Boyfriend booked a holiday with the "lads" over my birthday

[OneOrTheOther]

Okay, so I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are going strong. But recently, I found out that him and his friends have booked a "lads" holiday to Zante. He is the only one of his friends who isn't single and I am worried that he may sleep with someone out there.

On top of this, he's leaving the day before my birthday as that was the cheapest time to go :/

What do I say to him? He has every right to go but he'll be missing my 18th birthday to do so :/

[69Zuma]

As a female who works in a male dominated field I have realized that most men don't want to cheat on their girl. Guys are simple. They like their life simple. Cheating, even when they are away only complicates their lives. I have witnessed very attractive women trying to pick up taken men and they typically just point out their single friends and move on. In fact have never seen a taken man accept a number from another women. Trust him. Even if he's not very forthcoming about what happened on their trip. Again, males are simple. He probably won't have much to say about his trip other than it was awesome and he missed you.

[takeitnow3]

you just have to trust him.

stay in contact with him when he away