I agree a little. So so many married partners will sleep with other married people. Because no one will ever tell the truth or expose the other. So many married women will sleep with married guys, which means it's not always true guys cheat more or with certain types of women.
The way it was explained to me is that men cheat because it is there. E. g, business trip, goes to red light district, what are the chances his girl could find out? Women cheat because if they feel like their relationship is on life support they cheat, to in essence pull the plug
The statistic that 50%+ of women cheat in marriage is based on sexting, cybering and emotional cheating like flirting. In reality, penetrative cheating happens for only about 10-20% of women, and for men its 20-30%. Those are the real stats.
And this will continue to increase for who knows how long. Men, stay away from relationships.
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Yes it is true. Women tend to be far more riskier now because their is no penalty for cheating, so many men today are beta wimps with no boundaries and let their women get away with shit, and also unless your really, something a woman will have less fair of losing you because some other beta waiting in the wings will take your place.
Women rule the dating game and men are the play things.
Well this one is what I call: "I were naive and now I have trust issues whenever I meet a new woman"
The problem is that the issue went in your head and now you'll drive down that pattern: -trust issues -low self trust Well if you think this way can you even think of yourself as being good enough to have a partner.
I don't like such threads cause the negativity is contagious.
@BubbleBoy69 this is being naive again. How about not expecting a lot. I mean if you love someone you'll still show it in many ways but you can't manipulate someone elses actions so yeah it'll be a hit if the girl does it but you just gotta let it go.
Psychologically there are couples who expect some kind of distrust from each other, expect their partners to be more clingy or controlling (as some kind of "I care about you" act) but.. I don't want that in my relationships so yea it's like a bitter tasting trash filter.
I don't think you know what naive means. What i'm getting at is being so confident in yourself that she is loyal to you that overlook clear signs of slooting. Example - Her wanting to meet up with an ex-BF of hers or if she is coming home later than she usually does.
So what i'm getting at. There is not being controlling but there is also being too confident in how much someone loves you and overlooking questionable behaviour.
women are a waste of time... the world was built up by men. wars fought by men, industrialization was all men, advances in science, math and medicine all men while women are just along for the ride.. womens' claim to fame is that they can take a penis inside them and produce a baby, congrats
People will say that people happy in their realtionship don't cheat, well that is wrong because under certain circumstances women will indeed cheat given the opportunity. I have been the victim of this a few times.
Women love opportunistically and have far more options so the weaker, more selfish kind of women are prone to cheating.
Men and women are both capable of cheating on one another. My brother was in a relationship with is ex girlfriend and she ended up cheating on him. He took her back and she still cheated on him. My brother did the exact same thing and cheated on his ex girlfriend and now is currently married to his current girlfriend. Then again my brother's ex girlfriend was the type who had ex boyfriends and liked to go out and party with her girlfriends to have a good time on the weekends.
@redeyemindtricks I ignored her because that comeback didn't make sense. But I'll play along with you. How is it nicely done?
1- Ad Hominem attack is wrong by default. Let her show proof that I am bashing and being hateful. Let her point out a misogynist comment. I'll wait for it.
2- Where are her facts, and for that matter yours, that refute my facts and the statistics I showed here? See, this is why I ignore these types of comments. They are supposed to be incendiary or something of the sorts. But all they do is support my take, since there's no counter argument or facts to disprove it.
Cherry picking a couple of studies whilst completely ignoring all other opposing evidence is not good enough, sweetie. The reason you don't have a woman (and please, spare me the ''I deliberately haven't got one'' bullshit) is because we can smell your shitty ignorant attitude a mile off.
Ok dude, so, about this formal logic thing of yours. Two things you should keep in mind, not necessarily about this particular take but more generally:
1) Just because logical fallacies are... well... logically fallacious, doesn't mean that they aren't PERSUASIVE. I mean, think about why things like "appeal to emotion" and "appeal to popularity" have names. They have names **because they're rhetorically effective**. If we ever get to the point where our brains are made of NAND gates, then... yh fine, we can dismiss any logically fallacious argument as worthless. Until that point... nope. Because humans are, like, human.
