Girls, would you date/marry a lazy house husband?

[Anonymous]

I admit it, I don't want to work. I'm simply too lazy. I'd rather stay at home, take care of the kids and watch TV. Why is it so difficult to find a girl who's able to deal with me wanting to be a househusband? Women are allowed to work nowadays, so why are men not allowed to stay at home? It pisses me off. Anyway, the question is, would YOU date/marry a househusband?

[Anonymous]

When I lived at home, my dad was a pilot that was 7days on/7days off schedule. On the 7 days off, all he would do was sit around playing video games, and it really pissed me off! Changing the light bulb suddenly turned into a 3 person job because he was too lazy to go get the flashbulb himself and get the latter. And not to mention, whenever it was dinner time, he would come get me, and then when I was out in the kitchen he would tell me to get my brother, WHO WAS RIGHT NEXT TO MY ROOM. So to answer your question, I don't want a househusband because even though my dad was only part time, it annoyed the sh*t out of me. My guy has to do something or I will lose my mind.

[Asker]

LOL.

[BellaBella12]

My Uncle is like that. My Aunt can't work for a few years because she's recovering from a head injury. She's not supposed to be doing much, but when my Uncle is home, he just drinks, eats and watches TV. He can't even cook for himself and when my Aunt went away she had to buy him paper plates and made microwavable meals for him!

He wouldn't even help when they were moving house. It would be so awful to be married to someone like that!

[Asker]

Women should treat their men like KINGS. Women need to serve men (not the other way around).

[Opinion Owner]

Typical of a man, which is probably why you are have a hard time finding a girl to put up with you QA. BellaBella, thank you! I am finally not alone.

[caligirl3]

women should serve men? and work at the same time? god you aren't just lazy, you make a dead person seem active. And BellaBella12 I'm so sorry that your aunt has to deal with a man like that.

[sweetone]

I personally wouldn't because I get turned on by a man that is motivated to work and provide. But I've seen many househusbands and don't see the problem with it. If that is the way you wish to live then who is to judge you on it. I'm sure you can find a woman to take care of you and a family but you may not be able to be too picky and women can be really bitchy especially when given that role with so much power so if I were you I would really think about this and consider all the disadvantages you would be faced with...seriously...take it from me ... I am a woman..

[Anonymous]

My fiancee is a House Husband, I'm the one who goes to work, and for us it work perfect he takes my son to school picks him up and since theyre both males they have fun together.

[Anonymous]

I'm all for sharing an equal burden, and possibly even making that Feminist put her money where her mouth is...

But being a lazy f*** with no ambition that doesn't even chip in towards the most basic tasks is a complete waste of space. Who do you think you are?

And the culture of America has changed. Both parents are expected to work because that's the best way ends meet unless you were born with a silver spoon up your ass.

[crookthings]

I'd be fine with it. However, in one of your comments, you mentioned that you won't clean the toilet? Are you only going to do a certain few things and expect her to do everything else when she gets home? You complain about wanting equality but only when it benefits you (gee, that sounds like what you guys say about feminists all of the time).

[ElijahCynicism]

"Women should treat their men like KINGS. Women need to serve men (not the other way around)."

[snicker]

[crookthings]

Aaahaha yeah, turns out my remark is invalid because nope, he totally doesn't want equality at all.

[Asker]

Thanks for calling me an idiot. Very mature.

"Why would cleaning a toilet make someone feel less "manly"?" I hope you are kidding. You can't be serious. That's like saying: "Why would wearing a pink dress make a man feel less manly?"

"What would you do if you lived alone?" I'd cook, but I wouldn't clean the toilet.

[crookthings]

Don't really care about how mature I seem to an idiot. Cleaning the toilet isn't a gendered activity, you have a warped brain. Have fun living like this: link

[Asker]

LOL it is kind of funny how helpless you are. You call me an idiot yet you are unable to compete with me. What does that tell you?

Cleaning a toilet isn't a gendered activity? That's like saying giving birth is not a gendered activitiy. Tell me, how come there are no professional toilet cleaning men?

[crookthings]

...They're called janitors.

