.

[LostandFound__x]

I don't think it should be because I feel like it is a personal matter and the law should focus on more important matters - even in family topics - such as children's rights in the foster care system for example.

I see what you mean about marriage being a legal contract. To that I would say it's a thing from a legal perspective because it helps to make clear asset ownership and who are the legally responsible adults to a child.

[MementoMori777]

well we have to start with the core of it all tho, if parents were actual parents and not busy cheating on each other and divorcing each other, there would be more children with parents, if you wanna find solutions to a problem, you gotta cut of the head that creates the problems lol

[LostandFound__x]

Yeah I guess so

[BCRanger10]

Yes, it should. In fact, I think that in the US military, which has its own legal system, it is punishable by law.

At any rate, yes. Marriage and family are the basis of a functioning society; they are the root, the basic building block. If then someone does something that attacks that cornerstone, that weakens the fabric, then the only sane and reasonable conclusion is that the guilty party should face legal consequences.

[MementoMori777]

i like where your mind is at, most people here have their minds clouded by society and the sensitivity of "wanting to do what they want" bad actions should have consequences period lol

[razelove]

You can be court martialed for cheating, but it never happens, it's an NJP, typically only because you need some way to keep service members from killing each other when sleeping with each other's wives while on deployment.

On base housing is a den of STDs and maybe babies. I remember one woman who slept with something like 42 guys over 2 weekends, and that only came out because all of them got chlamydia.

I remember a staff sergeant I'd go drinking with had a 3-some with two Marines, and one of them was married to another marine on deployment. His punishment for infidelity was to go on half-pay and barracks restriction "even though he got banged in the barracks on duty" hers was to call her husband and say she cheated.

the UCMJ is actually pretty damn flexible as when it comes to NJP most of the time everything is at the XO's discretion. Federal, state, and local laws do not operate like that at all. A judge is under much more scrutiny for a ruling that backfires than an executive officer.

If an XO makes a ruling and someone goes back to the barracks and kills someone, that person goes to the brig, too bad so sad. If a judge does the same, he is up shit's creek and getting sued up down, left and right.

[provokeesmokee]

Nah.

Not every marriage would even define cheating the same way.

Some marriages even consent to it.

The courts have better things to do.

Like prosecute crimes committed in passion after a cheater is uncovered.

[MementoMori777]

its true but there should be with regulations, and if its consented then its not cheating lol

[provokeesmokee]

Well, how would you convince a jury what cheating is or isn't?

Who would enforce the regulations? Who would support them?

Seems like a foolish endeavor.

Why not mandate emotional regulation skills and communication classes throughout school years?

You'll make it so more people have the tools they need not to wind up cheating.

[MementoMori777]

i was thinking more on just making physically cheating illegal, thats about it, the rest is settled behind closed doors lol

[Enlightenme21]

Honestly it would be a service to the government to make it illegal with penalties. Reason being is people will think more before getting married and people would try harder to work on thier marriage or divorce before creating more problems. The other thing is I believe it would keep families together which is beneficial to children's mental health.

Also another reason cheating should be illegal is due to the trauma that can be created from deception of a committed partner, cheating does affect mental health and stability.

[MementoMori777]

you read my mind indeed lol

[razelove]

That's why I don't support making cheating illegal. We already see so many crimes not being prosecuted, or selectively so right now.

This would just be another law on the books that could be used selectively, you say marriage, but after it becomes a law, why not dating, friends with benefits or hook-ups that feel wronged?

[Sixgunsound]

The whole point of government involvement in marriage is the enforcement of it's legally binding contract. This same government infantilizes women via the soft bigotry of low expectations everywhere else in the law, why stop at marriage infidelity? Only men are treated like adults and held responsible for their misdeeds.

[Spongebobssocks]

I totally agree with you. If two people agree to get married there should be punnished by law if one of them cheats. That's different from just dating ofcorse but cheating overall is disgusting.

[MementoMori777]

it really is, they deserve unsatisfaction lol

[Spongebobssocks]

Yup!

If abusing someone into commiting suicide is illegal than so should cheating be. It can affect someone for the rest of their life. (Ofcorse there are level to cheating) and so it is in all laws

[MementoMori777]

yea but i meant more on physical cheating but sure, levels, why not 😂

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I know lol...