2) And on top of that, a lot of logically fallacious reasoning is conducive to survival and well-being. E. g., "Oh hey, that giant tiger was dangerous. Therefore, I shd treat all giant tigers as dangerous." ^^ If any of our prehistoric ancestors dismissed this as "a logical fallacy" -- which it is, of course -- then the NEXT tiger would just eat them for lunch.
@redeyemindtricks @JuliaHarris Again, if I'm cherry picking these studies (which are official studies), then we must assume there are much more out there so please refer YOUR studies that contradict these and argue all the points made here.
In terms of the fallacies, you both once again failed to quote me on any bashing or misogynist statements that I "supposedly" made. Again, ad hominem attacks and personal attacks do not affect me and won't help your arguments.
Monogamy is fucking stupid anyway. I can't blame em. Their partners suck, they need more... Good husbands don't get cheated on nearly as much. Good wives do.
Yes, that's true. But it probably applies more when considering casual dating, or simply pump and dump. When relationships / marriages are analyzed, though, men's fondness to their partners increases over time or remains steady, while women's decreases. It's also a fact most cases of infidelity are made by women.
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Studies say women are more likely to cheat when married, so I'm never getting married.
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I agree a little. So so many married partners will sleep with other married people. Because no one will ever tell the truth or expose the other. So many married women will sleep with married guys, which means it's not always true guys cheat more or with certain types of women.
The way it was explained to me is that men cheat because it is there. E. g, business trip, goes to red light district, what are the chances his girl could find out? Women cheat because if they feel like their relationship is on life support they cheat, to in essence pull the plug
The statistic that 50%+ of women cheat in marriage is based on sexting, cybering and emotional cheating like flirting. In reality, penetrative cheating happens for only about 10-20% of women, and for men its 20-30%. Those are the real stats.
And this will continue to increase for who knows how long. Men, stay away from relationships.
Yes it is true. Women tend to be far more riskier now because their is no penalty for cheating, so many men today are beta wimps with no boundaries and let their women get away with shit, and also unless your really, something a woman will have less fair of losing you because some other beta waiting in the wings will take your place.
Women rule the dating game and men are the play things.
Well this one is what I call: "I were naive and now I have trust issues whenever I meet a new woman"
The problem is that the issue went in your head and now you'll drive down that pattern:
-trust issues
-low self trust
Well if you think this way can you even think of yourself as being good enough to have a partner.
I don't like such threads cause the negativity is contagious.
What about being too confident in yourself and not seeing the slooting on the wall?
@BubbleBoy69 this is being naive again. How about not expecting a lot. I mean if you love someone you'll still show it in many ways but you can't manipulate someone elses actions so yeah it'll be a hit if the girl does it but you just gotta let it go.
Psychologically there are couples who expect some kind of distrust from each other, expect their partners to be more clingy or controlling (as some kind of "I care about you" act) but..
I don't want that in my relationships so yea it's like a bitter tasting trash filter.
I don't think you know what naive means. What i'm getting at is being so confident in yourself that she is loyal to you that overlook clear signs of slooting. Example - Her wanting to meet up with an ex-BF of hers or if she is coming home later than she usually does.
So what i'm getting at. There is not being controlling but there is also being too confident in how much someone loves you and overlooking questionable behaviour.
Perfect example -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LiZH5eH5eDw
@BubbleBoy69 well if you can sense it then yeah just do what you wanna do
women are a waste of time... the world was built up by men. wars fought by men, industrialization was all men, advances in science, math and medicine all men while women are just along for the ride.. womens' claim to fame is that they can take a penis inside them and produce a baby, congrats
People will say that people happy in their realtionship don't cheat, well that is wrong because under certain circumstances women will indeed cheat given the opportunity. I have been the victim of this a few times.
Women love opportunistically and have far more options so the weaker, more selfish kind of women are prone to cheating.