[Asker]

LOL I love how naive you are. You think janitors clean toilets? Honestly, how are we supposed to take you seriously?

[crookthings]

The janitors at my college do, and almost all of them are male. I'm the naive one when you think there aren't men cleaning toilets every day? This is probably the most ridiculous argument I've ever had on here.

[ben890]

This is hilarious... Cleaning my toilet has never had any effect on my gender identity :P It must suck to live so close to the edge of "emasculation" that you can't even take care of yourself?

[Asker]

@ ben: It must suck being a real man? Sorry to disappoint, it doesn't suck. Some men are weak. Their girlfriends tell them to clean the toilets (and they actually do it!). It doesn't get more pathetic than that. Cleaning toilets is humiliating and emasculating. That's not an opinion, it's a fact. What kind of man cleans toilets? A feminine one. Simple as that.

@ crook: Janitors don't clean toilets. Cleaning women clean toilets. I suggest you stop making a fool of yourself.

[crookthings]

lmao yup I must be hallucinating when I see it.

I understand if someone just plain doesn't like to clean the toilet and feels "degraded" when they do it because it's nasty, but that has nothing to do with your penis. You probably think male nurses are all p******, too.

[why-makoto-kun]

Dealing with screaming kids and scrubbing the toilets all day IS a full-time job, not what you're describing.

I don't want kids, but I would never support a man with my career ever. He has to support himself because I never relied on a man for that and never will. I don't know why men keep thinking women are lazy moochers who sit at home watching soap operas and eating bonbons all day.

[Asker]

Scrubbing the toilets all day? LOL I wouldn't scrub the toilet. That's humiliating. Women got away with being lazy for such a long time. It is only fair to change places.

[why-makoto-kun]

Well then, if you can't scrub a toilet, then you have no business not working. I work my ass of at work and scrub my toilets. It's part of not being a useless sack of flesh.

[Asker]

You mean scrubbing toilets is part of being a woman.

[why-makoto-kun]

Scrubbing toliets is part of keeping a clean house. I expect my future husband to scrub them 50% of the time. Perhaps your stink would defile the toilet anyway, as I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't shower yourself.

[Asker]

Witty ;) In all seriousness now, I feel sorry for your boyfriend/future husband. If you expect him to clean the toilet 50 percent of the time you might as well castrate him. A man who cleans the toilet feels emasculated. Do you want your man to be manly or do you want him to turn into a sissy?

[crookthings]

Ohhhh, I understand now, the problem is that you're an idiot. Gotcha.

Why would cleaning a toilet make someone feel less "manly"? What would you do if you lived alone?

[why-makoto-kun]

Aww poor poor man! What about when I have to fix the computer? Or take my car to the dealer? Or pick up the dog poo from the yard? Am I defeminized? No. You just deal with it. Work is work. If he isn't man enough to take a Clorox wipe and some bleach to the toilet, he isn't man enough to be with me. Sounds like you're already castrated if you're fretting so much over a little toilet-scrubbing. Your future wife is not going to be your mommy. And since you refuse to work a job,

[why-makoto-kun]

You can't even hire a maid. Have fun being filthy and alone.

[Asker]

If he isn't man enough to wear a pink dress, he isn't man enough to be with you, right? Women are supposed to clean the toilet (the weaker sex = therefore it isn't humiliating) whereas men are supposed to be manly. Cleaning the toilet is emasculating/equals castrating yourself. A man who cleans the toilet is nothing but a spineless sissy. Are you sure you want to date a sissy? Does it turn you on to watch your sissy husband clean the toilet?

[why-makoto-kun]

Wearing a pink dress is fluffy and frou-frou, aka my job. Hmm since women are the "weaker sex," by your logic, do you feel it is also degrading, not a sign of strength, to give birth?

Again, have fun sitting on your splatters of fecal matter, urine, and intoxication-vomit. I hope no woman puts up with you unless she is a hired maid.

[Asker]

Giving birth is a sign of strength? Since when? You act like it is a heroic thing to do. We know that billions of women have given birth before us. Does that mean every woman who's given birth is a strong and heroic woman? Hilarious logic mistake... don't worry, everyone knows women aren't logical thinkers. That's why I forgive you.

