If someone can play an instrument is it attractive?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering because I think the ability to play any instrument is an extreme turn on. Just wanna know how other's feel. The most attractive instrument to me is bass because that means a guy knows how to use his hands ;) lol but anything is cool with me tbh. How about you guys?

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+1 y

This isn't just a question for girls. I can play guitar, piano, and I sing and I don't know if guys like that lol. I am a music major so I am surrounded by musically inclined people, I always have been, that's why it is a thing I look for

[steveguitar]

Of course! I would love a girl like that. Someone who doesn't think about makeup all day, what she looks like. Has a passion for something and is likely into exploring it further out of curiosity and almost necessity.

I play guitar and electric bass guitar. Though j don't read music and don't know much about theory, I want to learn it, but on he over hand I feel like I would rather be a spontaneous player rather than knowing I can get this sound by going to 'that fret'... know what I mean?

Also in my avatar pic, there is a purple guitar with gold hardware and the tuners are black chrome (cuz gold wasn't in stock), I made that guitar this past summer. with the guidance of 2 experienced luthiers i routed out the body, set up all of the hardware, wired all of the electronics together by soldering, learned how to mix colors (not that I didn't know blue and red made purple since kindergarten), painted it purple, cared the neck (and got a little too close to the truss rod and got a crack in the neck below the first fret haha), and lacquered and polished the guitar to a nice finish. Now I am trying to get a job in music stores but none seem to be hiring. But I am learning how to make my own guitar and bass pickups so I hope to make some money selling those.

[Asker]

Marry me please xD

[steveguitar]

Lol well an anonymous girl would be tricky to find and really embarassing asking every girl if they are you

[steveguitar]

Does that reaction happen to girls who are not musical? Cuz I don't know many girls who are

[Asker]

We live in different countries you'll never find me lol! But I don'tthink non musical girks give a shit about music to be honest hahaha

[steveguitar]

Yep your probably correct

[Asker]

I don't know I have always loved music. That is honestly the only thing I was ever good at in school lol. So when guys like it to it is always a plus :)

[steveguitar]

So what kind of music do you play? And what do you listen to?

[Asker]

Well I have only been taking piano for a year (But I still count it because I am playing it xD) and I can play chords but I haven't really tried to play music yet only because we haven't gotten that far yet in the lesson lol.
But on guitar I can play some simple rock songs and a few country ones. My guitar is broken so I haven't been able to play in a year or so. But I know enough so If you gave me some simple guitar tabs I should still be able to pick it up pretty quickly. I miss it and I need to fix it, just don't have the time or money. I mean I have three guitars, but the acoustic one is what I am more comfortable with and the one that sounds the best lol.
The instrument that I am most comfortable with is my voice though, because I have been singing longer than I have been playing any instrument. wow after I read this I sound like a poser or something xD. I'm really not lol I am a voice major who can play enough guitar to make something not gross happen and who is learning piano

[Asker]

Oh also with voice I am classically trained so i sing that.

But I listen to a wide variety of rock, punk, some metal, and classical stuff. I am open to anything as long as it has meaning and it isn't just random words

[epiman94]

Shout out for giving bassists a shout out!!! I didn't onow any girls actually appreciated us. I feel like most girls just notice the singer and guitar duides. So thanks! And, As they say, bass player do it deeper. Remember that!

[Asker]

Well I am a singer and I can kinda play guitar so it's easy for me to look past them xD
omg

[epiman94]

Thanks for most helpful!!!

[LoveIsInTheAir1]

Yes, someone who can play an instrument is attractive. Even though I don't major in music, I love to sing, and I would love it if my partner (If I had one), can accompany me with a duet, or maybe play the piano or guitar.
It would make me happy everyday if we can both sing and play instruments together.

However, I guess if they can't it's fine too. As long as they don't find me annoying for singing all day (because that's literally what I do at home all day lol).
If they're athletic, it can replace their inability to play instruments or sing. As long as they play some type of sport (bastketball for example) or maybe learn Taekwondo or karate, i guess that's fine.

