Do you ever feel like you are never anyone's first choice? (Page 3)

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What I mean is that no matter how close you are with someone, they ALWAYS have someone they're a lot closer with. You're always the second option, or even third or fourth. You're NEVER anyone's first choice. I feel like that's how it has always been for me, everywhere I go, with all the friends, everything. Even when it comes to crushes, you may find out that a boy likes you, just to later realize they like someone else more :( I just wanna be someone's first choice for once in my life.

Anyone can relate? Anyone? How do ya deal with feeling like garbage basically?

MysteriousFlower · Answer

I'm not even second choice. Be your own person, basically.

usernameisnttaken · Answer

I feel that way all the time. I'm only the first choice when they need/want something other than that I'm more an afterthought

madiangel · Answer

sometimes but not never, it depends who I am with...

Anonymous · Answer

I guess trying to stay positive. I always feel like I'm in last place. Feels like being sick sometimes. Really depressing. :(

But i try to get through it one day at a time and hopefully one day someone will be different.

cherry_22 · Answer

I 1000% can telate to this. This is a fact for me.

blondfrog · Answer

Yeah of course that's just life

Anonymous · Answer

I know I'm never anyone's first choice.

smahala1991 · Answer

I feel like that many times honestly :(

Watermelonoma · Answer

i know how you feel girly.

zell0is0my0name · Answer

Welcome to my life :D

Ashely_Princess · Answer

I KNOW RIGHT omg I know how you feel girly :(

bubbletrouble · Answer

Most people settle. That's nature.

moebond2 · Answer

This is the first time I disagree with you tbh

Jared____ · Answer

Ya been there its the worst 😭

Princessofpersia · Answer

I'm not even anyone's any choice

Do you ever feel like you are never anyone's first choice? (Page 3)

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