If I have it and he really needs it, then I have no problem with helping him out. We never know if the person who needs us now, will be the same person we may need later. Just a though!
i'd give him the money. if he's a friend/bf then i'd know he'd have my back when i needed it for an emergency. but if he's asking for big amounts then i'd expect him to pay it back.
My boyfriend never let me pay for anything. So when he does need change, I'm more than happy to give it to him. Compared to the amount of times he paid, it'd be nothing at all.
I would totally agree to give him money duhhh he is my friend / boyfriend. As long as he pays me later. But if it gets to a regular routine of him asking me for money, that's just plane wrong 😒😒
But pride and shit. Sometimes its awkward to explain either that you have the money and really its nothing, or babe I'm trying but I can't. More often than not that discrepancy (depending on ones taste and I don't assume you people have a secret million hidden somewhere [ if so want to hook a brother up?]) doesn't translate to much so...
I reluctantly voted A. I see nothing wrong with a man asking for money if he needs help. Very close-minded and sexist to think so. Don't have much money myself though haha.
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If I have it and he really needs it, then I have no problem with helping him out. We never know if the person who needs us now, will be the same person we may need later. Just a though!
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i'd give him the money. if he's a friend/bf then i'd know he'd have my back when i needed it for an emergency. but if he's asking for big amounts then i'd expect him to pay it back.
If it wasn't anything massive I wouldn't mind as long as he returns money back but otherwise I would have a long think about my decision. Can u answer mine please? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1302930-i-am-planning-to-move-out-but-my-boyfriend-is-really-aggressive-about
My boyfriend never let me pay for anything. So when he does need change, I'm more than happy to give it to him.
Compared to the amount of times he paid, it'd be nothing at all.
It's really not a big deal... why isn't there an option for that? I would just lend him money like I would do for any friend, regardless of gender...
Awww sweet ! Such a rare babe here
I wouldn't mind, as long as it wasn't like 2000bucks then I'll be like... Dude what gang wants to kill you..
Hells Angels... No joke. Well, at least I hope not. They may be reading this.
I'd just ask "How much?"
Not a big deal unless they were just trying to use me for money.
Gender has nothing to do with lending money. Depending on how much, I'd lend money to any of my friends or my friends friends
I would totally agree to give him money duhhh he is my friend / boyfriend. As long as he pays me later. But if it gets to a regular routine of him asking me for money, that's just plane wrong 😒😒
i didn't vote since it's not any of the choices, but i would give him ofcourse and their is nothing weird at all
i wouldn't mind because I would ask for money from him to if he did and its not fair for a guy to pay for everything.
I would vote D. Only in emergency situation and he/she should have a good reason for it. ^^
Or it would be totally weird. :/
I wouldn't care in giving him some money if he needs it as long as is not always.
Vote D, money issue should be transparent even between couples.
Agreed !
But pride and shit. Sometimes its awkward to explain either that you have the money and really its nothing, or babe I'm trying but I can't. More often than not that discrepancy (depending on ones taste and I don't assume you people have a secret million hidden somewhere [ if so want to hook a brother up?]) doesn't translate to much so...
My guy friends and I would spot each other a bunch. No big deal.
As long as he needs it and i trust him to pay it back, I don't care in the slightest.
I reluctantly voted A. I see nothing wrong with a man asking for money if he needs help. Very close-minded and sexist to think so. Don't have much money myself though haha.
Whawha!
I wouldn't really care but if it's constant and I start paying for stuff that's useless then it's a whole different story
If you've been seriously dating the guy for a while and know he really needs it for a legit reason then why not?
If he needs it at the time an will pay me back all he owes I don't have a problem with it. :T