[musicbrain5]

It's so attractive. Like it will raise a guy's attractiveness to me by a good 2 or 3 points if he can play well. My SO is an excellent piano player, classically trained, and I can listen to him play all day long, seriously. I'm a music major too, classically trained flute player here :)

[Asker]

oooh flute, interesting choice :)
I am a voice major but I can play enough guitar to call myself a guitarist and I am learning piano :)

[musicbrain5]

Awesome!

[musicbrain5]

Do you sing a lot of opera?

[Asker]

Not too much but I have done a few :) hopefully more in the future

[Anonymous]

Well I play six instruments so yes I like when a guy plays something too ig it's a bit of a turn on lol expsecially if he can sing or play guitar or saxophone or trumpet

[MothMonsterMan]

It's funny, I've played guitar for 20 years, and I'm pretty good. All the girls I ever talk to talk about how guitar is such a turn on for them. But yet, no girl has ever approached me when they see I play guitar. :) Ironic huh?

[Asker]

haha really? that's strange :b I only like guys who can play instruments

[MothMonsterMan]

Well don't narrow yourself too much! ;) Guys know how to use their hands in other ways besides playing an instrument ;)

[Asker]

Omg no that isn't the only reason I like them xD
I am a music major, my whole life revolves around music so if a guy can play something then that is a major plus. Also I have noticed that people who can play instruments well are generally intelligent people.

[AustinMan]

I love people of both genders that play the piano well, particularly if they are, like you, classically trained. They can play for themselves or others or both. It can be very sexy.

[musicbrain5]

Piano is hard to master, but yeah I love piano players as well. My fiance plays for me all the time.

[AustinMan]

They also have some pretty amazing hands. ;)

[musicbrain5]

Yes, lol. Most... not all though :)

Solo flute pieces always require piano accompaniment, so it's awesome to have him there to play and perform with me... I'll never have to hire another pianist :D

[AustinMan]

I've heard that the embouchure for flute endows a lady with some rather interesting talents when it come to the skin flute. Has that been your, and more importantly, your fiance's experience? ;)

[musicbrain5]

Hahaha! I have never heard that before, so who knows. He has no complaints anyways.

[musicbrain5]

I wonder why it makes it better though.

[AustinMan]

Why what makes what better?

[musicbrain5]

I meant why playing flute makes oral better, haha.

[AustinMan]

Duh!!! The exquisite strength and control of the muscles around your mouth. Also make flautists better kissers as a rule.

[musicbrain5]

Ah yeah, that makes sense. Of course, I was only 11 when I started playing so I wasn't thinking about any of that then, lol. But now, yeah I can see how it can be a bonus.

[musicbrain5]

I'm guessing you've kissed a couple of flautists?

[AustinMan]

Hell, I've even been deep throated by flautists. Excellent kissers and cock suckers. They also tend to push all my buttons for things girly which I love.

[musicbrain5]

Haha, nice! I am not terribly girly though. I try, but it looks so forced. Now I'm wondering about all the male flute players out there... :)

[ilovchipmunk]

well, i can play chopin etude and nocturne but i never got a slight benefit of that , the turn on is evanescence only exists in the surprise moment which people just caught me on playing. and then they had stayed for a while and gone. my view is they enjoy it but don't want to live with it. do you want to?

[NovemberJoseph]

Yes. I love girls who can sing or play guitar. The combination of both is even better.
I myself play guitar so right away we'd have something in common.

[Ghosty]

I'm always very impressed by people who can play instruments, because I can't. Not even a bit. I invested my free time in sports, never had the time to learn an instrument.

[musicbrain5]

I'll teach you! haha.

[Ghosty]

:) I'm playing with the idea sometimes, but mostly resulting in the stupid excuse that it's to late and I should excel at stuff I already can do.. That excuse deserves a slap though..

[Ghosty]

@musicbrain5 .. always forgetting the new tag function :)

[musicbrain5]

Never too late, haha. I have students who are older than me!

[Ghosty]

@musicbrain5 Is there any noteworthy progress possible with 21? I listen to a lot of music, but when it comes to "theory" all I know is cdefgh :3.

