Is It Acceptable For A Man To Propose To His Girlfriend In A Fast Food Restaurant?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If it is a planned event, it falls far short of being a romantic gesture. Any man should be capable of doing better than this.

In romance movies from the 1930's and 1940's, proposing in a restaurant was a common occurrence. That inspired me to propose to my girlfriend (now wife) in a restaurant. But is was not the In-N-Out Burger!

Our first date, when we first met, was at the Bonefish Grill in Gainesville, her hometown. That was in December, 2020 and the memories of that date have not faded. She moved to Jacksonville, my hometown, in August, 2021 but we still visited Gainesville frequently. In March, 2023, I created a pretext for us to return to Gainesville: I told her we were meeting my cousin for dinner.

I had spoken with the restaurant manager that day and reserved the very same booth in which we were seated on our first date. We arrived and were immediately seated, the manager brought us two complimentary glasses of champagne, and then a staff member video recorded as I got down on one knee and I said:

"Helen, after two years, I know you are The One and I am ready to begin the rest of our lives together. So now, I ask you:

Will you spend the rest of your life with me?
Will you promise to not make me eat Chinese food every day for the rest of our lives?
Will you love me and will you let me love you?
Will you grow old with me?
Will you always laugh at my stupid jokes?
Will you prove that "forever" actually means forever?
Helen, will you marry me?"

And then I said, "Nǐ yuànyì jià gěi wǒ ma?" If I said it correctly, that means "Will you marry me?" in Mandarin.

She said yes, I put an engagement ring on her finger, and the other patrons in the restaurant applauded.

No, there's nothing wrong with a restaurant proposal. . . but not at the In-N-Out Burger.

V_Injector · Accepted Answer

I voted yes... because their bullshit is none of my business. If one of them has a standard that somehow makes it unacceptable... well, ...

1) Not my fucking problem, and
2) I guess they won't be getting married then.

Now if it was my problem, as in she has a problem with it (because I don't)... then she can fuck off. I'm gonna eat my fucking cheese burger and then fuck her best friend, and probably bang her Mom too.

Let her go make some other man miserable with that ghetto ass materialistic bullshit.

I'm just a response to these whores with extra steps, that find their worth in what they can get out of a man. If she thinks her value is based of how fancy I do things for her instead of just being glad I'm doing shit for her... she's not worth my time and I don't want to deal with that bullshit long term anyways. She did her whore job and now she can be a whore somewhere else.

Seinna · Accepted Answer

Depends... you can propose in any place of significance for you and your partner. If a fast food restaurant is such a place, then yes. If it is not, and it is any random place at any random time then that shows that he's not treating this commitment and her very seriously. Public places in general are not the best because they tend to be crowded... don't know how it is in your area but where I live, fast foods are loud, busy, full of kids or drunk people depending on the time. Is that really the place you want the both of you to associate with such an important memory that will stay with you for the rest of your lives? There is probably a park within 15 mins walk, maybe go there?

laraWM · Accepted Answer

Everything can be acceptable, you know her very well so you can probably guess her reaction

Finchie40 · Answer

I don’t see why not ,, especially if they both met each other for the first time at that fast food restaurant , or they both went there on their first date? Etc.. So I don’t see that being a bad thing whatsoever. I met a girl at Taco Bell once and we started dating , so all that matters is they both love each other and want to be with each other is all that matters.

HawkPerception · Answer

Well it definitely wouldn't be the way I'd propose, but I can see it working in some rare scenarios like when it's symbolic of something.

Like maybe it's where they first met or had their first date or maybe where they told each other something special there once that was always ingrained in their heads.

The setting of a proposal always depends on the couple.

AviatorTom · Answer

The proposal is the important thing, location is secondary.

MisterWack · Answer

If he is anticipating surprising her then that would be a place she wouldn’t expect also would make it unique, not justifying it just stating where his mindset was at. Before the fast food restaurant they could’ve shopped around, walked together holding hands in the park, go see a romantic movie, then went to the fast food restaurant to propose then went home together cuddled in bed & talked about their past and their future together saying “I love you” & “I love you too” leading to kissing each other before going to bed….
With that whole scene, not just one event I can definitely say it can be done. I won’t say if it is morally good or morally bad, simply put it can be done.

imtiaz45 · Answer

Whether it's acceptable for a man to propose in a fast food restaurant depends on the couple’s relationship and personal preferences. For some, a fast food restaurant might hold sentimental value or align with their sense of humor or simplicity, making it a meaningful or lighthearted setting. However, others may prefer a more traditionally romantic or special environment for such a significant moment. The key is understanding what the proposal means to both partners. If it feels genuine, thoughtful, and reflective of their connection, the setting matters less than the intent behind the proposal.

