Were you once anti-marriage, but now you're on board or vice versa? Why?

[Anonymous]

[liggang]

I got married so I guess I was pro at that age. After getting divorced I was anti marriage. But now I see that its possible for two people to really plan a life and all that. Its just a bad idea to get married just because you fell in love. There's a lot of committing to plans and building and such. That's the most important thing, and if you are cognizant of that, than that's the best scenario for a lasting happy marriage.

Even still, it's always a risk. She might cheat. He might cheat. Or worse. Life is always a gamble but the best odds are as I said above.

[jamesgoldman]

Visa versa

This business has made me bitter, cynical and jaded about marriage and even love in general

[Nikki1989]

No, I always knew I would be married eventually. You just need to dig through the trash to find the gold sometimes.

[Simslover92]

I was anti-marriage until I met my current boyfriend. I just didn't believe that it would happen for me.

[StarWarGirl]

I wasn't anti marriage but I used to believe I'm not fit for marriage as I can't trust anyone neither I have time and energy to waste on someone to who is not deserving and still keep feeling as lonliness so i didn't want to get married.

But meeting with right person has changed that.

[Reem12345reem]

I was once anti marriage but because it wasn't coming from me (although it seemed logical to me and I agreed with that point of view) but it wasn't coming from ME
I guess now I'm not against it or with it , just trust the universe in what it leads u to do

[beebella]

I've never been "anti-marriage", it's just not that important to me, personally. I have no urge to be someone's wife, but that could change someday. Who knows? 🤷‍♀️

I think marriage can be a beautiful thing and I do think it would be cool to be proposed to, but then I could see myself chickening out or not really wanting to plan a wedding. So, proposing to me would probably be pointless. 😂

[IslaTheWitch]

I never cared much... we were married because of taxes :D

[Lynx122]

Well as a kid I once said I'll have 20 kids like Bach because I was listening to a casette with his life story and his music. But now I don't wanna get married or have kids.

[Claire2002]

Sometimes I think about it, then I chat with a guy who is already needy and asking me to answer fast after just 10 minutes of chat and I think "ok I've always been right on this"

[Claire2002]

Meaning I'm right not to want a marriage. It would be an emotional burden

[Unit1]

*looks at married and divorced men*

[strateguy632]

2nd, ideally marriage is good but western courts ruined it.

[LiamJHayden]

I'm not anti-marriage. I just won't consider it under laws that will give a spouse 1/2 of everything I have worked for plus future support if she cheats and divorces me.

[Anonymous]

No. If anything it's the other way around. And I'm not against marriage. I just don't think most women today are capable of a lifetime commitment. And if your intent is not not forever you shouldn't even be considering marriage.

[Anonymous]

It's the opposite for me. Until fairly recetly I always wanted to to get married and have a family, but I've learned and seen enough in recent years to change my mind. Marriage is no longer a wise choice for most men.

[laly520]

never been anti marriage

I believe I've always been marriage-minded

[Babygirl_S]

I've always wanted to get married. I still love the idea of sharing my life with someone special.

[Peridot25]

It’s not my top priority. However, I’m not against it. If I find a man that’ll like me enough to marry me, why not? 😄

[Allan070767]

Yes, when I was younger, but now that I’m in my mid 50s, it’s easier to settle down with a good woman. Of course this may be attributed to hormonal life changes. But it’s all good and great.

[Luckycharms12]

Lose lose for a guy don't see the point in marriage lose your house lose your kids. Fuck that

[Account]

I was never really on board with it.

[Phoenix98]

I've always been pro marriage.

[sheikalana]

Always been pro marriage.

[OtterMan68]

for me or other people?