[MementoMori777]

if i can get some money out of them for them talking to someone else, ppff why not 💰💰

[Spongebobssocks]

Loll

[Singing_Hollow]

I think instead of punishment, they should reward those who do cheat and who manage to stay married. Give them 1 million dollars with every 20 years they stay married and faithful.

[MementoMori777]

that does sound like a good solution but unrealistic considering the government only likes to take, not give 😂

[Singing_Hollow]

lol yeah in the ideal world hey lol

[MementoMori777]

in a better world perhaps 😆

[supercutebutt]

Yes. Now we can indict Donald "the fat criminal" Trump THREE more times! LOCK HIM UP! LOCK HIM UP!

[MementoMori777]

how did you manage to bring Donald Trump into this conversation 😂

[supercutebutt]

Isn't this question about sinful cheaters? He's cheated on all three of his baby mamas. LOCK HIM UP!

[MementoMori777]

yea but for someone that doesn't like trump, that mf live rent free in your head 😂

[blueonblack22]

It used to factor into child custody family law and alimony arrangements. I imagine it varies state by state.

But if a wife cheats on her husband (when he was faithful) then in a just world she should have a lot less weight to push when it comes to making divorce settlements. Same is true vice versa. But it’s usually men who get taken to the cleaners in divorce cases and rarely the opposite.

[DextroShade]

I think they should be flogged with the husband's permission. And course they should get nothing if they divorce: no alimony, no assets other than what she brought into the marriage, no child custody or support, NOTHING!

[MementoMori777]

seems like a reasonable idea 🤔

[belle_kai]

It used to be a crime. Tbh it happens so much now more than half the population will be fined or in jail lol

[MementoMori777]

wait it used to be a crime? thats hard to believe

[DizzyDesii]

Was this in the scarlet letter/adultery days lol

[MementoMori777]

i wish i lived in those times if it really was illegal lol

[DizzyDesii]

You’re scaring me lmao.

[MementoMori777]

why? 😂

[DizzyDesii]

You want to see people in pain like some bdsm type shit 😂 I’d honestly settle for them getting the same emotional hurt that the one they hurt felt. Im not too crazy aboot physical punishment

[MementoMori777]

nawh now you mutting it 😂

its not the way you were thinking it, whatever tf it was you were thinking lmao, i just like watching people get things they deserve, it can be good or bad, if a murder gets executed then they deserved it, if a pure hearted person falls in love and is loved back then they deserve it satisfaction all around, you are speaking of sexual satisfaction and now you mutting it 😷😂

[DizzyDesii]

Wait i wasn't speaking of anything sexual. I was saying bdsm as in like that torture type pain. I dont like seeing people be tortured. I feel karma will get em in the longrun. Like i said, im still all for the chasity belt but nothing extreme like the scarlett letter days

[MementoMori777]

well I don't know i thought bdsm was only sexual shit, its the only way I've ever heard people speak about it, bdsm this, bdsm that, either ways i dont like watching people get tortured either but i would think that depends on anger and the vengeful mindset i think

[MementoMori777]

for example if someone merked one of the people you care about, i think you'll be angry enough to be satisfied watching that person get tortured, just an example, dont kill me 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Merked as in murdered? Or merked like the term we used in high school when someone got embarassed/called out? If you mean murdered, then i personally dont agree wth the death penalty but by all means, beat their fckin face in… just dont beat them to death. Let them live 😩

[MementoMori777]

I don't know where you are from but here merk only means murder lol
not the death penalty but personally id torture them to death if its someone i care about, if i lose my fam, i lose my purpose so id probably lose my shit at that point but i also dont agree with the death penalty, its too humane for these animals, they can tear a child's limbs off as they are alive and all they get is put to sleep with a little pokey poke, fuck that 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao i can't with you 🤣😂 I’m from the south so i’m familiar with your definition but i didn't hear of that one until i was in college

[MementoMori777]

i heard it in middle school, you gave south vibes tho, why? because for starters you can understand my slang to a certain point, other people think im speaking gibberish smh

