i wouldn't try anything as far as giving her gifts is concerned. get to know her a little more first and talk about your interests in a genuine fashion. if she pulls away or finds ways to get out of the conversation fast, she is simply not interested but hey you never know until you try. I made the simple mistake of giving gifts to a girl whom I had good interest in but whom I did not date or was in a relationship with. bad idea right off the bat. it also depends on what personality the girl has. I tend to see that girls with bubbly personalities will more than likely accept the gifts as a sign of friendship ( that is the girls that just see you as a friend.) if she is more serious type then giving something to her like that romantic flowers of duct tape you were talking about is prob a bad idea. she may get scared and mind you this girl was bubbly but shy and she may not want to talk to you for a long time if things don't go right. trust me- personal experience =( I gave a girl cookies every week, she was thankful but she seemed a little confused regarding my interest in her. I later gave her birthday cards, cards when her extended family members passed away etc to show I cared.she never ended up liking me and worse of all we hardly talk anymore =( she could evidently like you but there's really no way till you ask her yourself. just don't escalate too fast otherwise you WILL lose her either for girlfriend or friend or both. don't make the same mistake I did
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No...you do not know if she likes you or not yet...what if she does not...she will assume she can just start to expect things...gifts are meant for girlsfriends/boyfriends...and birthdays/holidays..not "just spur of the moment"...at least not until you know she likes you for sure..
Aww that sounds so sweet! I'd love it for a guy to do that for me. If I didn't see him in that way before then I might start to and if I did like the guy I'd take it as a good sign :')
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Yeh its a good idea bro. As long as its not something serious super serious, like an expensive ring or item of jewelry (or something horrible like trying to buy jeans for a girl) then you are safe. Girls like food too you know! Giving a girl a food item (something that tastes really sweet, like chocolate) will make them associate you with something tasty, and she'll be more likely to want to talk to you and eventually get with you. Lol, it works for me AND on me :) Girls are always trying to make me eat! ha ha think its because I'm skinny or something :P
i think it's a bad idea since you're not really sure how she feels about you.
that's a good idea. it shows you care and likes her
It’s a good idea, give her cupcakes
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