Men and women are both capable of cheating on one another. My brother was in a relationship with is ex girlfriend and she ended up cheating on him. He took her back and she still cheated on him. My brother did the exact same thing and cheated on his ex girlfriend and now is currently married to his current girlfriend. Then again my brother's ex girlfriend was the type who had ex boyfriends and liked to go out and party with her girlfriends to have a good time on the weekends.
Your take is statistically supported. Good job 👍
All it took was one simple google search to find all the info necessary. And of course the females responding just refuse to accept fact. Typical.
Not this again. If I had a dollar for every my take on GAG that contains bashing and hateful content of the opposite sex I'd be rich!
But @Asker... Burn baby burn. Burn baby burn. Dun dunnananana.
Thanks for the XPERS TOO!
Your logical fallacy is ad hominem
Your logical fallacy is assuming that every ad hominem attack is wrong.
@JuliaHarris Nicely done.
@redeyemindtricks I ignored her because that comeback didn't make sense. But I'll play along with you. How is it nicely done?
1- Ad Hominem attack is wrong by default. Let her show proof that I am bashing and being hateful. Let her point out a misogynist comment. I'll wait for it.
2- Where are her facts, and for that matter yours, that refute my facts and the statistics I showed here? See, this is why I ignore these types of comments. They are supposed to be incendiary or something of the sorts. But all they do is support my take, since there's no counter argument or facts to disprove it.
Cherry picking a couple of studies whilst completely ignoring all other opposing evidence is not good enough, sweetie.
The reason you don't have a woman (and please, spare me the ''I deliberately haven't got one'' bullshit) is because we can smell your shitty ignorant attitude a mile off.
Ok dude, so, about this formal logic thing of yours. Two things you should keep in mind, not necessarily about this particular take but more generally:
1)
Just because logical fallacies are... well... logically fallacious, doesn't mean that they aren't PERSUASIVE.
I mean, think about why things like "appeal to emotion" and "appeal to popularity" have names. They have names **because they're rhetorically effective**.
If we ever get to the point where our brains are made of NAND gates, then... yh fine, we can dismiss any logically fallacious argument as worthless. Until that point... nope. Because humans are, like, human.
2)
And on top of that, a lot of logically fallacious reasoning is conducive to survival and well-being.
E. g.,
"Oh hey, that giant tiger was dangerous. Therefore, I shd treat all giant tigers as dangerous."
^^ If any of our prehistoric ancestors dismissed this as "a logical fallacy" -- which it is, of course -- then the NEXT tiger would just eat them for lunch.
@redeyemindtricks @JuliaHarris Again, if I'm cherry picking these studies (which are official studies), then we must assume there are much more out there so please refer YOUR studies that contradict these and argue all the points made here.
In terms of the fallacies, you both once again failed to quote me on any bashing or misogynist statements that I "supposedly" made. Again, ad hominem attacks and personal attacks do not affect me and won't help your arguments.
Nah. The onus is on the accuser not the defender, that's how it works.
Your username is "the_bright_one", yet all you do is bash women.
Haven't you got anything better to do? :|
There is no excuse for cheating. "B-b-but I didn't feel like he loved me" nah, you're just a sloot.
That speaking is the Rationalization Hamster.
A wheel-spinning hamster in the woman's mind that rationalizes slutty behavior post-fact.
It never stops.
Yeah, so true... Women are the ones who are notorious for having a problem with monogamy.
So I'm guessing the relationship you just got out of ended badly?
Monogamy is fucking stupid anyway. I can't blame em. Their partners suck, they need more... Good husbands don't get cheated on nearly as much. Good wives do.
Yes, but same with men.
Most people (both men and women) cheat.
I would have thought that from a biological standpoint, men are driven more to sleep with as many women as possible?
Yes, that's true. But it probably applies more when considering casual dating, or simply pump and dump. When relationships / marriages are analyzed, though, men's fondness to their partners increases over time or remains steady, while women's decreases. It's also a fact most cases of infidelity are made by women.
Want their cake and eat it too... It's a greedy society we live in these days! WATCH YOUR BACK :+)-