[MementoMori777]

or believe im pulling these words out of my ass lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yea im all about the slang lol. My work voice/texting is so far from how I talk outside of work lol. Everything i learned in school dang near went out the window haha. Also, i apologize Bellekai. I dont wanna blowup her notifs lmao. We’re under her opinion post

[MementoMori777]

so you go all like "hello maam.. hello good sir how are you you both doing today🤓" then when you leave work "this jit is one rachet ass mf, being all wack n shit"

yea sorry belle, she must have her notifications off tho cause thats belle, you'll feel her presence coming before she arrives, see how it feels empty? cause belle is gone

either ways i wouldn't be surprised if you even put on the glasses at work 😂

[belle_kai]

Apparently it's still technically illegal in 15 states! But says punishment is rare (we know) it used be illegal in the UK back in the day

[MementoMori777]

i didn't see your response belle, damn humans have been given too much freedom, thats a lot of states tho, i didn't knoe that 🤔

[Anonymous]

uh no. i don't see the point of being punished by law. that's pretty stupid. emotionally hurting someone is not illegal, unfortunately. it makes no sense.

[MementoMori777]

then marriage shouldn't be by law then

[Opinion Owner]

ok? ?

[Opinion Owner]

marriage and crime are different...

[MementoMori777]

they have dumb crimes that shouldn't be considered crimes, i dont see your point

[Opinion Owner]

i don't see your point either.

[MementoMori777]

maybe your mind will change if you get cheated on if you haven't already

[Opinion Owner]

haha!

[Sanser]

I have seen too many reddit stories about this and I can't describe the anger and frustration that this make me feel... nowadays marriage is such a bad joke in terms of fidelity...

[MementoMori777]

no cap smh

[Pohjolan]

Nah that would motivate people to keep it under the rugs instead of moving on.

Seriously polygamous people should just say it in their dating profile so that they can date each other and not have drama with monogamous people.

[MementoMori777]

people already try to keep it under the rug, people are constantly getting caught not going like "i cheated but decided to tell you because i dont want to be deceitful" lol

[mstbooblover]

That would be a very bad idea. Things are already difficult enough in case of divorce. We're only human, and getting "cheating" punished by law would mean forcing people to spy and harrass each other in order to collect evidence. And by the way, who exactly would be allowed to file a complaint? A neighbour or any citizen suspecting someone of having fun outside wedlock? Come on folks, it's high time for humans in general to grow up and mind their own business.

[Anonymous]

Marriage isn't always about love though man. You cannot define someone's marriage and sexually life.

[MementoMori777]

it is about love, sex is to grow that love bond stronger, you getting it twisted no lie 😂

[Pebbles1104]

bro what sometimes marriage just doesn't work out doesn't mean you should be punished for it

[MementoMori777]

cheating isn't "not working out" because if it didn't work out why not to the divorce? why cheat?

[Pebbles1104]

but not everyone cheats thats the thing like my mom and dad got divorced because it just didn't work out they fell out of love

[MementoMori777]

okay then thats not what im talking about, im talking about cheaters only 😂

[Pebbles1104]

okay yeah i get that to a point but your also talk about divorce in general

[MementoMori777]

no no no, maybe you are, im talking about divorce from cheating, if they cheat and you divorce, the woman can take half of the shit the guy owns and even lose custody to the child if they have one, I don't know if its like that anymore but it was last time i checked.

[Pebbles1104]

yeah can doesn't mean all the time and in some cases its just a simple divorce it depends om how ugly it is

[MementoMori777]

no idea, I've never been cheated on or been divorced but I've seen and heard of some pretty bad loses, it does depend but thats not the point of my question, do you think cheaters should get a punishment pebbles or no 😂

[Pebbles1104]

no its makes no sense why they should and that was my dogs name so you can shut up

[MementoMori777]

calm down pebbles, i was just calling you that cause you called yourself that tf, now thats my fault? lol

you shouldn't call your user that if its gonna make you feel some type of way, but okay i respect your opinion

[supercutebutt]

@mementomori777 is talking about dirty, cheating apes like Donald Fatass Trump, @pebbles1104.

[Pebbles1104]

@supercutebutt i like how you worded that lol

[supercutebutt]

:) :)

[Faith18letsgo]

First of all women can also have assets taken in a divorce. And no I think cheating is a personal matter and people should be allowed to divorce whenever.