[musicbrain5]

Yes. Guitar is not hard to learn at any age, and neither is piano if you put your mind to it.

[Asker]

anyone can play an instrument. you just have to find the right one

[Ghosty]

@musicbrain5 I'd love to know how to play piano, violin or saxophone.. You gave me hope. Might think about piano if I have the time. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

HiddenP? I played concert piano for over a dozen years and played some trumpet. I find it to be a beautiful thing and have dated and would love to date musically inclined women.

[Klaatu51]

bass really? most girls find guitarists cool dudes LOL

[Asker]

Bass has such a better sound. Plus I don't need a guitarist because I can kinda play guitar xD
A nice smooth bass line can get me going hahaha

[Klaatu51]

nice.. do you have any favorite bass lines?

[Asker]

Oh oops didn't realize you responded till now haha. I don't really have a favorite, just anything that can pull me in

[Sinister]

Girls who know how to play the piano are a goddamn turn ON for me!

[dulceman]

I personally love girls with musical abilities; especially violists or guitarists. I think it's a turn on if a girl can sing too, nothing like a beautiful voice. Anyways, if you can play an instrument it's never a bad thing

[Wood-Carver777]

I can imagine composing something awesome or even touchy with your girl and both of you are married etc... priceless.

[why_not_anonymous]

It helps. I don't know that it's an extreme turn-on...

[front2back]

Yeah, but I could easily do without it. It would be a plus I guess. I've never been too much into the arts, so that's why it's not a huge deal to me.

[Anonymous]

Just another reason the only way a guy can get a GF is if he has some type of talent. Because God forbid he doesn't have any he's not worth a girls time or is attractive to her.

[Asker]

I wasn't just asking girls lol. I'm asking about guys too. Like I can play guitar, piano, and I sing, and I don't know if guys like that. I like guys by personality first off, not looks. But I am going to school for music so I am surrounded by musically inclined people, that is why I like them.

[Opinion Owner]

That's what all girls say its personality then looks lmfao. You know its looks then income then personality.

[Asker]

If you saw the guys i like you would understand. My friends always ask me why I like ugly guys and I ask them why they can't see how awesome he is

[Opinion Owner]

I doubt the guys you like are ugly?

[Asker]

Well you know what they say, girls generally like guys who are of the same status as them. Also every guy I have ever liked has rejected me

[Opinion Owner]

So if the guys not rich for example he ain't getting no one who is rich. But then again its the majority of men who are rich.

[Asker]

Money is different. I don't want a rich man if that is what you are saying. If I get married I want to at least be able to split the bills. If I am paying more than him there would be a problem. Damn I sound cocky but I don't want to live in a shit hole

[Opinion Owner]

Re read what you just wrote. You said and I'm quoting I don't want a rich man If I get married I want to at least be able to split the bills. Then say If I am paying more than him there would be a problem. To me that comes off as a gold digger in a way.

[Maazin]

I can play any instrument you say but you wouldn't want hear what i produce out of it !!

[ASOIAF]

It has no influence on whether I find someone attractive.

[Anonymous]

It makes me curious and interested but attraction wouldn't be the world to describe it.

[psychedelicfruit]

I play the skin flute xD
Sorry not sorry

[NovemberJoseph]

That sounds so wrong lmao

[Asker]

lol novemberjoseph I'm pretty sure it was supposed to

[Anonymous]

Do u like while your vagina getting licked its same

[tinylatina]

I agree. I think it's rather sexy if he knows how to sing and or play guitar.

[LovelyDomination]

Mmm bass guitar is sexy.

[Anonymous]

When you get mature, it won't matter

[Asker]

Mature? I go to school for music, I don't want to marry someone who can't even pick up a tune

[Opinion Owner]

i didn't read your question right...

If you are a musician, you will definitely be attracted to musically gifted people... as a writer, I feel myself attracted to poets...

[Asker]

hahaha xD it's all good
I can understand that too. I have friends who enjoy writing too :)

[thomasjjeffy]

^ certainly ;)