Boyfriend is drunk and I planned a trip for his Birthday, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I planned a spa break away and trip away with my boyfriend of 2 years. We are leaving early tomorrow morning and he is so drunk I can’t be sure he won’t be tomorrow. I’m so anxious, should I cancel the trip or go alone? Please help , hate to be in this situation!! Thanks x

Go without him and try and enjoy it alone

Cancel the trip

[DaveJord]

I would go with out him, and then deal with it when you got back. Sounds fucked up honestly, but you have been dating him for 2 years, so I assume you know this about him. But your in your 30's so I will assume he is to, he should of known better. If he can't get out of bed tomorrow then he has done fucked up!

[Notcreativenough]

I fail to see what the problem is here to be honest. Has this been a problem you've expressed in the past and he hasn't respected it? Why is it not an option to just drive and let him sleep on the way? Then take a portion of your time together to express your concerns about it or wait until you folks get back to talk after. Life's short just go have fun stop complicating things.

[White_Widow]

How much time is there before you leave? And is it that terrible if he's still tipsy on the trip?

[Asker]

13 hours before we leave. He is a bad drinker.

[White_Widow]

He'll be sober enough for the trip then. He might have a hangover, but the spa should help with that

[TacosRAwesome]

Go alone and try to get as much birthday freebies as you can.

[glennos89]

make your descision in the morning to see what his status is. Otherwise go alone or take a friend with you to the spa

[Asker]

Thank you x

[glennos89]

Your welcome 😉

[Guy13]

Did he know in advanced or is this a surprise 🎉

[Asker]

He’s known for a month!!

[Guy13]

Oh my… 🎂

Don’t 👨 🔫. If he doesn’t show. Hopefully 🙏 he is smart enough to not miss this trip….

[Asker]

Thanks x

[Guy13]

😎😎😎