Sleeping over fuck buddy's place? yes or no?

[Anonymous]

My fuck buddy lives kinda far and he said he doesn't mind it but after we fucked he said next time I should just sleep over I asked him why and he said because it was convenient for him since he was tired. I don't think I should sleep over but I also feel bitchy forcing him to take me back home so idk.

should I just tell him I don't wanna sleep over like ever. and if he doesn't agree then should I just end it.

[Sex_Daddy]

He's probably just tried and doesn't want to get dress and drive you all the way back home, plus if you sleep over he can get some extra banging in the morning, it's up to you but if you ask me I would say just leave it to just sex and go home, friends with benefits is just sexual release that's all, if he doesn't want to take you home it may be best for you to just wait til you get a car.

[Anonymous]

If you don't want one of you to develop feelings, then sleeping over is a bad idea. It is best not to have anymore contact with them beyond sex. This is why so many friends with benefits fail. They start to care about one another, beyond just sex.

[Asker]

but I don't really understand how sleeping over makes you car about another I mean we won't cuddle or talk we could just watch something until we fall asleep and the in the morning he can drive me back? I don't know is it really that bad to sleep over? ._.

[Opinion Owner]

The more time you are around that person, the more chance you have of seeing them as a person. Even if you just start to like them as a friend it can effect your relationship. It isn't bad to sleep over, but a lot of people can't handle hanging out with their friends with benefits without at least one of them developing feelings.

[Anonymous]

If he's tired, do you really want or trust him to drive you? Sleep and cars are not the ideal combination

[Asker]

yes that's true so should I just sleep over then?

[sweetestdreams]

Why don't you drive to his house? He's either really tired or wants some bang bang in the morninf

[Asker]

well I don't have a car at the moment. I don't know how I feel about banging in the morning...

[sweetestdreams]

Why don't you go to his house earlier?

[swagswagswag]

Maybe he caught a case of the feels and is trying to use the "I'm too tired to take you home" line as an excuse to spend some time with you. Cause if all this guy cared about was sex he'd most likely rather you leave than spend the night.

[DaisiesGalaxy]

Why not sleep over? you could have a whole night of sex?