[why-makoto-kun]

Lol wow. Imagine trying to shove a pineapple up your a**hole. The pain of that probably wouldn't even be close to the pain from the stretching and tearing of childbirth. Have fun being a little man-child. Guess who's gonna use her "illogical" brain for a logical profession to treat injured people? Me! Looks like the world is gonna end.

[Asker]

If it's painful, how come so many women have a sh*t load of kids? Are women addicted to pain? The fact that many women give birth over and over again proves it's very painful, right? Your pineapple comparison is hilarious. It is obvious you have no idea about human anatomy. You don't need to use your "logical" brain for a profession to treat injured people. You act like you study math/engineering.

[why-makoto-kun]

Oooh look who's talking about anatomy! Did YOU take a course in it and get excellent grades? I only used the a**hole comparison because guys don't have a vagina and thus cannot imagine what it would feel like. And oh really? So doctors, nurses, and physical therapists don't have to have logical brains? Hmmmmmm.

[Asker]

You didn't answer my questions. You know the difference between an a**hole and a vagina, right? Your a**hole-vagina-comparison is absolutely ridiculous. The human vagina is an elastic muscular canal. The a**hole is not nearly as elastic lol

[BellaBella12]

No. I plan to work and save for future children and I wouldn't feel safe if my husband didn't do that. He would also need to have ambition. The economy isn't so good at the moment.

I always say that I would hate to marry a lazy man. I myself will have time off work when heavily pregnant and on maternaty leave. I will be at home while they are young and make sure I can always be there when they get home from school. But in the mean time, I am going to work and save as much as I can so that I have money to help while I'm not working.

I expect my future husband to take the potential of children seriously as well, otherwise I wouldn't feel like the family would be safe.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

A man like that has no benefit to me or the kids. I might as well just either stay single and childless, or find a man who can pull his own weight. If you're going to be a househusband, you can't be watching TV all day. that house better be spotless, I better have a good dinner when I come home and the kids better be well taken care of (homework done, clean and tidy and well behaved). You don't want a wife, you want a caretaker. You can find a girl willing to do that, but she more than likely won't be very attractive. I know guys who live off women and they are all usually fugly

[ShesSoSilly]

I would be willing to have a househusband but he can't really be that lazy. I mean if he kept up the house like I would myself and took care of the kids then that's fine, but not doing his part and making me do it when I come home from work is not okay. I wouldn't do that if I was a housewife so I expect the same.

[toulouse]

i have no problem with you staying home& taking care of stuff. absolutely fine. its the lazy & I won't clean, part that is not acceptable. no.

u have to be trolling. to write you want to be a house husband, but you won't clean. what do you think people wh stay at home, do. they do EVERYTHING. its easy to take the work, for granted. But the work, it is not at al easy..

[tracyrootsrock]

How could you take care of the kids if you're too lazy to work? That's demanding, hard work that can take an emotional & physical toll if one is unprepared &/or doesn't get support.

Are you actually trying to say that stay-at-home parents are somehow lazy?

[Asker]

They're definitely lazier than people who work, yes.

[tracyrootsrock]

I have no respect for that opinion.

Raising a child IS work.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

Will you cook and clean while you stay in the house?

[Asker]

Cooking yes, cleaning no.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

Laundry?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

no because you'd hire a maid to do all the house work and waste my money

[xxxmegan]

My 'forever alone' senses are tingling!

[why-makoto-kun]

Bahaha yes!

[Asker]

Awww... why do you think you'll be forever alone?

[calialltheway1993]

Why not make everything 50/50?

[caligirl3]

hell noooooo

[Asker]

Why not?

[caligirl3]

cause I don't believe an ambitious person can be with a lazy person. I had a lazy friend and I couldn't even stand that her plans for the future was tomorrows dinner and that was is. When I talked about my plans she spaced out. Who wants that? I think you will work out with a lazy girl, but how will you get money then?

[Anonymous]

You're a eunuch.