I asked if he liked me...he didn't answer!

[Anonymous]

yesterday in the night I text this guy I like and have been hanging out flirting and even kissed.

i texted him saying,

"hey are you buzzy ?. can I ask you something?"

he called me the next minute.

we talked and I notice he wouldn't answer my question so I asked

"do you like me?"

he told me that on the weekend he wsa going to tell me but since I had to go home really quick he didn't take me home or even got to talk to me in privet so he said he got a little mad.

noticing he didn't answer my question again I had asked AGAIN!

than he told me he wasn't going to tell me because he wanted to tell me in person when we hang out.

why do you think he wants to tell me in person?

is he just playing with me?

does he not like me?

later on I texted him saying ,

"you suck I just wanted yes or no as an answer and I don't really care if you don't like me so I won't trip."

he text and said

"can you come out right now so we can kick it?"

i said I couldn't it was too late it was already 3 am... than he just told me alright ill see you tomorrow.

what is he thinking can I get some opinions?...I'm just scared of what he might say .. and why couldn't he just tell me in text or on the phone?

[VampSoldier]

Sounds to me like he likes you. He sounds much like myself in that he is a shy guy and prefers to do it face to face. If there are feelings there then odds are he wants you to fully understand them and text never says enough.

The fact you told him he sucked and got annoyed at him probably hurt him a lot so one of the first things you might want to do is apologise to him when you see him. Also the fact he wanted to see you right that minute suggests that it really is something positive.

Sometimes the words can fall short on us guys and if he is anything like myself, we always feel like anything we say won't be enough to express how we really feel. It is much better he tells you in person as he can really express in words how he feels, even if the words don't come out of his mouth.

Just be supportive of him and help him find his words, not force them out. You'll be fine and best of luck with this. Let us know how it goes! ^^

[Asker]

Yeah I have noticed he is very shy. and he doesn't really express his feelings. but today I am going to see him hopefully and ill tell you guys what happend. and thanks you really helpd me out!.

[nymphoman]

Could go either way, he may have it in his head that the most responsible thing to do is explain how he feels about you in person.

Find out what he actually thinks of you and what he wants so that you can both be on the same page and if it will work.

[YoungNConfused]

I wouldn't be scared if I was you. If he wants to talk to you in person about it &+ he keeps talking to you about how he wants you guys to hang out, odds are he wants to tell you in person that he likes you, a lot of guys are like that, it'll show they are more interested than you think. It's actually a pretty good sign I'd say. So don't be scared. :] The phone//texting is usually considered impersonal is all.

[babybear13]

He wants to tell you in person how he truly feels for you. You should be happy about that because he has feelings for you and wants you to know and ask you to be his girlfriend he also might think its better to tell you in person to see how you will react and everything just give him a chance and since you said to him that he sucks he wants to tell you now badly

[Asker]

Omg. thank you soo much I have been just thinking if he is going to say something bad. but now you have changed it to somthing positive. thank you.

[4everbebe]

i think he likes you, he just teasing you tho lol boys are sooooo confusing much

[stktder]

It is obvious that he does like you. I say this because he responds to you very quickly. Another thing that tells me that he likes you is when you got upset at him, he kept his cool and wanted to talk to you in person. I think you should calm down and let him talk. Don't be so pushy for an answer when YOU want it.

[Hughman]

This guy knows what he's doing. He may like you, he might not. If he does, then he has strong honour cpde. If he doesn't, he knows how to keep you interested.

Get the answer out of him in person the next time you see him. If he evades again, then you know he's just playing games.

[Anonymous]

If he didn't like you he would probably want to make it really clear really fast and probably with the most distance between the two of you. If he tells you without it being in person, it might become somewhat awkward the next time you do meet. (Now you both know... so do you touch, do you kiss?) It makes it mechanical and lacks spontaneity. He's just thinking one step ahead. (And probably taking a little too long.) Don't press him. Just make sure your next meeting is in an uncrowded environment condusive to expressing your feelings for each other.

[stercor]

Well, you can't expect anything civil because you replied in a stinging manner.

I hope he sees this issue and dumps you. Maybe you'll learn to be nicer to people.

Ted

[Asker]

First of all that's the way we talk to each other and second of all we are not going out so he can't dump me.

[Asker]

And also I am a very nice sweet girl already.

[HopeIessRomantik]

Personally, Id rather admit that I like someone in person that over the phone. I think he likes you

[naenae]

maybe he just likes to tell people important things to their face instead of over the phone