Got my ass beaten !! I had to cut my own switch. God help me if it was too small.
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I was whipped with a belt in the buttocks and tell us why we got smack...
''Made to kneel on salt or grains of rice'' are you Asian?
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Yes haha. Kneeling on grains of rice is classic punishment but my parents didn't punish me that way because it was wasting food I think. They were disciplined that way though. My dad was the one who belted and I was told before or after why that happened to me. Sometimes during but mostly before the discipline. Are you Asian?
I don't think it's barbaric but it's just so painful and you won't be able to stand after. My mom was verbal too but she could get physical as well. Don't you think the lecturing is just as bad as the physical?
Not as bad.. Most of the time it's awkward to have that lecturing after you've got a RED ASS haha and crying (I was crying).. In my head I'll I'm thinking is leave me alone!!
@Mesonfielde yes, also at that same time we had no refrigerator all if our refrigerator only items were stored in a cooler that had ice in the bottom. I lived like that for 2 months. . It was also summer. With no air conditioning
My dad used the belt and only came into the picture when I did something so terrible that my mom didn't think she could discipline me properly. My older brother never did that to me though. I can imagine the dilemma your sister must've been in
she's 10 years older then me and when I got older we would have bad fist fights, my head would bleed because she kept pushing me aginst the edge of the wall.. And now a few years ago she Destroyed my life. I will never speak to her or see her again Its that bad
She was hard on me. When I was between the ages of 7 and 10 we would get into some serious fist fight where she would put it on me hard jumping with all her weight up and down on my stomach she was so much bigger then me and older. We got along when I was an adult because she moved away and would come down for Christmas and of course you put your best face on for that, but the later years she one time left me stranded at the airport in Atlanta and told my girlfriend good luck to ya for us catching the next flight out tomorrow, so in that case we had to both sleep on the Airport floor. She was always Jealous of me and stuck it to me so hard at the end doing what she did It destroyed my life and that was that.
No I did not. I am the youngest son and she's very spoiled and was born with a silver spoon in her mouth and got everything she wanted and much more and I came along and got some things and my Dad Did something big for me and she was left out her and my brother, but she got very bitter but my brother never did and always stayed loyal to me and the rest of the family
won't ever happen Its already done. She could have stopped it all and we tried to work something out she Ignored her brothers and yet she still pulled the trigger we will never break bread again
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Getting yelled at was the main way I got disciplined.
I was never hit in anyway. My mother would threaten to belt us but never did it.
A mix of restricted from certain things and slapped in the face.
Got my ass beat with a feather duster, if that broke then the hand to the buttocks.
I got strippied naked and my clothes would be locked away and for more minor offences my finger nails would be painted.
Belted, spanked, went to bed without supper, yelled at, and grounded.
Got my ass beaten !! I had to cut my own
switch. God help me if it was too small.
I was whipped with a belt in the buttocks and tell us why we got smack...
''Made to kneel on salt or grains of rice'' are you Asian?
Yes haha. Kneeling on grains of rice is classic punishment but my parents didn't punish me that way because it was wasting food I think. They were disciplined that way though. My dad was the one who belted and I was told before or after why that happened to me. Sometimes during but mostly before the discipline. Are you Asian?
LOL Yes I am.. I think kneeling down on grains of rice and even more so to salt it barbaric. I could just imagine the acute pain..
Same, my dad is the one that did the belt thing. My mom is soft and nice. Her way of dealing is more on verbal like shouting.
I don't think it's barbaric but it's just so painful and you won't be able to stand after. My mom was verbal too but she could get physical as well. Don't you think the lecturing is just as bad as the physical?
Not as bad.. Most of the time it's awkward to have that lecturing after you've got a RED ASS haha and crying (I was crying).. In my head I'll I'm thinking is leave me alone!!
Same haha!
I was spanked with a wooden paddle that they made
They made a wooden paddle? My parents just used fashion items
yea they made it hurt it was kind of like the hazing paddle... they broke one on me before
Ouch that must've been extremely painful
yea it was. . anyway someone turned them in and no more paddle
Someone called the police on them? Hahahaha, serves them right.
@Mesonfielde yes, also at that same time we had no refrigerator all if our refrigerator only items were stored in a cooler that had ice in the bottom. I lived like that for 2 months. . It was also summer. With no air conditioning
Your parents were odd.
@Mesonfielde it was my grandparents, weren't very responsible they let our house be foreclosed
Did it leave red marks and welts
@Jamieboo23 sometimes yes
I was spanked with a paddle too I couldn't sit that's how bad if stung
@Jamieboo23 I will never do that to my son definitely traumatizing
Yea I probably won't spank either unless he does something really bad the probably just a few smacks with my hand
@Jamieboo23 agreed
I would cry for a hour or two the redness and pain can not for got
@Jamieboo23 me to, then would get called names for crying
Yelled at for hours on end.
That's gross. I hated the lectures more than the physical pain
Ugh, I can relate. I wish neither of us could, though.
Yelled at and grounded, never spanked.
Well we could still try the spanking
@ihav2fart... well okay 😏
*warming my hands up*
All of them except for the kneeling in rice one.
Spanked by a paddle or a hand
How about all of the above plus a few more.
I was spanked with a belt
I was at times too
It worked for me I turned out well and respect my Dad
Same. I respect my parents. My dad disciplined me that way and my mom just yelled and threw stuff at me if was extremely angry.
My Dad did most of the spankings. My sister did at times and was to hard for her being my sister
My dad used the belt and only came into the picture when I did something so terrible that my mom didn't think she could discipline me properly. My older brother never did that to me though. I can imagine the dilemma your sister must've been in
she's 10 years older then me and when I got older we would have bad fist fights, my head would bleed because she kept pushing me aginst the edge of the wall.. And now a few years ago she Destroyed my life. I will never speak to her or see her again Its that bad
... why would she do that? That's pretty terrible of her
She was hard on me. When I was between the ages of 7 and 10 we would get into some serious fist fight where she would put it on me hard jumping with all her weight up and down on my stomach she was so much bigger then me and older. We got along when I was an adult because she moved away and would come down for Christmas and of course you put your best face on for that, but the later years she one time left me stranded at the airport in Atlanta and told my girlfriend good luck to ya for us catching the next flight out tomorrow, so in that case we had to both sleep on the Airport floor. She was always Jealous of me and stuck it to me so hard at the end doing what she did It destroyed my life and that was that.
She doesn't sound pleasant. Why is she jealous of you? Did you do something to her?
No I did not. I am the youngest son and she's very spoiled and was born with a silver spoon in her mouth and got everything she wanted and much more and I came along and got some things and my Dad Did something big for me and she was left out her and my brother, but she got very bitter but my brother never did and always stayed loyal to me and the rest of the family
Oh... well I hope she sees the error of her ways and ends up reconciling with you.
won't ever happen Its already done. She could have stopped it all and we tried to work something out she Ignored her brothers and yet she still pulled the trigger we will never break bread again
If I had been beaten by a belt, I would no longer keep contact with my parents at all.
Spanked by a paddle