[Anonymous]

Great, just want people need, more people controlling other people's lives and sticking their noses into the private lives of others.

[MementoMori777]

aren't you that salty anon that never has anything good to say 😂

[LiamJHayden]

No, but I would have no problem with the guilty party forfeiting all marital assets and custody of any children.

[MementoMori777]

nah it won't work like that, you gotta give up half your shit and child custody 😂

[Lauliss]

Not by law, to be honest. But just expose cheaters publicly would be great.

[MementoMori777]

what about putting it on their ID? 😂

[Lauliss]

Mhmm.. sure, why not? That way EVERYONE knows, lol.

[MementoMori777]

or do you mean social media publication lol

[Lauliss]

Both

[CassandraSpender]

Is in a couple of states, but enforcement is difficult

[MementoMori777]

really? do you know the name of these states? 🤔

[CassandraSpender]

I don't remember, but they're southern east coast states i think

[MementoMori777]

makes sense i guess lol

[CassandraSpender]

Also, I believe adultery is against military law as well

[MementoMori777]

yea someone else said that, i didn't know that but thats good for the military lol

[Juxtapose]

No, get the government out of our lives as much as possible. It's evil.

[MementoMori777]

lol fair enough

[msc545]

No, of course not. If such a law is enacted. It would be differentially enforced against the men and rarely if ever enforced against women. Kind of like the child custody and property laws are now. Men have enough trouble without more of this kind of stuff.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. There are various forms of cheating. Let’s not get the government into even more of our lives

[MementoMori777]

so you are fine with them just taking half your shit in a divorce even when they are the ones that cheated?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. Because it would be half of what we gain in the marriage. I don’t plan on her cheating but if she does decide to cheat then I’d be happy having her out of my life

[MementoMori777]

that the thing, they can aim for your shit, not the stuff y'all earned together, your shit 😂

[Keishio]

Absolutely not. Prison should be reserved for the worst of the worst. Sex offenders, murderers, people who have caused irreparable damage to the lives of others through their own negligence, carelessness or premeditated/emotional outbursts of violence.

[EaterPeter]

Kind a sorta. It should be a fair try from both parties. If not then

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[MementoMori777]

💯💯

[humanearth]

Government in our lives enough

I wish the government would just disappear

[inhua]

alimony, child support and 100% child custody should be immediately nullified upon cheating. honestly it should be banned altogether but feminists won't support that

[strateguy632]

the proof is a problem for law, reference film intolerable cruelty. i say do the bible test drink the water and when nothing will happen she innocent and same for suspected man.

[Meropatrick]

No. I think if someone cheats then you leave them. That is the best punishment.

[asphaltrhymes]

In some cultures and legal systems isn't it still? Ah well. I hear divorces anywhere are a pain though 🤣 and expensive 🫰

[Gent207-2]

No quite frankly it should be the least in consideration of divorce.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Just part ways and keep government out of it.

[reds-noro]

Honestly, this is kinda based.

[MementoMori777]

wdym

[reds-noro]

Incentivizing people to really commit to and respect their marriage, while not forcing people to stay in a marriage, is quite a good idea.

I'm surprised there is no punishment at all for cheating now that i think about it.

[MementoMori777]

yea cause i was thinking about it and its legal marriage thats oath on documents so sabotaging the marriage should come with a legal punishment ha

[CountryWanderer]

I'd support that, with divorce as the penalty

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No. Marriage is more of a religious thing, not a legal thing. The temple and the state must be separated.

[SolSolBunBun]

Nope. Marriage Sucks.

[MementoMori777]

😦😦😦

[In_Trance]

I think you're out of your mind

[MementoMori777]

i thought everyone already knew that by now

[Siri137]

No, of course not. That's an insane idea.

[Paulalove98]

Yes it should

[DaBiggestBird]

No, seeds are bad enough.

[genericname85]

It already is.

[Billlewis]

Of course not! What is the world coming to?

[mommymommymommy]

No

You can't punish what you can't prove

[WhiteBoyChill]

Its a detestable act, so absolutely

[LazerBean]

Nah.

[sheenagwapa]

cuvil case yes

[TrillXHippy]

Yeah

[bernhardh]

Yes.