Christian dating an Indonesian Muslim Girl, the best approach to convert her? (Page 2)
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and then you wonder why i channel all my hatred against christians...
Take a step back and realize how low this is of you to try to convert someone, simply because your religion instructs you to or because you feel it's better/more appropriate in some way.
Honest opinion...
Dont waste you're time. Just move on before its too late.
"I could gently point out the flaws in her religion"
Ur a hypocritical piece of shit.
Don't try to change her.
Also... Some people are only muslim by name... I think she is one of them.
"Don't try to change her."
So if this becomes long term, are we going to marry in a Mosque or a Church? and raise our kids muslim or christian...
Don't try to change her. If the relationship is still young, honestly, just leave. And find someone Christian like yourself.
Did a fair bit of googling on the subject myself in my current relationship, @asker. Some couples are able to make it work, but you're hard-pressed to even find a mosque which would recognize such a union. I understand a Catholic church wouldn't even let them stand on the alter.
I recommend you take things one step at a time. Figure out if she's comfortable with you being a Christian first, but don't start a religious debate if it can be avoided.
I am Catholic, and I don't intend to start getting into heated discussions on it. I'm doing it lightly @KHaskins but this is still going to be a problem that isn't easy unless i convert her
You don't need to convert her! Maybe she should convert you!!!
Just leave and find someone from your own religion. Honestly.
What if you two break up? And say that she left her religion because of you? (In islam a person who leaves the religion can never be a muslim again)
Think about how that would make her feel. >_<
In islam, someone who leaves the religion must be killed. i'm not going to become a muslim. fortunately she's not in indonesia and where she lives tehre aren't many muslims to kill her. i wouldn'y rish it for my own kids.
you've not logically thought about the situation, more emotion sinfce you're too young
That you're steadfast in your wish to convert her doesn't bode well for the future.
She shouldn't need to change who she is as a person for the relationship to work.
So you want to risk her being killed by her family? And by the way.. Most Muslims don't get killed if they leave the religion unless it's in Saudi arabia
She is not a true Muslim as she doesn't follow almost all things you mentioned...
the question would be, what if she wants you to convert to become a Muslim? what would you feel about that, if she was asking the same question?
abort mission bro, right now!
Marriage then forced conversion.
Honour and the Sword