Lurix · Answer

Honestly, it depends on the couple, man. If that’s their vibe and they’ve got special memories tied to that spot, then why not? Some people are all about big, fancy gestures, but others prefer something low-key and personal. If she’s the type who would appreciate it, then go for it! It’s all about knowing what would make her feel special, not what everyone else thinks is “acceptable.” If it’s meaningful to you both, that’s what matters.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I'm gonna say no.
Women have different thoughts on public proposals. And I imagine few would love it if it's in a fastfood restaurant.

PERSONALLY, I hate public proposals. Fastfood restaurant on top of that would be even worse.

Texaskid1 · Answer

It is never acceptable for any mane to propose at all. No man should ever get married in this day and age. He has nothing to gain and so much to lose.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s not where, but who…
People have to know who they are.
Some women feel insulted by proposed to in McD, but they don’t remember who they are. Your man defines who you are.
If you get cheap man, because you deserve him, and vice versa.

LilyLemonPepper · Answer

It’s not the proposal that matters as much as you actually having integrity and understanding the monumental cows you’re intending to make. People don’t take them seriously and you should.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, it is a good idea. I wish I made a bigger deal about it.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

I don't care if he loves me and I love him it's what's more important. I don't care what spoiled bratty people have to say.

RingOfFire · Answer

How would that work exactly? You're up at the counter and you say... "I'll take two Big Macs and a $5 Value Meal... ... Oh, and here's a ring. Wanna get married or something?"

SugarSugarplum · Answer

If you can propose on a mountaintop (which is basically a big pile of rocks), a fast food restaurant is OK too.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Damn, show some class. It is a big moment in anyone's life.

coolbreeze · Answer

I think if it's a favorite girl's place to eat at then I wouldn't see no issue doing it.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t care if my boyfriend proposes me in anywhere. As long as he treats me well, I’m okay with everything. To me, wedding is no more important than marriage.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Happiest time of his life, let him enjoy this moment

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I suppose she must have a high level sense of humor. Which is always good

Caroline91 · Answer

It's not a matter of acceptable/not acceptable. It's personal choice.

Red_Arrow · Answer

If he gets down on a knee at McDonald's he is more likely to get his pants in food glop!

katiesmuff · Answer

It's not the where, but the how and why that counts.

genericname85 · Answer

i mean maybe if that was some sort of special insider in your particular relationship history. but normally no.

paledreams · Answer

Yes 'cause who knows if it'd last anyways regardless of location of proposal hahahaha evil laugh 😂

Nerdvana · Answer

Not for me. It's such a big moment. Something we will remember forever. Everything has to be prefect.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

I voted no, this is a memorable thing, I want it to be special. It doesn't have to be big, but special. Also I don't want to put it in front of others, only us two, so I want a secluded area.

DrPepper12 · Answer

The only exception is if you met there. Otherwise you're insane

dragoblack · Answer

If you both don't care about it not needing to be romantic, it's fine, but normally one needs to set the romantic mood before proposing.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

That's the most American thing I've heard all week. How about doing it in the beauty of nature instead?

SuchSightsToShowYou · Answer

Sure, why not? He can slip the engagement ring into her happy meal.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes, but weak unless that is where they met.

the29thhuman · Answer

As long as you understand what proposing means for the two of you.

Anonymous · Answer

It's all acceptable. Just maybe not the story you want to tell your grandkids. But whatever--they won't give a shit anyway.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Kinda CHEESY, but if she doesn't mind, I guess so.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Women love bad boys so they should get it in toilet or dead chambers

JesseP1nk · Answer

Yeah im sure she is hyped to get proposed place where it smells for grease and cheese. :-/

BCRanger10 · Answer

Eh... he really shouldn't.

SweetDripp · Answer

It's not how I'd like a guy to propose to me.

blinkyT8T · Answer

why all the  Overrated Exaggeration  For everybody to see

EmreXxX · Answer

It doesn t matter. If you want you can propose after the saying good morning in bed.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes. It's not the ambient it's the guy.

iCuddleU · Answer

I'd be embarrassed as hell ngl

WhitneySnow · Answer

It’s odd but I’d be fine with it

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

dont propose at all, just dont do it guys

Iron_Man · Answer

No never

jojouzumaki · Answer

yes it is.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I WOULDN'T DO IT

msc545 · Answer

Very tacky.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes.

CVNT5 · Answer

wtf bro

CubaPirate · Answer

Definitely not

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